Too nice?

[Elduderino]

It seems my luck with the ladies has run out. Girls, is it possible to be too nice? It seems I always end up being freinds with women, never anything else. Please help!

 

[Freya]

Yes it is. Women want a nice guy that's not too nice. Not someone who they can walk over, someone who agrees with anything. They want someone to treat them properly but will tell them to fuck off if they are acting bitchy, someone who will stand up for themselves when needed. So you have to get the proper mix of nice and asshole - all in one guy.

 

[Elduderino]

ah, I'm beginning to see the light, I've heard that before.

 

[peachykeen]

define "nice". Me, I expect my husband to always be respectful and considerate, but I also expect him to tell me when to step off, when I need that.

 

[The Squid King]

The man panics and the gun goes off.

 

[Elduderino]

I'm not exactly sure what too nice is, if I knew, I might attempt o turn it around. All I know is that quite often, I end up feeling like I had been taken advantage of. I am like the boyfreind, but with no benefits! Perhaps I am to passive with my pursuit, but I also fear being to forward, and thus, undesireable,or uncomfortasble to be around.

 

[LukkyKnight]

If you're equating relationships to benefits in some way then you're calculating rather than participating. That's not nice at all, IMHO.

 

[April]

Dithering. I fucking hate dithering. It's wishy-washy, wimpy, and unattractive.

Make a fucking decision!

Sorry, but one of the customers was in today, and this man can never make up his mind. He dithers over two or three movies every time he comes in. He always ends up getting something other than the first thing he picked out. And then he couldn't make up his mind about which coins to use to pay! It's not that fucking hard!! Just pick some money and give it over already.

 

[Nicebignips]

ah, I'm beginning to see the light, I've heard that before.

I disagree; I can do without the asshole part. There are no shortage of those.

Maybe by "too nice" you mean that you're just yessing them to death, and it seems like you have no opinions of your own?

I suggest you be yourself, and if you know yourself to be nice and have a mind of your own, then you'll do fine.

 

[yossi]

How the fuck did you even find this?

 

[pointless]

by being an idiot would be my guess.

 

[dolf]

you think the OP of a 13 year old thread is still waiting for your answer?

 

[dolf]

he hasn't posted in 10 years ffs!

 

[pointless]

my idiot theory is just looking better and better.

 

[yossi]

You could teach a class. Idiot Theory 101.

 

[SmileyGirl]

Jesus after 13yrs I hope he listened to this https://youtu.be/KN6ngThqMEs

How in the name of god do people drag up these dead threads!!

 

[pointless]

101? you have seriously underestimated my knowledge and understanding of the inner workings of the idiot mind.

 

[dolf]

can idiots count to 101?

 

[Lancecastor]

Dude's really nice, so yeah, he's probably been waiting.

 

[SkAoUt]

This thread recently got awesome.

 

[pointless]

can idiots count to 101?

hey, you want the knowledge you gotta pay for it.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

I was wondering what happened to Elduderino.

He was one of my favorite posters.

Always seemed like a nice guy.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

The females here who interact with me know I'm pleasant and civil in private and a rabid wolverine in public. People come here to see the gladiator/ tv wrestler. In private they want different.

 

[pointless]

I was wondering what happened to Elduderino.

He was one of my favorite posters.

Always seemed like a nice guy.

that one and the squid king are the only two i don't remember.

 

[GimpyIntellect]

that one and the squid king are the only two i don't remember.

I remember them both fondly.

We used to have private circle jerks.