Training Techniques for Mental Conditioning

[the captians wench]

Before 2 yrs ago, my breasts were not sensitive to nipple stimulation. Yes, flog them and I was a limp doll in minutes, but that was it. When I told my bf (of a dominant personality) this, he started working his magic and now he can bring me to multiple orgasm by pulling, twisting, etc just my nipples.

This is behavior training in its most simple form for me. It does not have to be considered brainwashing. And since I allowed him to play wth my nipples, it was totally my choice as to if I wanted to learn how to be stimulated in that manner.

I am not sure why as a submissive we feel we must give up that choice. It is called a limit! Use it wisely.

Okay, I had a similar issue.

My nipples were not sensitive at all. You could suck, bite, pinch, what ever and I barely felt it.

Jounar is a sadist, and he enjoys me being in pain long after we are done playing. One of his favorite spots to inflict pain is the nipple. So he went at it. He clamped me, or pegged me for an hour at a time some times. When we were together, he slapped, pinched, pegged, clamped, bit and all sorts of torture.

Slowly, like month by month, I felt it more intensely, and as I enjoy pain, I got a very pleasurable reaction.

The difference between Jounar and the playmate I mentioned involving breast play is that Jounar never said a word during these torture sessions. He never tried to implant the idea that I liked this, or that I was feeling more. Just naturally over time the stimulation sparked the nerves and they reacted. There is a huge difference in these two situations, even though they received similar responses.

Ah, no.

The nipple stimulation is physical training. Neurological, perhaps. It doesn't interfere with your functioning in any way, it's an addition to your functionality. Like.. learning to pitch a baseball.

Learning to ignore your own needs while putting your PYL's needs first-- that's the kind of training that can become abusive, wittingly or accidentally.

Yup, this.