*True Confessions*

[sortacurious]

*snuggling*

mmmmm, bring on the Mezcal, lemon and MGD!

 

[kkceohcs]

Ahh, thanks KK for the drink

SS - I have been here all along - just waiting for some tipsy man to take advantage of.

*Sits next to Soron

Always at your service m'lady....

 

[Soron]

Ummm .... there should be one shortly. Soron is a good candidate -- he's funny and good looking

slips SS a ten spot

you're too kind sir

 

[redelicious]

oh my. am I going to get taken advantage of?

Why are you rolling your eyes at me????

LOL

 

[Soron]

Ok, quick poll for hte men.

Why when someone says to someone "I need to know someone before cybering/giving out Yahoo info/etc" do they immediately say "Ok what do you want to know?"

I mean I dont carry a list of 20 questions with me..I dont' know what I want to know..I just want to know! How wrong is that?

don't know the answer to that one

I've cybered once and I was the one that got taken advantage of

 

[Soron]

Why are you rolling your eyes at me????

LOL

I'm sorry Red
'm just shy around beautiful women

 

[redelicious]

Hey SC - it's been awhile since i have seen you - hope you are well

Hi Dan - its good to be back. I could talk to you about the threats to kill oneself, but I am not sure you would like what I have to say. Hubby makes those threats from time to time . . .

 

[redelicious]

Ok, quick poll for hte men.

Why when someone says to someone "I need to know someone before cybering/giving out Yahoo info/etc" do they immediately say "Ok what do you want to know?"

I mean I dont carry a list of 20 questions with me..I dont' know what I want to know..I just want to know! How wrong is that?

Oh Freya-

God I thought this only happened to me

 

[sortacurious]

Danny,

All I can do is offer you the biggest of hugs!

I am going through a similiar situation as we speak. My drama (suicide attempts and threats, violence, drinking, moving out, not moving out, friends calling and not understanding...you name it, and I haven't even told my family yet) has been going on all week. I don't know what to do either.

I'm usually pretty quick with the advise, but I honestly don't know what to say to you.

But I'm more than happy to listen any time you'd like. You have a lot to contend with and the more support you can have the better. I'm so sorry you are going through this!

 

[redelicious]

I'm sorry Red
'm just shy around beautiful women

Ok, I won't take advantage of you. Mind if I just enjoy your company?

 

[SecretScribe]

Ok, quick poll for hte men.

Why when someone says to someone "I need to know someone before cybering/giving out Yahoo info/etc" do they immediately say "Ok what do you want to know?"

I mean I dont carry a list of 20 questions with me..I dont' know what I want to know..I just want to know! How wrong is that?

I can't anser this one. I'm still a newbie and have never asked the question yet.

Ya, I know , get a life

 

[Freya]

Dan this might sound really harsh...and feel free to tell me to stuff it in my ass k?

You need to cut the cord hunny....you are an enabler and as long as you rush to her side whenever she has a fit...you'll never be free. It's taken for granted that she can scream, cry, threaten to kill herself and Dan will pick up hte pieces. She's an adult..if she gets that hysterical over a broken promise from a man who sounds as though he does it consistently...chances are she's gonna get like that again. And guess who she'll call? And the time after, and the time after that.....forever and a day.

Cut the cord.

 

[sortacurious]

Hey SC - it's been awhile since i have seen you - hope you are well

As can be sugar...good to see you back safely!

 

[kkceohcs]

Ok, quick poll for hte men.

Why when someone says to someone "I need to know someone before cybering/giving out Yahoo info/etc" do they immediately say "Ok what do you want to know?"

I mean I dont carry a list of 20 questions with me..I dont' know what I want to know..I just want to know! How wrong is that?

Have you been talking to someone I know?????

What answers to the questions would make you decide yes or no?

Does their profile say anything?

I guess they need to say something real and honest as you can connect or get a sense about them...

there is nothing wrong with asking question, just be ready for hte answers that may not be what you want to hear....

I dont have any secrets here, but I am probably more accepting of others problems...than mabe in r/l

 

[Freya]

Oh Freya-

God I thought this only happened to me

Aren't they frickin annoying. Why would I cyber with you if you can't have a normal conversation? How bloody boring would that sex be?

 

[redelicious]

As can be sugar...good to see you back safely!

Yep - safe and sound.

*big sighs of relief

You keep hanging in their girl - I am proud of how you seem to handle yourself

 

[Soron]

Ok, I won't take advantage of you. Mind if I just enjoy your company?

absolutely darlin' ...anytime

loooks at that red hair and wishes she WOULD take advantage

 

[redelicious]

Aren't they frickin annoying. Why would I cyber with you if you can't have a normal conversation? How bloody boring would that sex be?

Totally - and then there is always that follow up question . . .

"Hey, wanna talk on the phone . . ."

Now, I know a lot of people here talk on the phone with others that they know pretty well and I think that's cool. But why on God's Earth would I talk to someone I have known a few minutes - or even a few days.

Crazy

 

[Freya]

YES! I mean I am most certainly not giving out my phone number to anyoen...and I'm not paying for a long distance call to get someone else's jollies!

 

[sortacurious]

Yep - safe and sound.

*big sighs of relief

You keep hanging in their girl - I am proud of how you seem to handle yourself

Thank you! You too!

 

[redelicious]

absolutely darlin' ...anytime

loooks at that red hair and wishes she WOULD take advantage

*sits a little closer to Soron

So tell me, how are you tonight?

tease

 

[Soron]

*sits a little closer to Soron

So tell me, how are you tonight?

tease

oh I'm doing excellent thank you

love your dress

 

[dansretreat]

Freya,

I'm not arguing with you girl. I know you're right. It just goes against every fiber of my being to just walk away from someone I loved. My family thinks I'm nuts. I know this is an unhealthy relationship, which is why I ended it, TWICE!

Right now Sinatra is Witchcraft and I swear that's what it is. It's like I'm under a spell I can't break. I need to just turn my back completely but that's probably the hardest thing for me to do.

 

[kkceohcs]

Well, Ive gotta open up in a couple of hours so Im done for the night....

SS, looks like you are in good hands.....

Soron, take care of yourself, man....

FREYA, looking as gorgeous as usual....

RED and SC...very colorful dreams ladies.

DAN, Hello and welcome, I cant offer any advice...Cus I cant seem to keep my own life straight... except to be true and honest to yourself......first and foremost...

Pleasant dreams,

 

[redelicious]

Freya,

I'm not arguing with you girl. I know you're right. It just goes against every fiber of my being to just walk away from someone I loved. My family thinks I'm nuts. I know this is an unhealthy relationship, which is why I ended it, TWICE!

Right now Sinatra is Witchcraft and I swear that's what it is. It's like I'm under a spell I can't break. I need to just turn my back completely but that's probably the hardest thing for me to do.

Sweetie - you probably know this - that is not love, it's guilt.

*repeating that to myself so I will also know it