kiwichyck
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Well...
We had a go at this technique a little while back with not much success. I did a bit of exploring on my own and orgasmed while rubbing my G alone. It felt like a super intense clitoral O to me, I didn't persist, one was enough, I felt like I had pretty accurate directions for DH.
So we had another go last night. AWESOME stuff. Felt great, went along with the 'needing to pee' sensation. I found the stimulation better if I did the whole 'bearing down' thing. I actually felt like I was having a dry pee (but with pleasure LOL). Slight problem though, kept up with it for a good half hour and NO orgasm. Not one! Not to say it wasn't enjoyable, and the sex afterward was awesome, felt like the G was 'switched on' but just couldn't get over the edge *sigh*
Any suggestions over and above persistance?
And on another note regarding the A spot. I originally actually thought it was my G Spot. It's a similar sensation. I've found the best position for hitting the A is riding DH with great vigour LOL. But I've also found the need to reign it in a bit. Had one particular instance where I got too rough, my cervix got a harsh "bang" and I was in agony for 2 days. (Think about the pain of IUD removal for those of you that know!)
I've also had four kids, and although I'm also NOT a medical professional, I can see no reason why not to try this G technique with care. A regular clitoral orgasm in pregnancy would always send me into a series of painful braxton hicks contractions, but with no adverse effects to baby and certainly no premature labour (or full term labour either LOL). IMHO a good G Spot (or any other) orgasm triggering childbirth in a healthy pregnancy is no more risky than being constipated.
We had a go at this technique a little while back with not much success. I did a bit of exploring on my own and orgasmed while rubbing my G alone. It felt like a super intense clitoral O to me, I didn't persist, one was enough, I felt like I had pretty accurate directions for DH.
So we had another go last night. AWESOME stuff. Felt great, went along with the 'needing to pee' sensation. I found the stimulation better if I did the whole 'bearing down' thing. I actually felt like I was having a dry pee (but with pleasure LOL). Slight problem though, kept up with it for a good half hour and NO orgasm. Not one! Not to say it wasn't enjoyable, and the sex afterward was awesome, felt like the G was 'switched on' but just couldn't get over the edge *sigh*
Any suggestions over and above persistance?
And on another note regarding the A spot. I originally actually thought it was my G Spot. It's a similar sensation. I've found the best position for hitting the A is riding DH with great vigour LOL. But I've also found the need to reign it in a bit. Had one particular instance where I got too rough, my cervix got a harsh "bang" and I was in agony for 2 days. (Think about the pain of IUD removal for those of you that know!)
I've also had four kids, and although I'm also NOT a medical professional, I can see no reason why not to try this G technique with care. A regular clitoral orgasm in pregnancy would always send me into a series of painful braxton hicks contractions, but with no adverse effects to baby and certainly no premature labour (or full term labour either LOL). IMHO a good G Spot (or any other) orgasm triggering childbirth in a healthy pregnancy is no more risky than being constipated.
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vanelane said:We buy you books, we send you to school.....
"To think of all the education that I missed, I never thought that homework would be ever quite like this.....got it made, got it made, got it made....I'm hot for teacher...". (Edit: ref. Van Halen for those still wet behind the ears
)"{sometimes a song gets stuck in my head....
}-JB
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Hmmmm...
Hmmmm ... If you've brought yourself to a G-Gasm I can't see any reason why your Dh couldn't bring it on. Could there be some issues on your part about losing control? I know that actually scares a lot of women when they experience this for the first time especially when their partner goes a little power crazy too and won't let them stop! If you're a tad nervous of that happening then maybe your mind is holding back a bit. Maybe your DH could administer a few good swats on your bum on occasion just to reinforce in your brain that the object of this exercise is ORGASMS and no slacking off will be tolerated !! The whole thing can turn into a fun very mild S&M kind of scene.
Maybe time of the month has a bearing on it too. I would keep experimenting. It's always fun, feels different in various positions and I'm sure that if you've achieved G-Gasms on your own, something is going to trigger off when he continues his "research." Once you G-gasm with your DH using this technique you'll likely find that you can achieve orgasm(s) in about a minuet and a half to two minutes - any time - anywhere and he can keep you G-gasming for as long as you can take it. Longer !!
