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[kiwichyck]

A word from MR Kiwichyck

It has been a fun and interesting experiment for me. It has been confusing and frustrating at times but practise makes perfect. Since my wife has started searching these forums and reading threads she has become much more open about her feelings and communicating to me what is going on while we are making love (for a change LOL).

Everyones advice has been welcome and appreciated. We have been learning a great deal reading all of your comments. This thread has now become a mandatory multi-times-a-day read for us together.

Recently we have found other vaginal areas to explore, that after talking with eachother, we believe that may hold the key to her 'imminent' release (Heres hoping!)
Still firmly believe that a lot of the barriers are due to ingrained thinking and inhibitions. Trust is not an issue here, but I still think that there is a certain amount of 'letting go' which needs to happen.

Obviously we will keep you informed. This has been a very pleasurable journey for the both of us. Although the end result hasn't been the ultimate g-orgasm, what we have acheived so far has exceeded our expectations. Not only sexually, but we also feel closer, communicate better and more frequently, and our libidos have increased - it's like feeling like a teenager again, and first discovering sex. We are both far more open to trying new things together and letting go of our inhibitions as a couple. There are still boundaries in everything that we try and we discuss them daily.

We have gone from practically never discussing sex, to always talking about it. At the start of the day we discuss what happened the night before (in great detail) As an example.....

kiwichyck wanted to try some spanking. During one of our morning talks she bought up an interest in spanking. Nothing else was said about it but that night away i went,hand only, and she loved it.Next morning we talked about it and she admitted that she loved it but not quite the sensation she was after."can you try the ruler tonight please" she asked.Within about 30 minutes we had discussed not only the ruler but what not to do.That night was even better, she was finally able to let go completely.Now it is a regular occurance.

I am sorry about the length of this but felt it was time that my 2 cents worth was added. This is not an instant thing.We have been together for 14 years and we are still working at it. I suppose all of this is just to add encouragement to all those couples trying but with limited results.Keep at it.I know it pays off....in lots more ways than one or two.

Thanks all for your help.

 

[MR.GGG]

What I read from your note more than anything else is the potential that most couples have when there is trust and love. Sometimes it takes a bit of a kick to get things going or going again as you mentioned but the potential is always there.

I stated early on in the thread that I thought that perhaps many of the women who were not reacting to this technique were doing so on purpose and by that I mean due to religious, cultural, family or other self-imposed constraints or limits. I got blasted pretty good by a few for saying that (NOT PC!!) but I still think it's true. Many women do not want to and will do everything they can NOT to lose control especially during the intimate and vulnurable act of sex. Lack of trust? Lack of self confidence? Who knows but your note exemplifies how good things can get if there is love, trust and a willingness to explore together and to drop the silly self imposed limits that some feel they have to live within.

I couldn't help smiling when you related the incident where SHE requested some spanking action. I have yet to find a woman who didn't enjoy / get off on that ummm variation. Your DW mentioned the difference between Ooooo and Oooorraaauugghhs ( or something to that effect) and I think spanking is something like that. It is primordial. It is the alpha male TAKING his woman (usually from behind) and whacking her to show her he's boss or whatever. The sensations go waaay back in our psyche. I've known women to begin to dribble when whacked. I've only had one lady who wanted to go way farther than I did (too intense & too soon) but what we did do we still enjoyed. I've known ladies - 2 now - who physically enjoyed it but mentally analyzed it to pieces later and decided it was "wrong" or scary. One lady told me it just hurt and so I stopped even though I had observed what her body was saying when I did it (lightly and very much part of sex VS any kind of S&M scene which, BTW, doesn't do anything for me) to her. About 4 months after I stopped she brought it up late one night ... "you haven't spanked me for a long time ... " and she lay over my lap. Nope. You could tell she hated that! She didn't "think" it was right but then her bum, over a period of months explained to her that maybe it wasn't so bad after all. It was a very cute and intimate moment. Anybody who has tried this, BTW, will testify as to how closely the nerves from a woman's bum and her clit are wired together.

