trouble reaching orgasm

[Guest]

i am a 23 married woman. my husband does try to help me reach a orgasm but i can't seem to relax. i seem to need clitoral stimulus to get off and when i use a toy i reach a small orgasm but i still do not feel satified.

i have tryed toys and even in masturbation its the same the feeling seems to come and fade in before i can really climax


is there any ideas to help me reach a big orgasm. i am willing to use toys. i am thinking of getting a g spot vib soon. just wondering if anyone else has any thing i can try

 

[lickboxer]

put the toys away, LOL, and have hubby use his tongue to explore, I'm able to bring the little lady off so many times with my tongue, she'll lose count. Hopefully he doesn't mind that, and then explain to him exactly where to stimulate you, as you go, should work.

 

[cactiphile]

If you can't seem to relax it seems a mental problem more than
a physical one.

I would try having more communication with your husband
as to what excites you, where you like being touched and how.

The only way your going to have great orgasms is to get
excited enough to be able to let go of your control. Orgasms are more in the mind than the body.

c.

 

[offroadr]

thanks you guys will try. will let you know how it goes