MOST doctors will tell most women that under most conditions sex during PREGNANCY is OK and I'd agree HOWEVER this TECHNIQUE is different from what most doctors are familiar with. It does not produce the sucking muscle contractions of a clitoral orgasm. It produces a series of push OUT contractions along with, I suspect, and increase in endorphins, elastocizers and various other hormones associated with calving.
Having posted the original TECHNIQUE a couple of years ago now I have on many occasions throughout the thread warned AGAINST using this especially during the final trimester JUST IN CASE. The idea of increasing pleasure and orgasmic potential to so many women and couples all over the world is immensely gratifying. I get emails and PMs all the time and that is great BUT I would be devastated if a couple used this technique and ended up losing a baby because of the resultant contractions. I think (and I'm NOT a doc either) that the risk of this particular type of sexual activity and the type of orgasms it initiates is JUST NOT WORTH THE RISK. I'll say it again. It might be fine for most couples who are preggers BUT is the risk worth it? I don't think so. Back off the Ggasms for 3 months and let the tyke develop in peace and normal quiet orgasms. GAWD experiencing a series of GSpot orgasms in the womb must feel like living through a Banda Ache earthquake. Women who routinely have G-Gasms probably have little trouble with childbirth due to the fact they are doing the childbirth equivalent of multiple pushups every time they experience the Technique so that's probably a good thing. Good muscle tone is a definate bonus for all sex and expect that goes double for childbirth.
Measure the risk. I don't think it's worth it. I'm on record in here no matter what the doctors say. Bottom line is leave it alone for 3 months. The TECHNIQUE is a bit of a wild ride. Pick it up again after she's calved. Have fun with it before but just don't take the risk after the 4th or 5th month. There's LOTS of other stuff you can do to satisfy each other.
kiwichyck said:
Hmmmm ... If you've brought yourself to a G-Gasm I can't see any reason why your Dh couldn't bring it on. Could there be some issues on your part about losing control? I know that actually scares a lot of women when they experience this for the first time especially when their partner goes a little power crazy too and won't let them stop! If you're a tad nervous of that happening then maybe your mind is holding back a bit. Maybe your DH could administer a few good swats on your bum on occasion just to reinforce in your brain that the object of this exercise is ORGASMS and no slacking off will be tolerated !! The whole thing can turn into a fun very mild S&M kind of scene.
Maybe time of the month has a bearing on it too. I would keep experimenting. It's always fun, feels different in various positions and I'm sure that if you've achieved G-Gasms on your own, something is going to trigger off when he continues his "research." Once you G-gasm with your DH using this technique you'll likely find that you can achieve orgasm(s) in about a minuet and a half to two minutes - any time - anywhere and he can keep you G-gasming for as long as you can take it. Longer !!
MOST doctors will tell most women that under most conditions sex during PREGNANCY is OK and I'd agree HOWEVER this TECHNIQUE is different from what most doctors are familiar with. It does not produce the sucking muscle contractions of a clitoral orgasm. It produces a series of push OUT contractions along with, I suspect, and increase in endorphins, elastocizers and various other hormones associated with calving.
Having posted the original TECHNIQUE a couple of years ago now I have on many occasions throughout the thread warned AGAINST using this especially during the final trimester JUST IN CASE. The idea of increasing pleasure and orgasmic potential to so many women and couples all over the world is immensely gratifying. I get emails and PMs all the time and that is great BUT I would be devastated if a couple used this technique and ended up losing a baby because of the resultant contractions. I think (and I'm NOT a doc either) that the risk of this particular type of sexual activity and the type of orgasms it initiates is JUST NOT WORTH THE RISK. I'll say it again. It might be fine for most couples who are preggers BUT is the risk worth it? I don't think so. Back off the Ggasms for 3 months and let the tyke develop in peace and normal quiet orgasms. GAWD experiencing a series of GSpot orgasms in the womb must feel like living through a Banda Ache earthquake. Women who routinely have G-Gasms probably have little trouble with childbirth due to the fact they are doing the childbirth equivalent of multiple pushups every time they experience the Technique so that's probably a good thing. Good muscle tone is a definate bonus for all sex and expect that goes double for childbirth.
Measure the risk. I don't think it's worth it. I'm on record in here no matter what the doctors say. Bottom line is leave it alone for 3 months. The TECHNIQUE is a bit of a wild ride. Pick it up again after she's calved. Have fun with it before but just don't take the risk after the 4th or 5th month. There's LOTS of other stuff you can do to satisfy each other.
