Try This & Report Back

[psyche]

Oh my. Ummm... Would you call that a CONTROL group?

ROFLMFAO!

 

[Clairebutterfly]

I can say HELL YEAH to this! My husband figured this out about a year ago, and I literally have to say "NO MORE!!" whew it's awesome!

 

[TBKahuna123]

You, know everytime I ask a question on this thread I feel like I'm standing on the steps of a Budhist temple, head shaved, wearing an orange robe, waiting for the master's gift of wisdom. So fuck it, I'm gonna go with that feeling...

Master, I have heard it said amongst your other disciples of an inflation along the most holy of spots which occurs before orgasm. Pray tells us, is this common as it should be for all and is this indicitive of an oncoming expulsion of feminity? Is this as all g-gasms should be, whether the inflation is followed by deflation or expulsion?


Hmm..... Now I need a gong smiley.

 

[MR.GGG]

You Rang ... ??

What many seem to get confused about is THEIR woman's reaction VS something that is described in here. Please don't ever forget that we are ALL different. Our reactions are different and other factors in our lives will even make our partners react differently at different times.

NOTHING is NORMAL. Nothing is ever "as it SHOULD be" when we are talking physiology of our partners. Psychology plays a huge part as well as hormone fluctuations, moods and just a myriad of completely unrelated factors which may or may not contribute to how a lover reacts to something you do.

There was a link posted a few pages back which describe some scientific basis for a pattern which appears to have emerged in these very pages. There seems to be an inordinate number of YOUNG women who find this technique does little or nothing for them no matter how hard their SO tries. Add a decade or so and women in their 30's and 40's (and even into their 70's!!!) appear to be triggered quickly and violently using these techniques. Many who have Emailed me tell me they NEVER EVER had orgasms before and when their SO tried this on them and all of a sudden they didn't have to fake cuming EVER again. All they had to do was figure out a way to cum down from the rafters !!!

I am sorry that many young women have trouble getting their GSpot to trigger but then if it really is due to a REDUCTION in estrogen levels she can only look forward to a whole new and fantastic way of cuming in the future. The older women who have had a ZZZZZZz sex life up to this discovery are the most vocal and damn that makes my day when I hear stories like that. Everybody else should just enjoy and go with whatever feels good. You should never compare what her reaction is compared to somebody else's. Some guys will instigate dozens of mind blowing Ggasms in their mate and feel either they or their women are some kind of abject failures because she didn't make like a fire hose and wreck the rug and wall paper 9 feet up the bedroom wall! THAT is just plain silly.

OK - on to swelling. BOTH males and females experience a constriction of certain blood vessels when we are aroused. Itz called VASOCONGESTION. Blood flows in - can't get out and things puff up like a ... like a ... like an ERECTION. Women have the same thing only for obvious reasons (except of course for Bulgarian female shot-putters who have taken a few too many stereos during training) they aren't QUITE as obvious or at least we hope not.

When the GSpot is first "approached" without any foreplay or other arousal going on should feel like any other part of the vaginal wall. Wet-Soft and warm and yummy. How many get turned on like crazy feeling a woman's clit get hard as a pencil eraser just before they cum? OK - SOME women's clits get that hard and for the ones who do - I LOVE IT! Where was I - O - when the Gspot is manipulated - poked, rubbed and kneaded then blood begins to flow into the GSpot and you can actually feel it swell, thicken and fill with fluid like a little balloon. OK - like I keep saying that is what happens USUALLY. Some don't react at all. Others expel copious amounts of other fluids. Some expel copious amounts of fluids under pressure that would make a moon rocket proud. Everybody is different. and THANK GOD FOR THAT TOO.

What IS normal is a swelling of that area if it is reacting at all. If there is no reaction then there is likely no swelling. When there is swelling it can range from a slight firmness under your thumb or finger to the feel of another thumb pushing back at yours to an exploding water-bomb balloon!!

For those who react with a lot of swelling and lots of fluids (and you can feeel that reaction happening) try not to let it subside. Bring on an Ggasm (or 20) if at all possible because a woman's case of "blue balls" if this fluid is left in place is an UGGLIEEE thing to witness and can be dangerous if you're caught too close - like in the same CITY. The feeling of Ggasm and release on the other hand is a WUNDUR to BEHOLD.

Keep it light. Never Assume. Never compare. Enjoy. Experiment. Report. SHARE!!!

