Tributes

[subgirl2]

Sometimes it is nice to pay tribute to someone just to make them feel appreciated. Sometimes things can happen online or on lit, we can lose friends or loved ones and have to keep it secret in our R/L. That can be hard. If anyone would like to express themselves or pay tribute to someone please feel free to do so.

 

[subgirl2]

I would like to pay tribute to someone very special.

To my dear love,

You will never know how much you meant to me, how much you helped me and improved me.

When I was low, you lifted me up with your kind words. When I felt worthless, you made me feel desirable and wanted and gave me confidence.
When I was sad, you kissed away my tears and held me.
When I was lonely, you were always there with your beautiful gentle smile that could brighten my day. You were always ready with your hugs and kisses when I felt that I didn't deserve affection.

I remember telling you how much these "little acts of kindness" meant to me but you just shrugged it off because to you, you were just being your usual kind, sweet self. I smile now thinking about it because a man as wonderful as you would never understand how much it can mean to someone like me.

You opened your heart and your life to me and taught me how to do the same. I had feelings that I thought were dead and buried. You switched them on again and allowed me to feel excitement and love, but my Darling, you have gone now and you never showed me how to switch them off again and now I am hurting.

There is not a day goes by when I don't think of you. I am alone now, when I cry, I wipe my own tears. When I am happy, there is no-one to share it with. When I am in trouble there is no-one to guide, advise or help me.

I think back to our time together and hope that I gave you just a fraction of the happiness that you gave me. I hope I made you smile and laugh as much as you did me.

It is almost a year now since you passed away but you will always have a very special place in my heart and you will have that til the day I die.

Goodbye my Darling, and thank you for being you.

 

[Cathleen]

What a wonderful idea, subgirl2.

I'd like to pay tribute to a woman I hold dear to my heart. She's listens when I need to get the wackos out of my head and when I go on and on about nothing. And it can go on until the wee hours.

She laughs at the right moments, like when I talk about one particular wacko or the group as a whole. I especially like when she tells me what I need to hear whether I want to listen or not. Mostly it's about the laughter we share.

I have laughed more with her than anyone in my whole nutty life. Good thing I know her otherwise I'd be forced out onto the streets to find a laugh-whore or be one, probably be one actually.

Sooner or later I know she'd roll up though, "Hey, you lookin' for a laugh tonight?" I can hear her laughing already.

 

[bobsgirl]

What a wonderful idea, subgirl2.

I'd like to pay tribute to a woman I hold dear to my heart. She's listens when I need to get the wackos out of my head and when I go on and on about nothing. And it can go on until the wee hours.

She laughs at the right moments, like when I talk about one particular wacko or the group as a whole. I especially like when she tells me what I need to hear whether I want to listen or not. Mostly it's about the laughter we share.

I have laughed more with her than anyone in my whole nutty life. Good thing I know her otherwise I'd be forced out onto the streets to find a laugh-whore or be one, probably be one actually.

Sooner or later I know she'd roll up though, "Hey, you lookin' for a laugh tonight?" I can hear her laughing already.

She sounds like she has a double dose of insanity.

I'd like to pay tribute to a dear friend who more than anyone alive knows all my warts and imperfections and fears. She's dragged me through some very dark times. She also makes me laugh til it hurts. (Eat the bun, lady. I mean that sincerely. )

In a perfect world, we will end up being old ladies living in adjoining cabins on top of a mountain, cruising Lit and writing dirty stories.

 

[bobsgirl]

I'd also like to pay tribute to a dear friend who I suspect does not realize what a wonderfully compassionate caring soul he is. If I could have one wish for him, it would be that he finds peace of mind and true happiness.

Love you, you big curmudgeon (with a soft heart).

 

[subgirl2]

I would like to pay tribute to a certain Lit guy who always seems to be there when I need him. He seems to send a cheeky text at just the right time. I just want him to know that I appreciate him and he is a very dear person and he doesn't realise just how precious and important he is to those around him.

Thank you. You know who you are

 

[Quoll]

I've been thinking on this for quite a while but just couldn't get the words out, still can't really.
This is part of something I wrote in another thread, it says what I wanted to say here, but not the way I wanted to say it, I'll settle for something over nothing at the moment.



I learnt a lot about myself with the help of some great people here. After a lifetime of low self esteem I was shown that not only was I intelligent and talented but I also had something worthwhile to say, that took a long time for me to accept (even now I'm uncomfortable writing those words, just so not my style) but I really do believe it, I even began to think I could do something positive with my life. It was great.

 

[bailadora]

Actually, Q - I think you did quite well. FWIW - I look forward to your rare posts. Quite often, they make me smile.

 

[Quoll]

Actually, Q - I think you did quite well. FWIW - I look forward to your rare posts. Quite often, they make me smile.

It's worth a hell of a lot actually.

 

[bobsgirl]

I've been thinking on this for quite a while but just couldn't get the words out, still can't really.
This is part of something I wrote in another thread, it says what I wanted to say here, but not the way I wanted to say it, I'll settle for something over nothing at the moment.



I learnt a lot about myself with the help of some great people here. After a lifetime of low self esteem I was shown that not only was I intelligent and talented but I also had something worthwhile to say, that took a long time for me to accept (even now I'm uncomfortable writing those words, just so not my style) but I really do believe it, I even began to think I could do something positive with my life. It was great.

You can do something positive. You have done many things positive.


No big surprise to those of us who know you.

 

[subgirl2]

I've been thinking on this for quite a while but just couldn't get the words out, still can't really.
This is part of something I wrote in another thread, it says what I wanted to say here, but not the way I wanted to say it, I'll settle for something over nothing at the moment.



I learnt a lot about myself with the help of some great people here. After a lifetime of low self esteem I was shown that not only was I intelligent and talented but I also had something worthwhile to say, that took a long time for me to accept (even now I'm uncomfortable writing those words, just so not my style) but I really do believe it, I even began to think I could do something positive with my life. It was great.

You sound great Quoll. Keep doing whatever you are doing. I wish you all the best.

 

[DarkBee]

Can't help it:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcJwz7wu8_s

 

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[Quoll]

You can do something positive. You have done many things positive.


No big surprise to those of us who know you.

You sound great Quoll. Keep doing whatever you are doing. I wish you all the best.

Thank you so much, some days it all comes together, I'm working on having more of those days.


I didn't click the youtube link (dialup), but I love that song.

 

[subgirl2]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcJwz7wu8_s

good song and great video. Enjoy "Tribute".