Topping advice needed...please?

[landcruisergal]

My master has invited a fem dom friend of his and her sub to play, and posed the following hypothetical...
If he and she wanted to watch me to top her male sub, without sexual contact, what would I do?
I have a few ideas but am in dire need of advice...I feel he wants to show me off, but my topping experiances are minimal, I frankly have no urges to "play dom", but want to please him obviously. Help?

 

[Mr Blonde]

I'd suggest keeping it simple. Go read a ProDomme's website, steal one of her scripts and paint a scene by numbers. If you actually enjoy yourself, you can always get experimental or explore your own latent desires later.

 

[Pure]

well, lcg, assuming you're serious,

have him jerk off onto a plate and eat his cum, then you piss into a glass, and have him down it for a 'chaser.'

 

[cellis]

Have him wear a speader bar and cuffs on his arms and legs and a collar... and use panty hose to gag him with....

 

[cellis]

Have him wear a speader bar and cuffs on his arms and legs and a collar... and use panty hose to gag him with....

I forgot to mention, he should be otherwise naked...

 

[Netzach]

Ummm....maybe you could ask the Domme what she would like as regards her property.

The respect for her that the polite inquiry might show would be impressive.

Radical thought, I know.

 

[cellis]

Ummm....maybe you could ask the Domme what she would like as regards her property.

The respect for her that the polite inquiry might show would be impressive.

Radical thought, I know.

lol That is why you are a Domme and I am not!

 

[Netzach]

Heh, I like panty hose, you'd be in the clear.

 

[cellis]

Heh, I like panty hose, you'd be in the clear.

I like your style!

 

[Pure]

i guess i'm in shit again, n

 

[landcruisergal]

Ummm....maybe you could ask the Domme what she would like as regards her property.

The respect for her that the polite inquiry might show would be impressive.

Radical thought, I know.

When raised the subject, I replied that I would seek her approval prior to attempting anything, and if either of them had any "requests" or any restrictions.He is a firm follower of protocol and courtesy, so I would ask her first. Thanks, for the reminder though.

 

[landcruisergal]

Have him wear a speader bar and cuffs on his arms and legs and a collar... and use panty hose to gag him with....

ok, now assuming I have him where I want him....now what?
I guess try to put myself in his place and imagine what I would I would be craving, but the male sub is a different creature with whom I have had no experiance. I certainly wouldnt like to attempt to flog or strap him,having never done it before, unless she wants to give me a lesson.

 

[cellis]

ok, now assuming I have him where I want him....now what?
I guess try to put myself in his place and imagine what I would I would be craving, but the male sub is a different creature with whom I have had no experiance. I certainly wouldnt like to attempt to flog or strap him,having never done it before, unless she wants to give me a lesson.

One of our most esteemed Dommes is quite found of having Her slave serve Her guests that way... You know drinks, chips and dips.... I imagine is quite difficult to navigate bound in that way...

You might want to check out some of the rope links and practise a little boundage... you know show off your talents and such...

I think it depends on how much humiliation the sub is into but if agreeable you might want to consider having him wear a butt plug as well.


Wizdomme


You might want to check this link out too....

 

[Netzach]

Pure you would probably be enjoying a nice warm one, if it were me.


If the couple in question is into feminization to any degree, it seems like real live girly lessons from someone who lives it could be beneficial for the boy and amusing for the Dominants on hand.

 

[catalina_francisco]

ok, now assuming I have him where I want him....now what?
I guess try to put myself in his place and imagine what I would I would be craving, but the male sub is a different creature with whom I have had no experiance. I certainly wouldnt like to attempt to flog or strap him,having never done it before, unless she wants to give me a lesson.

Good luck with it and if you have the opportunity to explore his mind a little before hand it helps immensely when mixing it with the insights from your own submissive desires. Can relate perfectly to where you are right now.

Catalina

 

[Arkontheroof]

Woah!!!!

Two REALLY big points leap to mind:

1) If you don't want to do it, what the hell is your dom doing asking you to? Forget the "its his right to demand whatever he wants..." crap - it is, but first and foremost it's his RESPONSABILITY to ensure that you are comfortable and to respect your limits.

2) You are wandering into a situation with 3 other people, all of whom have feelings, insecurities, potentially medical issues - in short, limits. Just as a dom in a 1-on-1 scene should be sensitive to the limits of the sub, in this instance anyone taking any degree of control should be familiar with the limits of all involved. It's not just the other sub you could freak out - it's quite possible that you could freak either of the doms, too. Before you get flogging, get communicating, and if you don't know exactly where the limits are then go really, really gently. Forget the fanatsy stuff. Better to leave someone unsatisfied that harmed.

 

[pierced_boy]

What does he want K? are you up to it?

The answers provide the clues for you

take care dear K

Harry

 

[landcruisergal]

Hey H! your pm box is full! Lovely to see you around again.
Thanks for your advice and dont fear, I am not rushing into this without a lot of thought and communication. Too much to lose now.
And cricket's still a hard limit. L&L K