Dismissed.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Alrighty, good answers. I just reread my post as I had specifically avoided using the term normal, but I see I inadvertantly asked if this was normal, didn't I? I guess what I was asking was is this a physiological reaction which could be caused by g-spot stimulation and if this common to women who DO ejaculate? I didn't know because my wife doesn't react that way, of course she doesn't squirt like a firehose either, but she sure as hell cums hard from it.

What you mention though about firmness, that about describes her. It's strange, but the anterior wall of her vagina tightens until it feels almost rough and ribbed after a bit of stimulation and the spot hardens (I believe someone described it as an almond shape).

Also the descriptions of a g-spot orgasm actually being uterine contractions was very telling. I talked with her last night about this and asked her to describe what happens when she gets to a point where she makes me stop. She said that the orgasm subsides and when it does she starts getting sharp cramping pains in her ovary region. I'm now 100% positive that his is the contractions irritating her PCOS and causing the pains, rather than her just freaking out at the new sensations. Now I said maybe I should stop doing this to herand the response was "the hell we will!" or something like that. I just can't keep going unfortunately to make her ride the wave.

Why didn't I learn about this in College? I would have changed my major to Biology and got a government grant to explore the myriad of reactions in women of all ages, balanced against physiological and hormonal characteristics. With the help of a few willing women my mentor, Professor GGG, we'd have mapped the orgasm down to the very last evironmental and biological factor!

And gotten laid a lot in the process.

 

[MR.GGG]

""Why didn't I learn about this in College? .... Professor GGG, we'd have mapped the orgasm down to the very last evironmental and biological factor!

And gotten laid a lot in the process. ""

Laid a lot is an understatement. In college there was NOTHING like the power of a satisfied - not satisfied - completely satiated to the point of exhaustion - g/f talking to all HER g/f's about howe good a certain guy was in the sack to have a mob of horny chicks chasing you around. Sadly that never happened to me. I was just another horny without a clue kind of guy hoping the Angie Jolis of the world would cum knockin on MY door. Even then I could give a mean tongue lashing so most of the young ladiies I bedded walked away with a big grin on their faces.

If we had started way (and I mean WAAAAY) back then I'm sure we would be a lot farther along in the true "mapping" of the female orgasm and G-Gasms in particular but I'm SURE we'd have a LOT MORE research still to do.

I've often joked with friends saying that if I knew then (college) what I know now (old and crotchety) I would be EMPEROR today.

Long live the RESEARCH !!!

 

[nicholascmm]

I want to try this...

Is there anybody in the Triad area of NC that would like to participate in an "Experiment?" I am looking for participants.

 

[psyche]

""Why didn't I learn about this in College? .... Professor GGG, we'd have mapped the orgasm down to the very last evironmental and biological factor!

And gotten laid a lot in the process. ""

Laid a lot is an understatement. In college there was NOTHING like the power of a satisfied - not satisfied - completely satiated to the point of exhaustion - g/f talking to all HER g/f's about howe good a certain guy was in the sack to have a mob of horny chicks chasing you around. Sadly that never happened to me. I was just another horny without a clue kind of guy hoping the Angie Jolis of the world would cum knockin on MY door. Even then I could give a mean tongue lashing so most of the young ladiies I bedded walked away with a big grin on their faces.

If we had started way (and I mean WAAAAY) back then I'm sure we would be a lot farther along in the true "mapping" of the female orgasm and G-Gasms in particular but I'm SURE we'd have a LOT MORE research still to do.

I've often joked with friends saying that if I knew then (college) what I know now (old and crotchety) I would be EMPEROR today.

Long live the RESEARCH !!!

Mr. G................you may describe yourself as old and crotchety, but you have groupies on this thread...............following you around

 

[Don K Dyck]

Mr. G................you may describe yourself as old and crotchety, but you have groupies on this thread...............following you around

Yeah, Mr G . . . Psyche has bin moppin' about here now for about 85 pages . . . always with a wicked, knowing, satisfied glint in her "come hither" eye . . .

 

[psyche]

Yeah, Mr G . . . Psyche has bin moppin' about here now for about 85 pages . . . always with a wicked, knowing, satisfied glint in her "come hither" eye . . .

LOL! Have to keep up on the latest advances!

 

[pocahontas]

man still going strong........

WoW! I haven't participated much in the forum. I was just looking around and saw this thread was still going strong. I still haven't not been able to do this. I had been a bit shy to ask. Well, that has all changed. I've been growing a lot sexually and now have got to show this thread to my BF. I'll have to read through all the stuff I have missed.

 

[Gil_T2]

""Why didn't I learn about this in College? .... Professor GGG, we'd have mapped the orgasm down to the very last evironmental and biological factor!