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More Gspot questions
Bandit58,
I loved it! Sadly, it never came back so I was testing my Gspot and tried to find that spot where I had that most intense orgasm. I stimulated it last night and still couldn't find it. Even though I had the urge to pee but nothing. What exactly do I have to do in order to get that AWESOME/EXPLOSIVE sensations back? The funny thing about this, it always happened whenever my lover pumped into me and hitted my Gspot. I was not paying any attention to his penis or anything else but myself to achieve that orgasm.
I wanna go back to those sensations again again again by MYSELF!
Bandit58,
I loved it! Sadly, it never came back so I was testing my Gspot and tried to find that spot where I had that most intense orgasm. I stimulated it last night and still couldn't find it. Even though I had the urge to pee but nothing. What exactly do I have to do in order to get that AWESOME/EXPLOSIVE sensations back? The funny thing about this, it always happened whenever my lover pumped into me and hitted my Gspot. I was not paying any attention to his penis or anything else but myself to achieve that orgasm.
I wanna go back to those sensations again again again by MYSELF!
More questions re Gspot
Jethrobodeen,
Thanks for telling me to go to the introduction to introduce myself. I am learning my way around. This website is so new to me. Be patient with me.
I just asked someone here about how to get those awesome sensations back while doing it by myself. It didn't work at all. I wonder if I would be able to have the awesome orgasms again with my lover. What do I need to do? What should my partner do? To brief you: I found my Gspot when I was in my early twenties and my lover got freaked out because he thought I pissed on him. Why it never happened again because there was not very much of any information about the Gspot in the late 80's. It never happened again until last year when I took Tantric classes to rediscover my sexuality and sensuality. Just gotten into a new relationship a few months ago and we are just getting to know each other bodies.
I am looking for answers from people who have the experiences, not from the books that I purchased. They don't help me much. Too bad there is not any class in Northern California for any hands on experiences.
Jethrobodeen,
Thanks for telling me to go to the introduction to introduce myself.
I am learning my way around. This website is so new to me. Be patient with me. I just asked someone here about how to get those awesome sensations back while doing it by myself. It didn't work at all. I wonder if I would be able to have the awesome orgasms again with my lover. What do I need to do? What should my partner do? To brief you: I found my Gspot when I was in my early twenties and my lover got freaked out because he thought I pissed on him. Why it never happened again because there was not very much of any information about the Gspot in the late 80's. It never happened again until last year when I took Tantric classes to rediscover my sexuality and sensuality. Just gotten into a new relationship a few months ago and we are just getting to know each other bodies.
I am looking for answers from people who have the experiences, not from the books that I purchased. They don't help me much. Too bad there is not any class in Northern California for any hands on experiences.
Bandit58
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Gypsy_Lis said:Bandit58,
I loved it! Sadly, it never came back so I was testing my Gspot and tried to find that spot where I had that most intense orgasm. I stimulated it last night and still couldn't find it. Even though I had the urge to pee but nothing. What exactly do I have to do in order to get that AWESOME/EXPLOSIVE sensations back? The funny thing about this, it always happened whenever my lover pumped into me and hitted my Gspot. I was not paying any attention to his penis or anything else but myself to achieve that orgasm.
I wanna go back to those sensations again again again by MYSELF!
Sadly I have not been able to duplicate those orgasms by myself. Like you I can get the urge to pee, and I do get fluids oozing out of me but it's not explosive though it does feel good
I have tried with fingers and a g spot vibe but I don't think I have quite found the right place! If Gil has me masturbate for a while with no orgasm allowed, when he finally gets down and "helps me out" I gush buckets but still can't do it by myself If I masturbate I prefer to give myself clitoral orgasms and reserve the g spot ones for when Gil and I are playing
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Gypsy_Lis
There is actually a class in CA though I can't remember the location. It's like a retreat apparently. I'll try to search and see. In fact, I had seriously considered attending myself even though I'm way over here in Texas. I think DH has sorta figured it out, though I feel certain his technique could be improved. And, in all fairness, could be little old uptight me not wanting to give up any control. In any case, keep working it.
There is actually a class in CA though I can't remember the location. It's like a retreat apparently. I'll try to search and see. In fact, I had seriously considered attending myself even though I'm way over here in Texas. I think DH has sorta figured it out, though I feel certain his technique could be improved. And, in all fairness, could be little old uptight me not wanting to give up any control. In any case, keep working it.
