Too Old?

[curious2know]

Please help!
I am appproaching fifty years old. I am very aware that my age will preculde an any responses, but one can dream, can't we hopefully?
To further turn you off, My breasts are 34B,27, 29.I have brown hair with helping with help of dye. My tits sag, but, thankfully, my stomach pounch is not too promonient.
One asset that I have is that I can interjex myself in various sceranious. Unfortuantelly, that is ithe extent of my sexual activity , other than masturbating.which is less than the real thing,
Any advise as to how I can get off by myself, wiil be greately appreciated!

 

[ReadyOne]

How can you think that you won't get a response!

If you want a sex life with someone, it isn't hard to get started at your age. All you need is a brain that can think about/enjoy sex, (though a couple of drops of Astroglide may come in handy!)

Being in your age group, please be assured that that are people who have kept themselves in good shape and who are looking for a lover.

Don't worry about your body. We all realize that time takes it's toll. 'Over the hill' guys accept that neither they nor their lovers can even think about comparing themselves to a 30-something person, and playing in a different league. Remember a woman looks her best laying down!

Heck, I'm taking two ladies your age to the theater Saturday. And though I don't expect anything more than a nice play and conversation, there's no reason why ether lady couldn't spend the night -- I know they are both sexual active and we have the chemistry.

As for getting yourself off, I suggest reading stories at lit for some ideas that could spark the imagination. They'd give suggestions of things to try, plus with your ability to put yourself into a role they could make your fantasies fantastic.

There's nothing that Seath does that you couldn't do too -- and that girl has a weath of ideas!

PS: Viagra, or preferably Cialis, can make a partner act 25 years younger!

 

[MagicFingers]

Please help!
I am appproaching fifty years old. I am very aware that my age will preculde an any responses, but one can dream, can't we hopefully?
To further turn you off, My breasts are 34B,27, 29.I have brown hair with helping with help of dye. My tits sag, but, thankfully, my stomach pounch is not too promonient.
One asset that I have is that I can interjex myself in various sceranious. Unfortuantelly, that is ithe extent of my sexual activity , other than masturbating.which is less than the real thing,
Any advise as to how I can get off by myself, wiil be greately appreciated!

Ready One always beats us to the good answers. All he said is good stuff.

First, you sound fine to me from your description. You are in my age group too. I would love to meet someone that meets your description. I have a friend who is about 54 and does yoga a lot. She puts most 20 year olds to shame! Sexy little body! So age is not a problem.

I'm not sure what you are asking exactly. You want advice on how to get off by yourself? And about the interjecting yourself in different scenarios? Do you mean role playing? or doing different things than you normally do? Do you get excited by imagining yourself in certain situations, or doing certain things?
Maybe a role playing board would help.

We all have fantasies and imaginations here. Some of us talk about them, some write about them, some act them out.
But, yes, masturbation is not real life usually, just something many of us need to do until the right real thing comes along.

If there's anything I can do to help, I'd be glad to. You aren't too old for me!

 

[assister49]

As another woman your age group with saggy tits and a paunchy belly, I can relate to your feelings about not being attractive anymore - however you must remember what affect the media has on our view of good-looking. Think of the renassance paintings - wouldn't we all be "hot" there?

I am very sexually active, and the secret is to find a man your age who loves you for who you are and who speaks up to tell you things that make you feel sexy. It also helps to focus on other areas you have in common, as a good relationship is built on much more than sex (IMHO).

Confidence in your self portrays attractiveness better than looks.

Remember - you have a lot of wisdom from all those great years of living. You have much to offer!

 

[Jezebelle1458]

the first problem is thinking that you cant compete with a young tight body. STOP THIS AT ONCE!! of course you cant! you dont have to!i am 46 and have the same problem most older women do with age.gravity happens.boobs hang lower,bellies are not tight,asses droop.first off,make sure you get some excersice,walking is good for the legs and ass along with just doing you good.yoga is also great and keeps you limber.everyone else can give you excersice ideas,but i'm going to tell you that there are so many men out there who worship a womans body.i am talking about the men who love the way a womans body is who has had children,and who have a natural hang to their breasts that come with age,because they usually know that we have gotten past the silly little girl portion of our lives and are now women...body and soul.dont be lazy and let your body go,but dont think that no one finds an older womans body sexy as hell.

