Try This & Report Back

[MR.GGG]

Techniques

I tried this with my gf a couple days ago, got her almost to the point of no return with normal oral then switched to the g-spot method. She was on her back, it was a little tough to reach that far with my fingers when in that position but we tried it on her stomach and it was even harder. Maybe my fingers are just too short or something, or she's too long for me, but we had to stop with the thumb because I was pushing too hard on her pelvic bone to get the right spot. She didn't cum off it, but a) she's never had an orgasm before and b) she wasn't able to get over the having to pee feeling.

The technique is something that needs a certain amount of intuitiveness. To just insert and start rubbing is not going to work the first time. You really have to stim that area until you feel the swelling and she is reacting even if it's "I hafta PEEEE !!" When you feel her reaction change AND the consistency of her vaginal wall change too then that is the time to put lots of pressure on.

It is really hard to describe exactly when to go into overdrive on this because every woman IS different so all I can suggest is take it slow and just "feel" your way through the process. Base your motions on her reactions. If nothing appears to be happening go back to suck ing her or regular intercourse then return to the technique a little while later ... feeeeel how she's reacting and react accordingly. If when you're trying to do this the first time or have tried before and are repeating, then try and pay attention to what she is doing. Watch her breathing. Is she pushing back against your hand/thumb? Is she getting VERY wet? Is she (when she's face down) clenching her bum muscles? Are her toes curling up or are her feet drumming on the bed? These can all be signs (or not) that the technique is starting to have its desired effects and that is the time to add pressure and speed. Again - WATCH to see what her reaction is. You may want her to hold a vibrator against her clit or give herself some finger rubbing while you're doing this. Having her "participate" rather than lying there thinking "WTF??" is a good thing.

I don't think the problem that you describe is your fingers being too short. Once the Gspot "deploys" then in ALL women it is just inside the vagina. Some have a spot and some have a ridge. The top of a ridge may be hard to reach for some but the spot is very low on the vaginal wall and never, from my experience and from what I've read, waay up inside.

The GREAT thing is that once you've done this once her body knows the feeling and getting there each time after that first time is a cinch and from then on it just gets better and better.

Keep up the research and REPORT BACK.

 

[Tele2047]

Hm yeah thinking about it I think I must have been trying too deep (but still hitting it a bit). I like the part about having her participate, I'll give it a try next time we're together and we're in the mood for experimentation.

Thanks

 

[College_geek]

So depressed

I have tried this style and other g-spot techniques with my boyfriend and everytime we try, it burns like the feeling when your pee burns. His hands are always clean when he does it and we are each other's firsts, so I highly doubt I have an STD (we haven't even had sex either). I so badly want a g-spot orgasm, but I guess my body doesn't want me to. *sigh*

 

[TBKahuna123]

Don't panic

Sometimes, though, she says it's a pleasurable but painful in a good way feeling? I'm not exactly sure how to explain it. It feels good, but it hurts. Is this normal, am I not warming her up enough, or am I just plain not on the right spot?

This is similar to what happens to my wife. She's probably just extremely sensitive and the spams of orgasm give her minor cramp like pain. My wife has this at times when she has an orgasm, and it could be from any stimulation. I have found that this is worse if I go right to the g-spot, rather than spending plenty of time with other foreplay first. You might spend a little more time with oral stimulation before working on her g-spot.

 

[yoshimitsu]

This is the most informative info I have seen on this subject. Props to every one who has contributed especially MR.G for the extremely detailed info. I researched this a while ago and believe it helped me intensify some clitoral orgasams for my girl but she always got uncomfortable when she had to pee or I may have also rushed things too much. Unfortunaltely for me she has been in NZ for 5 weeks and will be gone for 3 more. I cant wait till she gets back, shes gonna be walking funny for days. This thread almost makes me want to go find some random girl on the street to experiment on till my girl gets back.
I will let you guys know what happens.

 

[Gil_T2]

I have tried this style and other g-spot techniques with my boyfriend and everytime we try, it burns like the feeling when your pee burns. His hands are always clean when he does it and we are each other's firsts, so I highly doubt I have an STD (we haven't even had sex either). I so badly want a g-spot orgasm, but I guess my body doesn't want me to. *sigh*

I'm no doctor but to me it sounds like you have a yeast infection & these can be caused by so many things like as simple as the soap you use (my lady had this one),bladder infection, skipping periods but not likely anything to do with the G spot play.