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Gypsy_Lis said:Jethrobodeen,
Thanks for telling me to go to the introduction to introduce myself.
I just asked someone here about how to get those awesome sensations back while doing it by myself. It didn't work at all. I wonder if I would be able to have the awesome orgasms again with my lover. What do I need to do? What should my partner do? To brief you: I found my Gspot when I was in my early twenties and my lover got freaked out because he thought I pissed on him. Why it never happened again because there was not very much of any information about the Gspot in the late 80's. It never happened again until last year when I took Tantric classes to rediscover my sexuality and sensuality. Just gotten into a new relationship a few months ago and we are just getting to know each other bodies.
I am looking for answers from people who have the experiences, not from the books that I purchased. They don't help me much. Too bad there is not any class in Northern California for any hands on experiences.
Northern California, huh. How many friends can you get together? I travel, but then my fee is rather high...
Nice Intro
, as for patience, many have tolerated my impulse to jump in and sometimes break a few rules.....But then, some of them might spank you. But then, when they find out you're a "squirter" I don't think anyone will be mean to you 
Here are some excerpts I've previously posted that might help as a starting point.... but feel free to keep asking as many questions as you need to... these boards can help you find what you're looking for.
jethrobodeen said:
I've been trying to find out what I experienced that night. It hasn't happened again, yet. It's hard to find words to describe it. Is this similar to the feeling you're missing? Is this orgasm energy as described by women? Could this be orgasm separated from ejaculation?
jethrobodeen said:
I highlighted some ideas for you to achieve G-gasm during PIV intercourse. They work for us
. Hmmm, other ideas, let him know you want him to use his hands to do "The Technique" on you. I've posted variations on using the fingers if the thumb is awkward due to position. I can try to dig it up, I think it must have been included in one of my ramblings..... As for getting there yourself... maybe you need to get into it more, emotionally. Love yourself, you're special
-JB
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MR.GGG said:
Nope I don't think it's a losing control thing, although DH also raised that point. Personally I think maybe I was just trying too hard. And I would LOVE him to get a little power crazy with it! FYI 'a few good swats' were employed and fully enjoyed by all LOL. We are toying with the idea that perhaps we are in the general vicinity, but not right on the money so to speak. More research required
MR.GGG said:Maybe time of the month has a bearing on it too. I would keep experimenting. It's always fun, feels different in various positions and I'm sure that if you've achieved G-Gasms on your own, something is going to trigger off when he continues his "research." Once you G-gasm with your DH using this technique you'll likely find that you can achieve orgasm(s) in about a minuet and a half to two minutes - any time - anywhere and he can keep you G-gasming for as long as you can take it. Longer !!
I wondered about the time of the month thing, and also effects of birth control. Theres a lot of great info here, so far I'm up to page 35 after almost two days of reading. It would be a lot easier to get through if the thread could be edited to remove all the chit chat and flirting *sigh*
However, we will enjoy the process of persisting. It would be very helpful to get feedback from couples that did not enjoy mind-blowing success immediately. We are a little frustrated. Over the course of the past decade or so, this is about the 4th time I've 'found' my g-spot (all in different places!)
Don'tcha wish you were issued with a 3D instruction manual for pleasure ladies?!
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Me and my husband have been trying this, and I've tried on my own,but no success. Many times have felt SOOOO close but can't seem to get over the edge. It's frustrating. Time of month does have a big effect on it for me. It seems like the first 7-10 days right after my period ends is the most optimal time, and the last week leading up to it-forget it ! But several hours right before it starts,I am really hot again.
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Sappholovers said:
Can anybody direct me to this article??
I have searched in vain.
Thanks
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Never mind, I found it myself
http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=77255
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Suckcess or Failure??
"" Theres a lot of great info here, so far I'm up to page 35 after almost two days of reading. It would be a lot easier to get through if the thread could be edited to remove all the chit chat and flirting *sigh*""
For what it's worth I made this request to the custodians / owners / management trolls of the site and they said, " canna do " - it would screw up all their stats. I see their point but I agree. There is a lot of crap, nonsense and morons posting to see themselves in print with no clue what they're yabbering about. Pity it couldn't be edited down to the relevant posts but alas this ain't my site. Just my thread so I have to respect the owner's view of how things should or must be. Sorry.