Anyway, the other hurdle is those who enjoy the sensation but associate it with abuse / hitting. To me the act of lovingly spanking a beautiful bottom who is squirming around and sometimes getting a good G-Spotting at the same time is about as far removed from physical abuse and hitting as you can possibly get. I have to say that in the rare incident the feeling is mutual. I've had a couple of ladies decide that a good swat to my rump was what I needed to crank things up a notch or three during sex and this is something I'd be willing to explore further. Of course I don't have a GSpot that can mix multiple orgasms and a spanking at the same time so whatever the turn on it is in my head at the moment and possibly physical at some time in the future if it is done in that same loving / sexual way that I mentioned above. Who knows.

I'm glad that the thread has contributed to your opening up and turned you guys into horny teenagers again. You wouldn't believe how many times that phrase has been emailed and PMed to me re: this thread and the technique. I experienced it myself and maybe 250 notes to me stated the same so you're not alone in "coming out" as *surprise surprise* highly charged sexual beings. It's great you took the time to write. Thanks and it is encouraging to others who may be in your position too. None working GSpot- yet - but DAMN we're having a blast all of a sudden trying.

Thanks again.

 

[vanelane]

kiwichyck, do you have a pyrex dildo? For me, it is a terrific stimulater of the G-spot. (I ask because you mentioned being a bit beyond his reach.) The pyrex is a very nice tool for this because it's so firm. Just my 2 cents.

 

[kiwichyck]

kiwichyck, do you have a pyrex dildo? For me, it is a terrific stimulater of the G-spot. (I ask because you mentioned being a bit beyond his reach.) The pyrex is a very nice tool for this because it's so firm. Just my 2 cents.

Nah I don't. We're still pretty new to the world of toys. Our next purchase will probably be a g-spot vibe. I'm not so sure about the pyrex. Although I've heard good things, so far my personal preference has been for not-so-hard toys. All I got so far is a cyberskin dildo and a vibrating egg.

 

[amutantman]

and me....hehehe

 

[kiwichyck]

bump....

Back to page one you go!!

 

[flickmypeanut]

Hello. This is indeed very much fun - speaking as a woman though, I would like to let all fellas know that there is a fine line between making your lady feel like she is having sex and visiting the gynaecologist!!! Don't get too intent on finding it but be reassured that it is indeed there somewhere...

The G Spot feels like a dry roasted peanut for those who want to know - how do I know? Check the name and see!!!

Have fun everyone....
xx

 

[midwicket]

Deserves a humping bump - back to the top of the board.

 

[smilinjenn]

Hello all!! I thought I would post this link for those of you in search of how to make women squirt throught Gspot stimulation. There are a couple of free clips on this link. The fist containing Cytheria, Queen of squirting in the porn world. The second clip is more representative of how I squirt. Anyway, have fun.... it's quite amazing!

http://www.squirting101.com/page1.html?w=102648&s=17&p=2

 

[kaledonia]

research going well...

...still no ggasm, still having fun exploring, but WOW have I turned into a squirter! great feeling of release, but not an up and over sensation at all. I do have to consciously 'let go' and SO highly delighted, but I think thats maybe because he's comparing the sheer amount..about 2 cupfuls on first attempt, slightly less as session extends (yes, can be several times!)...to the masculine offering. and I can do this with piv or fingers, (mine or his). Keep up the good work, y'all.

 

[smilinjenn]

Just a little tip... the more water you drink, the more volume you will produce. So drink before, during and definitely after, to prevent dehydration.

...still no ggasm, still having fun exploring, but WOW have I turned into a squirter! great feeling of release, but not an up and over sensation at all. I do have to consciously 'let go' and SO highly delighted, but I think thats maybe because he's comparing the sheer amount..about 2 cupfuls on first attempt, slightly less as session extends (yes, can be several times!)...to the masculine offering. and I can do this with piv or fingers, (mine or his). Keep up the good work, y'all.

 

[Gil_T2]

I'm up late at night here in Aussie & often have the today show on from NY i think, they did their normal outside in the plaza thing & there was a lady in the crowd with a big smile holding a sign with "THANKS MR G".

I wonder.

 

[blkmack]

I'm going to try this tonight on my wife. Wish me luck

 

[kiwichyck]

I'm going to try this tonight on my wife. Wish me luck

Good luck!
And please don't forget to report back!

 

[kaledonia]

has anyone tried...