 

[TBKahuna123]

If you have a burning sensation like this during penetration, kind of like the walls are raw, go see your doctor. My wife had something similar that turned out to be a minor bacterial infection, not a yeast infection, but similar. A few days on antibiotics cleared it up, but she was told that if it had progressed it could have turned into something serious. Always better to be safe than sorry.

You know, you girls have incredibly wonderous bodies. So many wonderful traits, but such high maintenance. I often wonder whether to pity or envy you. I guess I'll just stand in awe of the wonder and resiliance that is woman.

 

[hook848]

Just bumping an awesome thread.

 

[JustSkye]

Just bumping an awesome thread.

It is awesome indeed. And it works

 

[Tiestheknots]

Thanks

Mr. GGG and all the Posters,

This has been a great thread to follow. I have tried the "G" Spot massage technique detailed on Page 1 on a number of lovers and have gotten some very gratifying results from it. If you find yourself with a "G" Spot virgin, then sex will never be the same for either of you...

Some lovers can 'squirt', and release a clear fluid that is NOT urine. Others don't, and I have not been able to determine why there is a difference. More research is needed, here...

And giving a lover the "G" Spot massage is one of life's more rewarding experiences. Keep up the good work.

Tiestheknots

 

[TBKahuna123]

More research is needed, here...

Ah yes, more research, that's what makes this so much fun. I wonder if we could get a federal research grant?

If you find yourself with a "G" Spot virgin, then sex will never be the same for either of you...

AMEN! My wife and I have a great sex life, but this has definitely added something new and exciting, taking it to a new level. I asked her the other day what was the thing over our 11 years of marriage that I had done in bed that shocked her the most. Giving her a g-gasm was her answer. She also said that she felt bad becasue I researched this and found anew way to pleasure her, but she hadn't tried to learn anything new to please me. She said she was going to see what she could come up with. Personally, I can't wait to see what she finds next!

The moral of the story is no matter how good your sex life is, if your girl has never experienced this it will blow her away, and you never knwo how she'll react. The only thing you can be assured of is that she's gonna dig it!

 

[averageblonde]

I'm going to lose my virginity tonight, and I was wondering if I should try this tonight, or maybe wait till next time?

 

[psyche]

I'm going to lose my virginity tonight, and I was wondering if I should try this tonight, or maybe wait till next time?

Fuck, I say go for it. If it doesn't work, nothing lost. But you may want to just focus on the sex itself without getting into the details of the g-spot. I can say, just fucking enjoy, lose yourself and have some fucking fun!

 

[MR.GGG]

Research

I asked her the other day what was the thing over our 11 years of marriage that I had done in bed that shocked her the most. Giving her a g-gasm was her answer. She also said that she felt bad becasue I researched this and found anew way to pleasure her, but she hadn't tried to learn anything new to please me.

The moral of the story is no matter how good your sex life is, if your girl has never experienced this it will blow her away, and you never knwo how she'll react. The only thing you can be assured of is that she's gonna dig it!

A few comments ... From many responses - PM's and Emails I think the kind of guy who learns this technique and "researches" it extensively with his SO finds enough satisfaction in just doing this. He doesn't need for her to find something similar to do to him. Fun but damn - any guy who doesn't get off on being able to make his SO CUM 40 or 80 times a night had better look for a new calling.

Frankly there IS nothing similar she can do to him. The MILK a MAN's COCK thread MAY be close but we simply are not built to withstand, let alone enjoy, a 90 minute orgasm or 40 or 80 orgasms a night. We would generally do one thing IF we could / did experience this. DIE! If we did survive we would invent a machine to do that and if you thought SPORT WIDOWs had it bad before - HA - We would never unplug and the result would be roughly the same, just delayed by a day or three. We'd DIE.

If she is UP to try something new on you ask her to read this thread.

https://forum.literotica.com/...&threadid=98657

Results may vary with one's degree of homophobia and thoughts on hygiene but the "research" will at least be fun. If she does get the technique down and you're comfortable with it then it becomes an awesome "payback" for the Gspot research done on / TO her.

