Trust issues

Trust but verify.

It's been my line of work from day one and it has definitely taken over my personal life.
 
I get what you're saying, but isn't the "verify" portion of this equation at odds with the "trust" part?

I think it's like "Innocent until proven guilty", only, deep down, you already know they're guilty, you just haven't proven it yet..:D

Yes; and it can and has negatively effected relationships in my life. But I think those would have expired on their own, anyway.
 
I have major trust issues when words and actions don't match up. Patience and understanding aside, you either are, or aren't my friend. Treat me wrong once and it's game over.
 
I have major trust issues when words and actions don't match up. Patience and understanding aside, you either are, or aren't my friend. Treat me wrong once and it's game over.

Yeah, I feel ya..
People either understand why the trust-o-meter gets irreparably broken, or they don't.

Those of us who long since ran out of warranty on ours, simply deal. And while anyone can sit there and give me their opinion on how I'm " hurting myself"...God help them if they ever have to go through what I went to get here.

I'll be more than happy to spoon feed them their bullshit back to them, and see if they still agree....


Really? I'm not a miserable person. I have VERY good friends.
Friends I'd alibi if needed. I just do not have a lot of them.
And I refuse to be someone I'm not, to try and collect a merry weather lot or win any popularity contest. (In case that wasn't crystal clear. ;))

I always tell people, you may ask me anything you want, just be certain you want the answer.

Call me bitter , and you'd be wrong. I'm not bitter. I'm sweet as sugar, just with a kick...lol

 
Yeah, I feel ya..
People either understand why the trust-o-meter gets irreparably broken, or they don't.

Those of us who long since ran out of warranty on ours, simply deal. And while anyone can sit there and give me their opinion on how I'm " hurting myself"...God help them if they ever have to go through what I went to get here.

I'll be more than happy to spoon feed them their bullshit back to them, and see if they still agree....


Really? I'm not a miserable person. I have VERY good friends.
Friends I'd alibi if needed. I just do not have a lot of them.
And I refuse to be someone I'm not, to try and collect a merry weather lot or win any popularity contest. (In case that wasn't crystal clear. ;))

I always tell people, you may ask me anything you want, just be certain you want the answer.

Call me bitter , and you'd be wrong. I'm not bitter. I'm sweet as sugar, just with a kick...lol


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