...printing out 'the technique' and enclosing it (with the literotica header, of course) in birthday cards to girl/guy friends? I've been doing it for a while, and sometimes get a rewarding smug look from recipients. not everyone can bare their soul...as it were.....******* even though this community is mostly anonymous. bumping up the chart nicely!

 

[kaledonia]

turn on....

...with this thread! can't believe its gone to page two. its too important. there must be others watching...surely there arwe more comments and advice circulating, or has it met its natural conclusion? are you there, mr g? hope you are well. is anybody out there? doesnt anyone care any more? ...sob. this thread has been part of my life for nearly a year, and I'm convinced it has brought much pleasure to thousands of people, including myself. looking forward to further experimentation next week. but I'll have to post findings elsewhere if nobody responds here. sigh

 

[herecomestherain]

kaledonia hi! Your enthusiasm for this thread is wonderful. I still love getting email notifications whenever someone post here. I think we've pretty well knitted this technique and few personal variations so well into our lovemaking that it's just second nature if you know what I mean. I like hearing about how other folks are doing!

A mwah to Mr G too.

 

[kiwichyck]

Indeed a great thread.

I always check back when there is a new post.

We are still in the throes of 'getting it right'

 

[Gil_T2]

Indeed a great thread.

I always check back when there is a new post.

We are still in the throes of 'getting it right'

but isn't the exploration fun.

 

[amutantman]

but isn't the exploration fun.

Indeed it is. Any pointers?

 

[MR.GGG]

Hi ya'll

I haven't visited in a while. I'm still waiting to move to AZ ... - ... or not. All up to the wife now. We've been apart so long now I think she's having second thoughts so ...? We'll know soon I guess but I feel a little out of touch with the whole GSpot thing because I'm so out of practice. I could say she doesn't know what she's missing but SHE DOES so clearly there are other issues. I'd love to continue the research but while I'm married it has to be with my designated research "subject" and that won't resume until I join her - or not. I'll let you know what's happening. I may join the lecture circuit if the marriage gets trashed. Wish me luck.

WOW - 240,000 ++ readers to date. I wonder what % of people have found that the technique really works? What a hoot to know that a little post (and ALL the great responses) so many years ago now could have such a profound effect on the Global Orgasm quotient. Sue - from my last life - would have been SO pleased that I'd shared the technique and so many people had responded and in such a friendly (mostly) way and with so much advice for the people still trying to make it happen. Thanks again to ALL of you.

 

[fountain]

Yeah, that's the ticket

I am beginning to tingle. M is on a business trip, so I 'll have to run the marathon on my own! It's gonna be a long week...

 

[kaledonia]

glad to hear that..

..you are all still out there, experimenting or at least imagining experimenting, all over the planet. This is really only a bump, as I see the thread going up the list at long last. my own experiment will restart on Thursday, but I've just started a new job, and have realised that there are lots of folk who could receive an anonymous tip, or at least an unsolicited link.......!

 

[MR.GGG]

Agreed

Since first posting the Technique I've enjoyed passing the link on to people who I think may need it to help in their lives. I don't give it to just anybody because some would no doubt take offense but there are lots of people. I've heard women complain about men's lack of knowledge re: the female form and what / where the right buttons are, how hard they can be poked, etc. This technique changes all that. I've enjoyed watching some couples I know become demonstrably closer - much more touching and cuddling when I've seen them together and that's after YEARS of marriage or being together. A few friends who know it's ME who posted this have told me they feel like teenagers again. A few, sadly, haven't even tried it because they didn't want to arose suspicion on the part of their partner. After so many years of routine lovemaking they felt that that radical a change would only invoke the 3rd degree (WHERE did you learn THAT????) so they didn't feel it was worth it to even try. Sad.

One of the best things it does for both men and women is give a sense of sexual self confidence that many have never had before. All of a sudden they are STARS. He can give his partner multiples where there were only single O's before or the rare double. All of a sudden he's making (MAKING) her cum a dozen times or more on an average night. She feels satisfied, loved and also like she has suddenly discovered this talent that she never knew she had before. They both shine ... and that's what it's all about.

Enjoy the research.

 

[kiwichyck]

Just a bump.