 

[kendo1]

I'm going to lose my virginity tonight, and I was wondering if I should try this tonight, or maybe wait till next time?

Just keep posting and it will happen sooner than you think.
Quite painless.

 

[averageblonde]

this felt fucking awesome. everybody has to try it.

 

[gyrl]

Thanks for bumping this thread. Maybe this shy gyrl will get her husband to try it soon.

 

[curious22]

I posted several weeks ago that my wife got to the "need to pee" stage but no further. Since then we have concentrated on the g-spot, although not necessarily using the thumb technique. Her orgasms have gotten stronger as I have massaged the spot before fucking her.

A couple of days ago we had a breakthrough. I pulled her over to the edge of the bed, stuck a pillow under her butt and told her I was going to eat her out and went to work on her beautiful vagina. With the combination of using my index finger on the g-spot and licking her clit I worked her into quite a frenzy. Since my face was buried in her pussy I could only go by sounds, but she started orgasming and cascaded up and up until she had huge g-spot orgasm. I could feel my finger being pushed out of her pussy. Finally she had enough and could only push my hand away--she couldn't even speak. After that she was completely spent and had to sleep.

She later desribed it as being a very different sensation, almost like she was in agony, yet it felt so good.

We haven't gotten to the 20 orgasms a night stage, but her body is reacting a lot more strongly now as I am "tuning" it up with assiduous g-spot rubbing.
We will continue our explorations.

 

[TBKahuna123]

A few comments ... From many responses - PM's and Emails I think the kind of guy who learns this technique and "researches" it extensively with his SO finds enough satisfaction in just doing this. He doesn't need for her to find something similar to do to him. Fun but damn - any guy who doesn't get off on being able to make his SO CUM 40 or 80 times a night had better look for a new calling.

That's true. I for one get a huge rush off of giving my wife pleasure. My comment above was more to show how powerful this can be for a woman. I mean, my wife is adventurous and all, but I've always been the driving force, so to speak. For her to suggest figuring out something new to try is quite a big deal.

As for your suggestion, might be interesting.

I posted several weeks ago that my wife got to the "need to pee" stage but no further. Since then we have concentrated on the g-spot, although not necessarily using the thumb technique. Her orgasms have gotten stronger as I have massaged the spot before fucking her.

It's funny, but it seems like everytime I do this my wife reacts differently, even though I'm doing the same thing. I think it's a combination of relaxing, giving way to the sensation, and letting it go further, probably coupled with her current mental state. She had, for example, never really had that long multitude of orgasms, because after two or three she'd make me stop because it was too intense. The other night I was going down on her and massaging her g-spot slowly, and she just kept moaning and clenching. Now, normally she's a screamer ( ) so I honestly wasn't sure if I was doing anything for her, or even worse hurting her. Finally after about 15 minutes she stopped me. I apologized, thinking that I just wasn't making her feel good and she looked at me like i was nuts. She told me she'd been having an almost constant orgasm for the last ten minutes. Nothing firey and crashing like she normally has, but more like a rolling crescendo that would never really explode, but never go away. She said she'd never felt anything like it.

Guys, if nothing else, you have to try this for the ego boost alone. I know, I know GGG, we should do this because we love em, but how can you not get pumped up by this? I agree that is making a woman cum like she's never cum before doesn't make you feel like a real man, then there's something wrong with you.

 

[MR.GGG]

"almost like she was in agony, yet it felt so good. "

I've heard it described that way too. When the intensity is "too much" it is like taking pain. I think when that is happening if the atmosphere and attitude are receptive you can "make" her take it and give her ever increasing intensity of orgasms even though she wanted it to stop earlier. Again you have to be intuitive and communicate but when you get INtense with this amount of pleasure - where YOU are in charge of how much and how often and how intense it gets for her it IS very similar in some cases to a B&S&M scene. So ... if she doesn't have a heart condition you may want to ask her virtually for permission to take her well past that point where she is gasping for breath and begging for you to stop. A tad KINKY and not for every time you do this but loads of fun if she is that way inclined and up for exploring her upper limits or maybe even a bit beyond.

If you're really kinky and demented you may want to include a good spanking in the middle of this to increase the overall intensity. I would, again, suggest you discuss these possibilities unless you know she'd get off on it without "permission."

