Tranny Lover?

[SEVERUSMAX]

Would you get in a long-term relationship with a she-male? I don't mean a one-nighter or a fling as an experiment. I mean as a serious lover. Just wondering.

I would have no problem with it, myself. But, then again, I am bi and a swinger. Anyone else?

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

No, I wouldn't, but that's just because I'm not interested in someone who has equipment from both genders. If I'm going to be with a woman, I want her to be all woman (just saying *if*... I've never been with a woman), and if I'm going to be with a man, I want him to be all man.

 

[minsue]

It depends entirely on the person. Love is love, yannow?

 

[Goldie Munro]

It depends entirely on the person. Love is love, yannow?

Im with Min - you fall in love with whoever you fall in love with!

 

[Colleen Thomas]

It depends entirely on the person. Love is love, yannow?

I agree. You can't really controll whom you fall for.

 

[zeb1094]

I agree. You can't really controll whom you fall for.

Tell me about it!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Sooo true. Which is why I didn't blame a certain girl for not returning my affections. At least she was honest with me about when I told her, some 3 years or so ago. Since then, I realized that it would have been a mistake anyway.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've *cough* dated a tranny or two... from both sides, male-to-female, female-to-male.
My experiences with male-to-female transexuals (three) left me with a bit of a sour taste in my mouth- they seem to want to tell a woman how to be a BETTER woman. Yessir, all the answers! That being said, I do know of some very long-term relationships, likewise with female-to-male pairing up with a woman.

I've had some fun playing a trannie though

 

[Guest]

I've *cough* dated a tranny or two... from both sides, male-to-female, female-to-male.
My experiences with male-to-female transexuals (three) left me with a bit of a sour taste in my mouth- they seem to want to tell a woman how to be a BETTER woman. Yessir, all the answers! That being said, I do know of some very long-term relationships, likewise with female-to-male pairing up with a woman.

I've had some fun playing a trannie though

Interestingly enough, tat's the very thing a friend of mine who is just starting the transition (male to female) said -- when I asked why she wanted to be a woman, she said, point blank "Because I can do it better". And I smiled and nodded and said "Oh, I can't wait until you have hormones, too."

 

[WhiteTigerNipples]

Personally, I don't think that most shemales are looking for a long term relationship. The ones I've known enjoyed being the exotic in their crowd and liked the constant attention from new acquaintances who couldn't get enough of them until the novelty wore off and the neuroses showed through.

 

[matriarch]

......... And I smiled and nodded and said "Oh, I can't wait until you have hormones, too."

Indeed.
And honey, you just WAIT until menopause hits!! Sheesh. PMS has nothing on this.

 

[cloudy]

Interestingly enough, tat's the very thing a friend of mine who is just starting the transition (male to female) said -- when I asked why she wanted to be a woman, she said, point blank "Because I can do it better". And I smiled and nodded and said "Oh, I can't wait until you have hormones, too."

oh, there's a guy that posts around here that seems to think we can all be taught to be more womanly.

 

[Colleen Thomas]

Personally, I don't think that most shemales are looking for a long term relationship. The ones I've known enjoyed being the exotic in their crowd and liked the constant attention from new acquaintances who couldn't get enough of them until the novelty wore off and the neuroses showed through.

I think, for this statement to work, you have to make a distinction among shemales. The two or three transexuals I have met, really want a stable relationship. They are not caught up in being exotic, in fact they go to great lengths to be inoccuous.

That dosen't hold for all shemales or even all Ts's, but I think, in the main, those who have true gender disphoria and really want to be the opposite sex try very hard to be the opposite sex. they rarely call attention to the fact they were not born as thir current gender.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Well, yeah, it depends. Of course, not all transsexuals make the full transition, but many do. I saw a program recently on it. The new woman in question came with her ex wife, oddly enough. The ex was supportive, though sad to lose the man that she loved.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

oh, there's a guy that posts around here that seems to think we can all be taught to be more womanly.

His name wouldn't happen to start with an "a", would it?