"" http://english.literotica.com/stori...ry.php?id=77255 ""
... Is a good article. Thanks for posting. I like her sense of humor too. The one thing I will disagree with and I've stated this in here before ... The Technique CAN stimulate a female ejaculation but it doesn't mean failure on a couple's part if she G-Gasms 20 - 40 or 80 times but doesn't leave 4 inches of goo on the bedroom floor. It is fun when it happens, constitutes a major mess and it NOT or shouldn't be the sole determining factor in whether the evening is considered a success or not.
I've received a bunch of Emails and PMs describing uninterrupted series of G-Gasms lasting for hours during the administration of the Technique in one form then another but at the end of a session where G-gasms and regular orgasms count was lost after 60 or 80 they STILL wondered what they were doing WRONG because she didn't squirt. GEEEZ. NOTHING!!! Everything was perfect. She just didn't make a huge mess while she came. Even the women in here who say they CAN and HAVE squirted will tell you that it doesn't happen every time. There are muscle control issues, positional changes, attitudes, degrees of exhaustion - all kinds of factors that will allow this to happen with some women sometimes.
I maintain that if you can get her GSpot firing and give your woman all the G-gasms she can handle / endure then the procedure should be viewed as an enormous success. Has anybody read the article I posted on the POLL that was taken I think in America where over 70% of women said they never or rarely orgasm during sex with their DHs/SOs. 70% !!!! and yet some couple utilizing the Technique can achieve 10 - 30 - 50 - 80 or more massive G-Gasms in a session (but no ejac on her part) and then Email me and wonder what they are doing WRONG. Ask those 70% of average women who never cum and see what their response would be. Probably a smack up the side of their heads.
Squirting / spraying / gushing G-Gasms are fun but overall they are rare and as far as I'm concerned thank heavens for that. Who needs a Katrina scale flood every time you make love???
Just saw this. Can you imagine your bedroom if this was the result everytime she had a G-gasm? You would need to hang plastic sheets from the ceiling and even then you'd need a professional cleaning crew to come in every morning and change the carpet, the drapes, the chair in the hall ... get real. This chick is a FREAK. A cute freak but geeez, after the second night with her in the summer your whole house would be soaked and beginning to smell like a dead camel. Can you imagine taking this girl camping and doing this in a small tent? YUK. On a raft in the middle of a lake? OK. Anywhere else and you would quickly get sick of making her cum and then mopping up for the next 6 hours!! I mean this chick soaks the camera guy from 30 ft away. You can hear him go "fauuck." under his breath.
One thing this does show well is the semi convulsions the girl goes into during a real life series of G-Gasms. Twitching, grunting and arms and legs flopping around like she's been hit by an Iraqi nerve gas attack. COOL!!!
For those who can cum and cum and cum using the Technique and NOT look like this clip - consider your self blessed.
http://www.deviantclip.com/?Show=Media&Id=496
"" Theres a lot of great info here, so far I'm up to page 35 after almost two days of reading. It would be a lot easier to get through if the thread could be edited to remove all the chit chat and flirting *sigh*""
For what it's worth I made this request to the custodians / owners / management trolls of the site and they said, " canna do " - it would screw up all their stats. I see their point but I agree. There is a lot of crap, nonsense and morons posting to see themselves in print with no clue what they're yabbering about. Pity it couldn't be edited down to the relevant posts but alas this ain't my site. Just my thread so I have to respect the owner's view of how things should or must be. Sorry.
"" http://english.literotica.com/stori...ry.php?id=77255 ""
... Is a good article. Thanks for posting. I like her sense of humor too. The one thing I will disagree with and I've stated this in here before ... The Technique CAN stimulate a female ejaculation but it doesn't mean failure on a couple's part if she G-Gasms 20 - 40 or 80 times but doesn't leave 4 inches of goo on the bedroom floor. It is fun when it happens, constitutes a major mess and it NOT or shouldn't be the sole determining factor in whether the evening is considered a success or not.
I've received a bunch of Emails and PMs describing uninterrupted series of G-Gasms lasting for hours during the administration of the Technique in one form then another but at the end of a session where G-gasms and regular orgasms count was lost after 60 or 80 they STILL wondered what they were doing WRONG because she didn't squirt. GEEEZ. NOTHING!!! Everything was perfect. She just didn't make a huge mess while she came. Even the women in here who say they CAN and HAVE squirted will tell you that it doesn't happen every time. There are muscle control issues, positional changes, attitudes, degrees of exhaustion - all kinds of factors that will allow this to happen with some women sometimes.
