Too Kink or Not Too Kink

[Boxlicker101]

Originally Posted by Boxlicker101
Anybody who indulges in necrophilia does so with no urging from his or her partner.

ETA: BTW, does anybody know if Necrophilia is acceptable to write about? I checked the FAQs, and there is nothing there, but sometimes things are not always listed. There is also nothing said about brutal rape, but that is unacceptable. Necrophilia is a fetish, and it is gross and all that, but it actually exists, and the unwilling victim is never injured. Assuming the victim is at least 18, if that would matter.

I think necrophilia, as far as Lit is concerned, would probably be out the window regarding the general understanding of the act. Live people having sex with corpses would probably not make the grade on Lit. That's just my opinion.

I figure one of the reasons Lit has not included necrophilia in its list of unacceptable subject matter is because of the existence of the Sci-Fi and Non-human categories. In either category, sex with members of the 'undead,' or ghosts and such, are allowed. Remember that, in many people's minds, vampires are not technically alive and sex with one could be considered an act of necrophilia. But vampires are a hot topic, with a huge fan base, and I'm pretty sure they don't think of having sex with a vampire is akin to poking a cold body in the morgue. So Laurel is granting some leeway there by allowing sex with some beings which would, technically, be considered dead.

The popular media seems to follow this. Vampires are sexy. Ghosts can even be sexy (remember the scene in Ghostbusters when Ray Stantz has a dream about being seduced by a phantom?). There appears to be a fine line between the dead and undead upon which Literotica bases its rules of acceptance.

But I still think fucking a rotting corpse is out.

Well, I do intend to submit a necrophilia story, but I will put it in EH for the Halloween Contest. It will be a mortician with the body of a sexy woman that has just been delivered by the ME.

If it's acceptable under any conditions, it would be then and there.

 

[secretme]

Oh, I have one for you-- dirty talk, humiliating talk. I can imagine someone getting the squicks at what they said the night before-- at their partner's urging.

oooo I like that one! That gives me an idea...

 

[secretme]

Well, I do intend to submit a necrophilia story, but I will put it in EH for the Halloween Contest. It will be a mortician with the body of a sexy woman that has just been delivered by the ME.

If it's acceptable under any conditions, it would be then and there.

Good luck...

 

[penandpaper]

Okay, here's one. I've hidden in the closet while my partner fucked someone else-- someone wwe both knew, who knew the we had an open relationship, but did not know that I was there on that afternoon.

If i were hidden in the closet and my partner came in with someone off the street that neither of us knew-- That would destroy my respect.

But if that had happened in, say, the seventies-- I probably would have been all about it!

I think Stella hits the nail on the head here. Something that's too perverse for a person seems regualted by a few variables: one, at what stage is the relationship in? From experience, I can tell you that in the beginning I have seen girlfriends drag, and I do mean drag me to strip clubs, act like insane nymphos and talk about fantasies that would be considered kinky. Move that relationship forward five years and you may have a different line that she considers too kinky. I don't even think it has to do with the significant other judging, I think it has to do with the self reflection of oneself. Two, what is the relationship for? There are relationships out there that people find specifically just to fulfill a need; complete with the understanding that it will never go beyond that. I've only had one, but I know several friends that have been the booty call, partner to explore sexual fantasies, and/or long distance fling that presented positions that one would never do at home, due to their standing in the community.

 

[Stella_Omega]

It seems that secretme is looking for actual actions to arrange in a sort of descending order of unpopularity, not so much the philosophy of squickification.

 

[penandpaper]

I'm going to order them in what I think is most likely to least likely, in terms of things a person might do and then regret in the morning. So we're talking extremes really. #1 would be the thing that most people would have no trouble with but someone might not be happy about it later and #10 would be the thing that a person is least likely to go all the way through, but you never know...


1. Oral sex (sit on my face and tell me that you love me)
2. Watching
3. Roleplaying
4. Golden Showers
5. Bukkake






***We need more!

I know we're all open minded here, but in your list you need to add a gay experience. I know that almost all of my friends (and quite a bit of America as well) may have a gay experience for their lover, but it doesn't mean they don't regret it in the morning.

Think about it, a girlfriend might be turned on by a story about watching her boyfriend blow another guy, but then if the guy actually does it (consented even), she may lose all respect for him. The same can be said vice-a-versa. It's a great fantasy to picture your wife with another woman, but what happens when she has some mind-blowing orgasm from it? There are guys who might get upset about that later. Of course, we wouldn't say so. We would act grouchy and say it's because the Steelers are losing.

PS - Necrophilia shouldn't even be on the list because it's just too damn gross!

 

[Boxlicker101]

I know we're all open minded here, but in your list you need to add a gay experience. I know that almost all of my friends (and quite a bit of America as well) may have a gay experience for their lover, but it doesn't mean they don't regret it in the morning.

Think about it, a girlfriend might be turned on by a story about watching her boyfriend blow another guy, but then if the guy actually does it (consented even), she may lose all respect for him. The same can be said vice-a-versa. It's a great fantasy to picture your wife with another woman, but what happens when she has some mind-blowing orgasm from it? There are guys who might get upset about that later. Of course, we wouldn't say so. We would act grouchy and say it's because the Steelers are losing.

PS - Necrophilia shouldn't even be on the list because it's just too damn gross!

Necrophilia shouldn't be on the list, not because of its grossness but because the question of "respect" for the partner would never be an issue.