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Curious, thanks for the post and congrats on your "breakthrough." Awesome, huh? Neat feeling, isn't it, when she orgasms and you have to fight to keep your thumb or fingers in her. The PUSH OUT power and the speed of the pulses are enough to make you jump the first time it happens ... like it is a BEAST with a mind of its own.... GRRR!

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TBK writes: "Guys, if nothing else, you have to try this for the ego boost alone. I know, I know GGG, we should do this because we love em, but how can you not get pumped up by this?"


AHAHAHAHAAAA !!!!

SHAME ON YOU for giving your SO a 10 or 15 minute orgasm and feeling GOOD about it. 50 Hail Mary's and go stand in the corner.

 

[taolanes]

There's no negative to this. Your woman feels amazing, you feel amazing, and the next day her breakfast tastes that much better

 

[taolanes]

My only problem......no beautiful pussy to experiment this on. But soon enough

 

[TBKahuna123]

TBK writes: "Guys, if nothing else, you have to try this for the ego boost alone. I know, I know GGG, we should do this because we love em, but how can you not get pumped up by this?"


AHAHAHAHAAAA !!!!

SHAME ON YOU for giving your SO a 10 or 15 minute orgasm and feeling GOOD about it. 50 Hail Mary's and go stand in the corner.

Hey, how'd you know I was Catholic?

 

[MR.GGG]

"...she looked at me like i was nuts. She told me she'd been having an almost constant orgasm for the last ten minutes. Nothing fiery and crashing like she normally has, but more like a rolling crescendo that would never really explode, but never go away. She said she'd never felt anything like it."

I could SMELL your guilt.

SERIOUSLY AWESOME though, huh? My complements to your SO. It sounds like she could be forming a serious ADDICTION so you may have to ration her.

NOT !!!

Really glad it worked for you though. Now, on to all the variations, more (MUCH more) experimentation and weekly reports. This could change the world.

If we can just get past all the guilt ....


Oh BTW - the rolling orgasm that goes on for 10 - 15 - 30 minutes ....? It is always a good idea IMHO to finish off this with a good tongue lashing. It seems to give the waves of almost constant orgasm or the peak after peak after peak orgasmS a finality to it. It's sort of like the last 2 or 3 minutes of a good 20 or 30 minute Fireworks display. You know. Where the last couple of minutes looks more like a maniac is manning the fuse panel and he's throwing EVERYTHING into the air at once. Very cool.


Just curious too ... does she / has she experienced "after-shock" orgasms? Like during breakfast the next day? She's just sitting there looking at you like you're a GOD and when she bites into her toast you see her eyes roll back in her head and ya know she's just cum again. If she has done this it might scare her (shades of doing it at work while talking to her boss - yikes) but just reassure her that it does happen sometimes and it WILL stop. Good idea to do the long sessions and the VERY intense sessions on a Fri night though so the aftershocks don't happen during the weekday or at work. If she's a teacher or something you wouldn't want her orgasming in front of her grade 9's !!!

Much!

 

[Bandit58]

"almost like she was in agony, yet it felt so good. "

I've heard it described that way too. When the intensity is "too much" it is like taking pain. I think when that is happening if the atmosphere and attitude are receptive you can "make" her take it and give her ever increasing intensity of orgasms even though she wanted it to stop earlier. Again you have to be intuitive and communicate but when you get INtense with this amount of pleasure - where YOU are in charge of how much and how often and how intense it gets for her it IS very similar in some cases to a B&S&M scene. So ... if she doesn't have a heart condition you may want to ask her virtually for permission to take her well past that point where she is gasping for breath and begging for you to stop. A tad KINKY and not for every time you do this but loads of fun if she is that way inclined and up for exploring her upper limits or maybe even a bit beyond.

If you're really kinky and demented you may want to include a good spanking in the middle of this to increase the overall intensity. I would, again, suggest you discuss these possibilities unless you know she'd get off on it without "permission."

Gil and I must be in the "kinky and demented" group because we do the spanking thing and I've also used my safe word because the feelings just get so intense! He usually stops the spanking then but just eases up on the Gspot stimulation until I've caught my breath and then he starts again...... I've been on my hands and knees while he's been doing this and I've felt juices hit the sole of my foot