 

[cloudy]

His name wouldn't happen to start with an "a", would it?

No.

Strangely enough, the person you're thinking of is very nice one-on-one.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

No.

Strangely enough, the person you're thinking of is very nice one-on-one.

Yeah, that's true. I can't bring myself to hate him, even if he can be preachy.

 

[matriarch]

oh, there's a guy that posts around here that seems to think we can all be taught to be more womanly.

'womanly'? Such a subjective phrase. Every woman is womanly in her own way. Arseholes.

[/hijack over]

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

'womanly'? Such a subjective phrase. Every woman is womanly in her own way. Arseholes.

[/hijack over]

Well, the same rule applies to men, but a lot of women don't get that, either. My landlady thinks that gay men are less manly, for instance.

 

[4degrees]

Personally, I don't think that most shemales are looking for a long term relationship. The ones I've known enjoyed being the exotic in their crowd and liked the constant attention from new acquaintances who couldn't get enough of them until the novelty wore off and the neuroses showed through.

haha, oh...i can't help but laugh in appreciation.

certainly isn't the case with all trans-identifying people, but recently i've had a couple-of-month r'ship with a transvestite. i do think the above quote in this case, is kinda accurate.

i, on the other hand, and a female-to-male transsexual. not transvestite, which is defined as one who gets sexual gratification from wearing the opposite sex's clothing. in my case, i have been aware of being in the wrong body since i was about 5. it's way beyond clothing, for me.


just thought i'd share. i do that once in awhile.

 

[carsonshepherd]

just thought i'd share. i do that once in awhile.

And we you

 

[BlackShanglan]

haha, oh...i can't help but laugh in appreciation.

certainly isn't the case with all trans-identifying people, but recently i've had a couple-of-month r'ship with a transvestite. i do think the above quote in this case, is kinda accurate.

i, on the other hand, and a female-to-male transsexual. not transvestite, which is defined as one who gets sexual gratification from wearing the opposite sex's clothing. in my case, i have been aware of being in the wrong body since i was about 5. it's way beyond clothing, for me.


just thought i'd share. i do that once in awhile.

This sounds like a genuinely fascinating relationship. Thank you for sharing it.

 

[BlackShanglan]

It depends entirely on the person. Love is love, yannow?

Amen to that.

 

[4degrees]

This sounds like a genuinely fascinating relationship. Thank you for sharing it.

haha! it has had fascinating moment, yes.

but, over this short time i do feel kind of like i've been experiencing what
whitetigernipples posted on...my friend certainly seems to be in the 'spotlight' factor of it all, and haha...i dunno if its the womanly thought process she has (that i'm not accustomed to) or the neurosis, or if the 'novelty' has begun to wear off. i'm not as shallow as i sound here, honestly. my experience with mtf's is pretty limited, so i sure can't be a good judge. but yeah we get some interesting looks when we go out. hahaha.

and thanks carson

 

[BlackShanglan]

haha! it has had fascinating moment, yes.

but, over this short time i do feel kind of like i've been experiencing what
whitetigernipples posted on...my friend certainly seems to be in the 'spotlight' factor of it all, and haha...i dunno if its the womanly thought process she has (that i'm not accustomed to) or the neurosis, or if the 'novelty' has begun to wear off. i'm not as shallow as i sound here, honestly. my experience with mtf's is pretty limited, so i sure can't be a good judge. but yeah we get some interesting looks when we go out. hahaha.

and thanks carson

I don't think that you sound shallow at all. It's very wearing for anyone to be in a relationship in which his or her partner demands constant attention and "spotlight" time. Other people need attention too, and other people also need times when they don't have to be either giving or receiving the spotlight, but just resting and relaxing. A relationship in which that never happens seems to me to be likely to exhaust anyone, whatever the reason for the partner's demands. I've seen straight couples who work the same way, and I have seen the "non-spotlight" partners run into the ground there as well. I just don't think nearly anyone has that kind of energy.

Shanglan