And gotten laid a lot in the process. ""

Laid a lot is an understatement. In college there was NOTHING like the power of a satisfied - not satisfied - completely satiated to the point of exhaustion - g/f talking to all HER g/f's about howe good a certain guy was in the sack to have a mob of horny chicks chasing you around. Sadly that never happened to me. I was just another horny without a clue kind of guy hoping the Angie Jolis of the world would cum knockin on MY door. Even then I could give a mean tongue lashing so most of the young ladiies I bedded walked away with a big grin on their faces.

If we had started way (and I mean WAAAAY) back then I'm sure we would be a lot farther along in the true "mapping" of the female orgasm and G-Gasms in particular but I'm SURE we'd have a LOT MORE research still to do.

I've often joked with friends saying that if I knew then (college) what I know now (old and crotchety) I would be EMPEROR today.

Long live the RESEARCH !!!

My sex life was OK but after a very experienced lady showed me the way I became very popular as word spread of my talent at finding the G spot.
A young lady I've got to know through PMs & emails who I pointed to this tread & showed her B/F who studied it well had her passing out so Mr G the word is spreading.

 

[Vivid]

irritation?

Did any other women find it irritating and unpleasant after a minute or so?

I was very gentle with my wife and thought I felt the swelling response you described but as I continued she gently and lovingly said that it wasn't feeling good.

Another thing, might it be her medications are interfering?

 

[TBKahuna123]

I can think of a couple of reasons:

1.) It's an unfamiliar sensation. Many women describe a feeling of having to urinate. This might be what she is feeling and she doesn't understand the sensations. She may think something bad is about to happen. Talk to her about this and see what she says.

2.) If she describes pain or burning, it may be lack of lubrication. My wife had a problem with this a few times, but a little lubricant helps alleviate it.

3.) If she starts to have unpleasantness at other times, she may have a slight infection and should get checked out.

4.) You said you were gentle, but stimulating the g-spot requires a certain amount of rough pressure. I think too gently might become ittritating to the vagina, kind of how a constant rubbing on your cock might cause irritation, where as if tehre were more pressure, the rubbing would be stimulating.

5.) It might be medication interfering, depending on what she is taking. I think we're established that hormone levels defintely effect how a woman reacts to g-spot stimulation.

I'd start with talking to her about specifically how it feels, and then move on to lube. Remember, there's never enough lube!

 

[SweetErika]

Did any other women find it irritating and unpleasant after a minute or so?

I was very gentle with my wife and thought I felt the swelling response you described but as I continued she gently and lovingly said that it wasn't feeling good.

Another thing, might it be her medications are interfering?

I do find it unpleasant and overwhelming often, especially if it's the main thing that's going on at the time. Having a clitoral orgasm first frequently helps, as does combining clitoral and g-spot stimulation (e.g. I'll use a vibe on my clit, while my husband works on the g-spot). I actually find those combination orgasms to be the most pleasureable and intense, and we can keep them going for a very long time by continuing the g-spot stim with maybe a little clitoral or nipple action on the side. At some point even that becomes a little irritating or "too much" though, so maybe I'm just not cut out for more than a few minutes.

Oddly enough, I noticed my clit doesn't become so hypersensitive after orgasm when we continue the g-spot. I can't figure out why though.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I do find it unpleasant and overwhelming often, especially if it's the main thing that's going on at the time. Having a clitoral orgasm first frequently helps, as does combining clitoral and g-spot stimulation (e.g. I'll use a vibe on my clit, while my husband works on the g-spot). I actually find those combination orgasms to be the most pleasureable and intense, and we can keep them going for a very long time by continuing the g-spot stim with maybe a little clitoral or nipple action on the side. At some point even that becomes a little irritating or "too much" though, so maybe I'm just not cut out for more than a few minutes.

Oddly enough, I noticed my clit doesn't become so hypersensitive after orgasm when we continue the g-spot. I can't figure out why though.

Interesting. My wife says the same thing. I know some women say that clitoral stim detracts from there g-sperience, but my wife says the same thing you do. Maybe it's sensory overload, and the clitoral stimulation takes the edge off?

 

[texan4836]

I been reading this thread on how to find the g-spot for a couple of weeks and decided to try. Last weekend we were watching a xxx moive in the den and playing around and I started rubbing firmly on what I thought was the G-spot within 2 minutes my wife started moving her hips up and down, moaning, and breathing heavy. Within another 2 minutes she had a really big O. I waited about 30 seconds and started rubbing again like Mr G said. Two minutes later she started grabbing for things. One of the things was my dick. This O was so BIG it was unbelieveable she almost hurt me. THANKS FOR ALL THE TIPS. This made our sex life more exciting.