I maintain that if you can get her GSpot firing and give your woman all the G-gasms she can handle / endure then the procedure should be viewed as an enormous success. Has anybody read the article I posted on the POLL that was taken I think in America where over 70% of women said they never or rarely orgasm during sex with their DHs/SOs. 70% !!!! and yet some couple utilizing the Technique can achieve 10 - 30 - 50 - 80 or more massive G-Gasms in a session (but no ejac on her part) and then Email me and wonder what they are doing WRONG. Ask those 70% of average women who never cum and see what their response would be. Probably a smack up the side of their heads.
Squirting / spraying / gushing G-Gasms are fun but overall they are rare and as far as I'm concerned thank heavens for that. Who needs a Katrina scale flood every time you make love???
Just saw this. Can you imagine your bedroom if this was the result everytime she had a G-gasm? You would need to hang plastic sheets from the ceiling and even then you'd need a professional cleaning crew to come in every morning and change the carpet, the drapes, the chair in the hall ... get real. This chick is a FREAK. A cute freak but geeez, after the second night with her in the summer your whole house would be soaked and beginning to smell like a dead camel. Can you imagine taking this girl camping and doing this in a small tent? YUK. On a raft in the middle of a lake? OK. Anywhere else and you would quickly get sick of making her cum and then mopping up for the next 6 hours!! I mean this chick soaks the camera guy from 30 ft away. You can hear him go "fauuck." under his breath.
One thing this does show well is the semi convulsions the girl goes into during a real life series of G-Gasms. Twitching, grunting and arms and legs flopping around like she's been hit by an Iraqi nerve gas attack. COOL!!!
For those who can cum and cum and cum using the Technique and NOT look like this clip - consider your self blessed.
http://www.deviantclip.com/?Show=Media&Id=496
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MR.GGG said:
Bwahahahahaha! I've seen some really radical squirts like that and I think I'd find a way to adapt.
A special room or area with hosable surface?
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page 75 prob update
Quick update regarding my original problem starting back on page 75 and how we are working through it. This will probably be the end of any further focus on this issue unless someone else falls into the trap and needs a hand to climb out.
Haha, private lesson yesterday after school. Her technique and enthusiasm are quickly on the rise and so is my ability to let go and enjoy without any other goals. This change for our relationship would never have happened without changing our routine. We've (ok I have, it wasn't her) stopped going for marathon sessions all the time. She can be extremely satisfied by a quickie. Duh, a dozen Os in 5 minutes, what the hell was I thinking? Let's get one in for me....if I forget, I'll have to remember next time.
Special thanks to MR.GGG (that thing about being her bitch, good one ), vanelane (where would I start? 
), norajane (in another thread regarding goal-obscession ), SweetErika (so much information and caring ), and the many other posts and PMs of help and support.
Lot's of love *arm's open wide*
Thanks,
-JB
jethrobodeen said:"To think of all the education that I missed, I never thought that homework would be ever quite like this.....got it made, got it made, got it made....I'm hot for teacher...". (Edit: ref. Van Halen for those still wet behind the ears
{sometimes a song gets stuck in my head....
-JB
Quick update regarding my original problem starting back on page 75 and how we are working through it. This will probably be the end of any further focus on this issue unless someone else falls into the trap and needs a hand to climb out.
Haha, private lesson yesterday after school. Her technique and enthusiasm are quickly on the rise and so is my ability to let go and enjoy without any other goals. This change for our relationship would never have happened without changing our routine. We've (ok I have, it wasn't her) stopped going for marathon sessions all the time. She can be extremely satisfied by a quickie. Duh, a dozen Os in 5 minutes, what the hell was I thinking? Let's get one in for me....if I forget, I'll have to remember next time.
Special thanks to MR.GGG (that thing about being her bitch, good one
), vanelane (where would I start? ), norajane (in another thread regarding goal-obscession ), SweetErika (so much information and caring ), and the many other posts and PMs of help and support.Lot's of love *arm's open wide*
Thanks,
-JB
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I love a happy ending!jethrobodeen said:Quick update regarding my original problem starting back on page 75 and how we are working through it. This will probably be the end of any further focus on this issue unless someone else falls into the trap and needs a hand to climb out.
