DreamWizard47
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Jewelz said:OK..........Gotta have a heartfelt confession right now. I am fuming and just really pissy.
My mother just called me. Wanted to remind me of a picnic tomorrow. Yeah ok. I might be there I say. She yelled and said I had better be that she hasnt seen the girls. Well ok mom, you know where I live...umm 10 minutes away from you. You can come see them any time. She got pissy when I told her that the older 2 were with my mom in law. They are always with her she claims. Well mom, its cuz SHE takes the time and effort to spend time with them. You dont.
Then she goes on to ask if I was still going on my trip. I said yep. She was not happy. She said she cant understand why my hubby is throwing away the marriage and why I have someone new and "how in gods name can you trust someone that you havent even met. you are going out there and it scares me. you dont know who he is. i pray to god you know what the hell you are doing girl."...I told her that I was not concerned with her worries and that I knew him quite well and things would be ok. She then went on to ask me if i loved my children, how could you leave them behind. and you are NOT moving out there. he will have to come here. i wont allow it. BAH! cmon. mom stop already.
Then I ask her if she has told any of the family about the divorce (ie her siblings)..she said yeah she has... cuz she had to vent her disappointment to someone. she says "i told them that hubby didnt want you, he was done, you didnt like blah blah blah and that you had someone new and that i hated that cuz i think it is foolish and irresponsible."...goes on to say "arent you afraid of crashing. what about your babies. you know nothing about his guy. and i dont even know how long you have been talking to him."...OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told her that it was my life...and a life I fully intend to persue and if she loved me then she just needed to respect my choices. She said she did but she doesnt like it at all. whateva.
she didnt know what to say when i asked her if she knew that my cousin met her baby's father over the net. "no i didnt know that"...and they have a happy lil family now and are very much in love. Booyah!!
Ok, i could say more, but i feel much better venting about her. she says she is soo very hurt by our actions to kill this marriage. I told her that hubby and i were doing the best we could to keep it cordial and if she didnt like things then she had to just sit quietly and let my life be as it is going to be. What was her answer to that? "Well, all i know is that you are NOT moving out there"...hahahah!! stop me mom!
My headache just got worse......
I know you were just ventingand hopefully that got things off your chest.
First she is aof another age and time when things like the internet and meeting people and winging across the staes (even though you are afraid of flying) happen. I know people that have met true love onthe net and it is a reality. There are also some true tragedies that I will not go into. I know from rading your posts that you have spent time to learn before making this decision.
She is a mom and she will always think she wil raise you, but "hey mom, we do grow up". They think we never will and before tat they wish for the day we do and go off on our own. A terrible paradox to live under.
You have your life and you will make the choices you need to and I pray for the success and safety of your distant love.
Pushes the soapbox under the computer table.

Oh my, that thought just raised the temperature in here.