 

[Jaded1]

Please help!
I am appproaching fifty years old. I am very aware that my age will preculde an any responses, but one can dream, can't we hopefully?
To further turn you off, My breasts are 34B,27, 29.I have brown hair with helping with help of dye. My tits sag, but, thankfully, my stomach pounch is not too promonient.
One asset that I have is that I can interjex myself in various sceranious. Unfortuantelly, that is ithe extent of my sexual activity , other than masturbating.which is less than the real thing,
Any advise as to how I can get off by myself, wiil be greately appreciated!

Sweet jesus were the hell is the problem... Ya sound pretty dam hot to me... You don't happen to live in the Connecticut area do ya? I could definitely reduce your masturbation needs to get off... Unless of course you feel like stroking me off... Hey, it never hurts ta ask cause ya never know...

 

[curious2know]

Responses to my question

Thank all of you for responding, especially Assister49 and Jezebelle1458. Hearing your comments has helped my self confidence and I am going to go all out to achieve my objective. I envy you two because you both have already done it and feel good about it.
Thanks again for your help,

 

[francypants]

Hot chick needs jump start.

I've been feeling pretty out of the loop lately myself. I'm 53 and up until 6 years ago had an unbelievably hot little bod. Then I quiet smoking (I know, it's a good thing to do) but I gained a lot of weight then gained even more after getting caught downtown on 9/11. I'm now about 40 lbs more than I was. (I was 110).

The thing is that I used to love sex but now that I don't feel so hot about my body, I stopped thinking about it. Until lately. My dopey ex-boyfriend finally moved out a couple of months ago. Sex was pretty much impossible with him - even with Viagra - the man had "issues" and it had robbed me of my drive completely.

The day he moved out I started masterbating again ... I suddenly felt free. I started thinking sexy thoughts about my wild days only a few years earlier. In my 40's I had lots of young guys after me - which was pretty hot since they could match me in drive and stamina.

I'm trying to get back to thinking of myself as a hot chick again and it's nice to know that there is support out there for that. I decided to go back on-line like I did years ago cause it really greases me up, if you know what I mean. Get's the juices flowing - LITERALLY.

Is there anyway to do instant messaging through this site? I used ot do that alot on AOL but I grew out of it. I do have the AOL instant Messenger though ... just don't know how to meet guys who like to cyber.

I give VERY good cyber-sex. I'm a good writer and like getting really graphic and am into spanking and anal, too.

Any suggestions?

Francy

 

[SensualMale]

Please help!
I am appproaching fifty years old. I am very aware that my age will preculde an any responses, but one can dream, can't we hopefully?
To further turn you off, My breasts are 34B,27, 29.I have brown hair with helping with help of dye. My tits sag, but, thankfully, my stomach pounch is not too promonient.
One asset that I have is that I can interjex myself in various sceranious. Unfortuantelly, that is ithe extent of my sexual activity , other than masturbating.which is less than the real thing,
Any advise as to how I can get off by myself, wiil be greately appreciated!

I would say you have a pretty good figure And, you're never too old!

 

[Harshaw]

Age is just a number.

 

[Jaded1]

Re: Hot chick needs jump start.

I've been feeling pretty out of the loop lately myself. I'm 53 and up until 6 years ago had an unbelievably hot little bod. Then I quiet smoking (I know, it's a good thing to do) but I gained a lot of weight then gained even more after getting caught downtown on 9/11. I'm now about 40 lbs more than I was. (I was 110).

The thing is that I used to love sex but now that I don't feel so hot about my body, I stopped thinking about it. Until lately. My dopey ex-boyfriend finally moved out a couple of months ago. Sex was pretty much impossible with him - even with Viagra - the man had "issues" and it had robbed me of my drive completely.

The day he moved out I started masterbating again ... I suddenly felt free. I started thinking sexy thoughts about my wild days only a few years earlier. In my 40's I had lots of young guys after me - which was pretty hot since they could match me in drive and stamina.

I'm trying to get back to thinking of myself as a hot chick again and it's nice to know that there is support out there for that. I decided to go back on-line like I did years ago cause it really greases me up, if you know what I mean. Get's the juices flowing - LITERALLY.

Is there anyway to do instant messaging through this site? I used ot do that alot on AOL but I grew out of it. I do have the AOL instant Messenger though ... just don't know how to meet guys who like to cyber.

I give VERY good cyber-sex. I'm a good writer and like getting really graphic and am into spanking and anal, too.

Any suggestions?

Francy

Fancy, you have a PM...