Haha, private lesson yesterday after school. Her technique and enthusiasm are quickly on the rise and so is my ability to let go and enjoy without any other goals. This change for our relationship would never have happened without changing our routine. We've (ok I have, it wasn't her) stopped going for marathon sessions all the time. She can be extremely satisfied by a quickie. Duh, a dozen Os in 5 minutes, what the hell was I thinking? Let's get one in for me....if I forget, I'll have to remember next time.
Special thanks to MR.GGG (that thing about being her bitch, good one
Lot's of love *arm's open wide*
Thanks,
-JB
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An Update
In the interests of research and helping others I shall detail my latest experiences. I wouldn't usually go into so much personal detail but for the people that are not getting the technique 'down pat' without persistance, like us, I hope it helps! It would seem that my G has a mind of its own.
Last night I specifically requested oral from DH. I figured maybe I'd give the G thing a rest for a bit. I've been wondering if I'm just trying too hard. He spent a whole lot of time on foreplay, specifically kissing and licking me pretty much all over with emphasis on my neck, belly and inner thighs. He then went on to give me some really great soft hot oral. I was pretty much climbing the walls from that and got out my dildo and used that on myself while he watched. All in all pretty hot! It all gets a little hazy for awhile, but then he went in for my G. I can't remember exact positioning and such, but in the course of the evening, I was in several different positions with DH going in from both front and rear.
It was all really good stuff, I was able to direct him to push harder at some points, and felt the sensation of needing to pee, which I communicated to him. Now I found that I would feel this sensation for maybe a minute or so (not sure really, who can judge time in that state?) and then it would be like my g would retract away somewhere. Then a couple minutes later it would be back! I initially tried to 'push' with the peeing sensation, it felt like something travelling down my urethra and then stopping right at the opening. Kinda like when you've got a UTI, you're bursting to go, but when you get there and pee, you get nothing or maybe just a drop or two. This was maybe 3 or 4 times accompanied by a sensation where I felt like my vagina was filling from the inner end with very warm baby oil from a pool deep in my belly.
After a while (hours/days who knows? LOL) I felt like I was getting waaay too tense, so instead of pushing with the needing to pee feeling I tried to relax everything down there. All the great feelings continued, but still no earth-shattering multiple orgasms so far! Poor DH having issues with crampy deformed fingers/hand by this stage, so we moved on. Ended up cumming BIG in missionary with feet pointing at opposite corners of the ceiling (hehe) while squeezing and pulling my nipples. *sigh* Good times eh. (Great Job dearest J!!)
More research definately in order.
Edited to add...
I forgot to mention that I also pressed on my abdomen for a while with the same mixed results.....yep! there 'tis!...oh wait, no...ohyeh there!...ohno...
you get the idea..
In the interests of research and helping others I shall detail my latest experiences. I wouldn't usually go into so much personal detail but for the people that are not getting the technique 'down pat' without persistance, like us, I hope it helps! It would seem that my G has a mind of its own.
Last night I specifically requested oral from DH. I figured maybe I'd give the G thing a rest for a bit. I've been wondering if I'm just trying too hard. He spent a whole lot of time on foreplay, specifically kissing and licking me pretty much all over with emphasis on my neck, belly and inner thighs. He then went on to give me some really great soft hot oral. I was pretty much climbing the walls from that and got out my dildo and used that on myself while he watched. All in all pretty hot! It all gets a little hazy for awhile, but then he went in for my G. I can't remember exact positioning and such, but in the course of the evening, I was in several different positions with DH going in from both front and rear.
It was all really good stuff, I was able to direct him to push harder at some points, and felt the sensation of needing to pee, which I communicated to him. Now I found that I would feel this sensation for maybe a minute or so (not sure really, who can judge time in that state?) and then it would be like my g would retract away somewhere. Then a couple minutes later it would be back! I initially tried to 'push' with the peeing sensation, it felt like something travelling down my urethra and then stopping right at the opening. Kinda like when you've got a UTI, you're bursting to go, but when you get there and pee, you get nothing or maybe just a drop or two. This was maybe 3 or 4 times accompanied by a sensation where I felt like my vagina was filling from the inner end with very warm baby oil from a pool deep in my belly.
After a while (hours/days who knows? LOL) I felt like I was getting waaay too tense, so instead of pushing with the needing to pee feeling I tried to relax everything down there. All the great feelings continued, but still no earth-shattering multiple orgasms so far! Poor DH having issues with crampy deformed fingers/hand by this stage, so we moved on. Ended up cumming BIG in missionary with feet pointing at opposite corners of the ceiling (hehe) while squeezing and pulling my nipples. *sigh* Good times eh. (Great Job dearest J!!)