 

[eudaemonia]

I know some women say that clitoral stim detracts from there g-sperience

That's my experience. If I can have G-gasms I almost don't care if I have a clit-gasm or not. G-gasms are sooooo much more satisfying, and I never get sore. One night I gave myself 6 clit-gasms (including a multiple) but wow I was sore the next morning. G-gasms .. pft ... can do them until I'm actually bored silly and never get sore. :shrug:

 

[psyche]

That's my experience. If I can have G-gasms I almost don't care if I have a clit-gasm or not. G-gasms are sooooo much more satisfying, and I never get sore. One night I gave myself 6 clit-gasms (including a multiple) but wow I was sore the next morning. G-gasms .. pft ... can do them until I'm actually bored silly and never get sore. :shrug:

Mr. G is right, we are all so different. My lover can make me go for hours. I don't get tired of flooding his hand, the bed and everything around it. He doesn't seem to get bored with it either and I can't even begin to count the number of orgasms that I have when I'm with him. I agree that the g-spot orgasms are the best, but mine can be enhanced even more by several factors. He gets me going, his fingers skillfully sliding in and out of my pussy until I cum over and over again. The intensity increases when he holds me down, when he whispers something so fucking sexy in my ear, when he stimulates my clit at the same time, or when he makes me look into his eyes while he's doing this to me..............Fuck! Is it Sunday yet? LOL!

 

[hook848]

*bump*

 

[psyche]

On the fucking flip side! LOL! Washing sheets, mattress pad, mattress protectors, towels, and trying to clean the couch! ...............not that I'm complaining mind you!


Not good for tile floors, hardwood floors, carpeting, rugs, countertops, or any number of other surfaces...............resolve carpet cleaner does a good job on the softer surfaces though!


Is is Thursday yet?

 

[Bandit58]

hehe we have stains on our carpet too, in various places! But usually beside Master Gil's chair, where he makes me stand while he works his magic - I have to brace myself otherwise my jelly legs will give out

The bed is ok because I usually put two or three towels down before we start. Same with the couch! The neighbours must be wondering why there are so many towels on the line

 

[psyche]

hehe we have stains on our carpet too, in various places! But usually beside Master Gil's chair, where he makes me stand while he works his magic - I have to brace myself otherwise my jelly legs will give out

The bed is ok because I usually put two or three towels down before we start. Same with the couch! The neighbours must be wondering why there are so many towels on the line

I use towels also and am spending a lot of time washing them! LOL! Standing is very difficult, in the end I can hardly have my head up at all because it is literally spinning....................

 

[Arden]

Just when I was beginning to believe that I'd never experience this type of pleasure, there it was… I had just experienced two incredibly intense orgasms from direct clitoral stimulation with my rechargeable (hard plastic) vibe. I was still in that semi-conscious dream state, slipping the vibe in and out gently… God, it felt so fucking good… Then I slid it all the way in once again and pressed the entire length against the upper wall and held it firmly in place… blissfully sweet sensations spread through me… And suddenly there it was…liquid warmth gushing from within, flowing downward between my cheeks… omg! I was jolted back into reality the moment I realized there was a puddle of warmth under my bare skin. For a fleeting moment I thought that I had an accident because I needed to pee so badly... Then it dawned on me that it could be something else… In breathless whispers I told Him what happened, and asked if I might taste... He gave His consent, and I drew one fingertip across my dampened skin and raised it to my lips. There was almost no taste other than a delicate hint of sweetness. What an incredibly delicious experience, in so many ways!

 

[psyche]

Just when I was beginning to believe that I'd never experience this type of pleasure, there it was… I had just experienced two incredibly intense orgasms from direct clitoral stimulation with my rechargeable (hard plastic) vibe. I was still in that semi-conscious dream state, slipping the vibe in and out gently… God, it felt so fucking good… Then I slid it all the way in once again and pressed the entire length against the upper wall and held it firmly in place… blissfully sweet sensations spread through me… And suddenly there it was…liquid warmth gushing from within, flowing downward between my cheeks… omg! I was jolted back into reality the moment I realized there was a puddle of warmth under my bare skin. For a fleeting moment I thought that I had an accident because I needed to pee so badly... Then it dawned on me that it could be something else… In breathless whispers I told Him what happened, and asked if I might taste... He gave His consent, and I drew one fingertip across my dampened skin and raised it to my lips. There was almost no taste other than a delicate hint of sweetness. What an incredibly delicious experience, in so many ways!

How fucking wonderful for both of you!