alexanna
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- Aug 2, 2007
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I am looking for any information on the concept of Transparency in D/s. I understand it to be the idea that the pyl is expected to make available and inform their PYL of what they feel and are thinking at any given time when expected by the PYL.
I have done quite a bit of searching but have been unable to find very much information.
I tend to be the type of person who tries to do/be whatever I think my SO wants me to do\be, which ends up leading to a lot of misunderstanding and resentment when I decide their expectations were unreasonable. This happens often because I am also extremely opinionated and independent. I can't maintain the silent obedience to the commands I was never issued for very long before I start to rebel. I understand this is problematic on several levels, transparency being only one of them but it is the biggest one I need to work on as my husband and I begin our D/s adventures
If anyone has any links\articles I would be very interested. Thank you in advance.
I have done quite a bit of searching but have been unable to find very much information.
I tend to be the type of person who tries to do/be whatever I think my SO wants me to do\be, which ends up leading to a lot of misunderstanding and resentment when I decide their expectations were unreasonable. This happens often because I am also extremely opinionated and independent. I can't maintain the silent obedience to the commands I was never issued for very long before I start to rebel. I understand this is problematic on several levels, transparency being only one of them but it is the biggest one I need to work on as my husband and I begin our D/s adventures
If anyone has any links\articles I would be very interested. Thank you in advance.