Trans Women Preferences

This thread is pure transphobic cringe.
How can you say that? People are discussing their preferences in trans women just like you would any other gender! There is no transphobic ANYTHING here! It's pathetic that we cannot voice our preferences in another person that we might want to be with without getting attacked by snowflakes like you!! Get off my thread!!!
 
I get the idea that passing is important to a partner. It’s been critical for me to pass, because I was horribly picked on when I was a kid. Everyone just assumed I was a gay, but I was just very gentle and empathic and couldn’t understand boys very well. All my friends were girls and I just… assumed I really loved girls. Still do! But I leaned early on that being seen meant being hurt, and so I hid. During transition, I was tense most of the time. I didn’t like walking out my front door. (I do NOT live in a trans-friendly place). I’m still tense, but people that meet me now have no idea I was born with a different body. I’m on the slimmer hip side, smaller bewbs, but I pass without any surgery at all. (The secret is my glasses, I think). I’m still gonna get FFS when I can afford it, just to really kill any leftover traits.

My point is, if it’s this important that I pass, and any reason is valid, I absolutely accept that a male partner would be attracted to that. Like, while I’m attracted to many kinds of men, I’m extremely attracted to hyperfeminine women. All creamy and soft when our bodies slide over each other… sweet giggles, slow undulating sex that’s so gentle… mmm. If I want to be roped to a headboard and have my asshole destroyed, I fantasize about man that will happily leave bruises on my hips and welts on my ass.

We like what we like. No shame.
 
I get the idea that passing is important to a partner. It’s been critical for me to pass, because I was horribly picked on when I was a kid. Everyone just assumed I was a gay, but I was just very gentle and empathic and couldn’t understand boys very well. All my friends were girls and I just… assumed I really loved girls. Still do! But I leaned early on that being seen meant being hurt, and so I hid. During transition, I was tense most of the time. I didn’t like walking out my front door. (I do NOT live in a trans-friendly place). I’m still tense, but people that meet me now have no idea I was born with a different body. I’m on the slimmer hip side, smaller bewbs, but I pass without any surgery at all. (The secret is my glasses, I think). I’m still gonna get FFS when I can afford it, just to really kill any leftover traits.

My point is, if it’s this important that I pass, and any reason is valid, I absolutely accept that a male partner would be attracted to that. Like, while I’m attracted to many kinds of men, I’m extremely attracted to hyperfeminine women. All creamy and soft when our bodies slide over each other… sweet giggles, slow undulating sex that’s so gentle… mmm. If I want to be roped to a headboard and have my asshole destroyed, I fantasize about man that will happily leave bruises on my hips and welts on my ass.

We like what we like. No shame.
Sorry to hear that. I actually had the same experiences.

I wasn't that gentle and empathetic as you and I did have a temper, but I was relatively much softer than the guys I went to school with and unwilling to fight back at all.

I was in an all boys school so while I didn't know about girls, I knew that they were usually more willing to discuss their feelings and sympathize with others.

I figured soon enough that on average men will not listen to your feelings and laugh at you for having them, and women will listen to every little detail of your feelings and use it against you years later, almost guaranteed. They're equally bad but in different ways.
 
Sorry to hear that. I actually had the same experiences.

I wasn't that gentle and empathetic as you and I did have a temper, but I was relatively much softer than the guys I went to school with and unwilling to fight back at all.

I was in an all boys school so while I didn't know about girls, I knew that they were usually more willing to discuss their feelings and sympathize with others.

I figured soon enough that on average men will not listen to your feelings and laugh at you for having them, and women will listen to every little detail of your feelings and use it against you years later, almost guaranteed. They're equally bad but in different ways.
Well damn. That’s one hell of a lesson in keeping your mouth shut. I think I’ve been fortunate in my choice of friends since high school, and I can honestly say I’ve only befriended genuinely kind people but the qualifications for my inner circle are quite a challenge to meet. I think that’s why coming out, I had universal support outside my spouse at the time who had a very selfish and unsupportive reaction.

I really hope you’ve found people that listen to and support you.
 
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