More research definately in order.
Edited to add...
I forgot to mention that I also pressed on my abdomen for a while with the same mixed results.....yep! there 'tis!...oh wait, no...ohyeh there!...ohno...
you get the idea..
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cloakedlover
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How to get past...
DH and I got into the Ggasms about 9-10 years ago via a little black book with detailed instructions that I bought.
It took a while (read 2 weeks or so) to relax enough to feel anything and for him to really find it. We practiced*1000 until DH had carpel tunnel - lol. I always had the urge to pee and finally when I let go I swear I had...totally embarassing! I got over that and I continue to leak or whatever -which I am thankful is not gushing. However, (as I'm seeking clitoral orgasm help in another thread) the WOW factor has not been there - it's just the waves thing but nothing more. I'm not certain how to get past that part.
I'm starting to feel like some freakin' neuron in my brain is not firing? I'd like to cross the finish before I die - you know what I mean...
DH and I got into the Ggasms about 9-10 years ago via a little black book with detailed instructions that I bought.
It took a while (read 2 weeks or so) to relax enough to feel anything and for him to really find it. We practiced*1000 until DH had carpel tunnel - lol. I always had the urge to pee and finally when I let go I swear I had...totally embarassing! I got over that and I continue to leak or whatever -which I am thankful is not gushing. However, (as I'm seeking clitoral orgasm help in another thread) the WOW factor has not been there - it's just the waves thing but nothing more. I'm not certain how to get past that part.
I'm starting to feel like some freakin' neuron in my brain is not firing? I'd like to cross the finish before I die - you know what I mean...
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vanelane said:Me too! And he did it less than 200 posts. Three million words, but less than 200 posts. (
Heh, this is the FIRST time in my life I've EVER been told I talk too much!
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back at 'cha, babe)-JB
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cloakedlover said:How to get past...
DH and I got into the Ggasms about 9-10 years ago via a little black book with detailed instructions that I bought.
It took a while (read 2 weeks or so) to relax enough to feel anything and for him to really find it. We practiced*1000 until DH had carpel tunnel - lol. I always had the urge to pee and finally when I let go I swear I had...totally embarassing! I got over that and I continue to leak or whatever -which I am thankful is not gushing. However, (as I'm seeking clitoral orgasm help in another thread) the WOW factor has not been there - it's just the waves thing but nothing more. I'm not certain how to get past that part.
I'm starting to feel like some freakin' neuron in my brain is not firing? I'd like to cross the finish before I die - you know what I mean...
It's not been there, ever? Or only recently? Or there have been times it is but now, not? And are you on any medication.
cloakedlover
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Vanelane:
Not ever (unless I have totally forgotten those wild high school and college days) Once, I think I may have had one for real. I was 22 or 23, the man was nearly two decades older than me and very patient. But it's been so long, I couldn't say with any certainty.
But for about 12-13 years it's been - just nice little waves like you're in the ocean on a boat but none crashing against the shore. At first, when I read this thread I thought the waves was all there was to it. But now I feel pretty sure I'm wrong.
As for meds: I am now 4 months off birth control - which I was on for 18 years...
I am also working on my Clit O (see the Oddgasm post - having difficulty there too) - I am persistant though and hopeful since I decided to quit lurking and chime in to lit. Thanks for any and all suggestions. They are truly appreciated.
Not ever (unless I have totally forgotten those wild high school and college days) Once, I think I may have had one for real. I was 22 or 23, the man was nearly two decades older than me and very patient. But it's been so long, I couldn't say with any certainty.
But for about 12-13 years it's been - just nice little waves like you're in the ocean on a boat but none crashing against the shore. At first, when I read this thread I thought the waves was all there was to it. But now I feel pretty sure I'm wrong.
As for meds: I am now 4 months off birth control - which I was on for 18 years...
I am also working on my Clit O (see the Oddgasm post - having difficulty there too) - I am persistant though and hopeful since I decided to quit lurking and chime in to lit. Thanks for any and all suggestions. They are truly appreciated.
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cloakedlover said:
Ok, well I do not know the answer then. I was hoping you were taking an antidepressant, as many of those drugs cause anorgasmia as a side effect. There are several very knowledgable ladies on this board who I know will be able to offer some good suggestions, though. Welcome!
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