Today I cried.

SeaCat

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Today, for the first time in too many years I cried. Not only did I cry but I did so in public.

Since I moved to Florida almost seven years ago I have been going to a small Mexican Market. I buy my rice there. I buy my Beans there. I even buy my meats there even though they cost more. (I like the way they handle their meats.) I even buy my Tequila there. I also have this habit of every PayDay dropping several dollars in their donation jar. They use the money to help their friends and neghbors through the tough times.

For the past couple of PayDays I haven't been buying Tequila there. Hell I haven't been buying much, just Beans and rice. All I can afford right now. It must have been noticed.

Today when my wife and I stopped by there to pick up a couple of things the owner looked at me as I was dropping a couple of singles in the jar and asked how things were going after Wilma. I shrugged and answered we were doing better than many people we knew. As he talked with me and told me how the people he knew were coping his wife took my wife to the side and talked with her. My wife must have admitted that yes times were not easy for us either. Yes money is short.

Before I knew it the owner of the store had gone behind the meat counter and pulled several pieces of beef from the cooler. Cutting them up he wrapped and bagged them along with a bottle of Corazon. (Almost ten pounds of meat.)

"Cat" yes he knows my nickname. "You have been in here almost every week for the past several years. every time you are in here you ask me how I am doing. If I have a problem you tell me how to get help, or you help me. You give us money to help our friends. For over six years you have done this. Today I am helping you."

What can I say? Yes times are tight. Work doesn't pay much and the overtime has been ended. My wife, as I mentioned before needed a Root Canal which ran us over $500.00 even with insurance. Then we got hit by Wilma which caused us to spend money we hadn't planned on spending for supplies such as extra gas. My wife and I have been living on what we call broke food for a while, with no real end in sight for at least another month or two. (And yes even that food we share with others.) Now here this guy is giving us over a hundred dollars of meat not to mention an expensive bottle of Tequila.

Yes I broke down and cried. I have never asked for nor received donations. I have never asked for nor received charity. This was neither. As he explained it, he was just helping a friend.

Cat
 
SeaCat said:
Today, for the first time in too many years I cried. Not only did I cry but I did so in public.

Since I moved to Florida almost seven years ago I have been going to a small Mexican Market. I buy my rice there. I buy my Beans there. I even buy my meats there even though they cost more. (I like the way they handle their meats.) I even buy my Tequila there. I also have this habit of every PayDay dropping several dollars in their donation jar. They use the money to help their friends and neghbors through the tough times.

For the past couple of PayDays I haven't been buying Tequila there. Hell I haven't been buying much, just Beans and rice. All I can afford right now. It must have been noticed.

Today when my wife and I stopped by there to pick up a couple of things the owner looked at me as I was dropping a couple of singles in the jar and asked how things were going after Wilma. I shrugged and answered we were doing better than many people we knew. As he talked with me and told me how the people he knew were coping his wife took my wife to the side and talked with her. My wife must have admitted that yes times were not easy for us either. Yes money is short.

Before I knew it the owner of the store had gone behind the meat counter and pulled several pieces of beef from the cooler. Cutting them up he wrapped and bagged them along with a bottle of Corazon. (Almost ten pounds of meat.)

"Cat" yes he knows my nickname. "You have been in here almost every week for the past several years. every time you are in here you ask me how I am doing. If I have a problem you tell me how to get help, or you help me. You give us money to help our friends. For over six years you have done this. Today I am helping you."

What can I say? Yes times are tight. Work doesn't pay much and the overtime has been ended. My wife, as I mentioned before needed a Root Canal which ran us over $500.00 even with insurance. Then we got hit by Wilma which caused us to spend money we hadn't planned on spending for supplies such as extra gas. My wife and I have been living on what we call broke food for a while, with no real end in sight for at least another month or two. (And yes even that food we share with others.) Now here this guy is giving us over a hundred dollars of meat not to mention an expensive bottle of Tequila.

Yes I broke down and cried. I have never asked for nor received donations. I have never asked for nor received charity. This was neither. As he explained it, he was just helping a friend.

Cat

From what I understand, babe, the hispanic culture is a lot like ours. We share, not out of charity, but simply because that's what we do. We take care of each other, and in turn, when we need it, we are taken care of.

There's no shame in accepting help, my friend. Karma just came back around, and kissed you on the cheek, that's all. :rose:
 
Cat, I can't think of a soul who deserves it more.

And yes, you made me cry, too.

:rose:
 
Congratulations, Cat, you've found a piece of America that I honestly thought had died. Neighbors who actually know and care about each other. It's good to know that there are still people like them and you still out there.

:)
 
Cat. Timely. Truly , it's uplifting to see the best side of mankind shining through.
 
Cat,
Sometimes those who need help are the one who would never ask or consider themselves in dire need. Cloudy was right, karma has just made a return triip.
Unexpected and unsolicited, when karma often shows up.
It went to a well deserved family and the kind of folks that are forever grateful.
Pleased it found you.
About the crying, it shows you're human and moved, nothing more.

Peace and continued good fortune, it is so richly deserved.

Hugo
 
hugo_sam said:
Cat,
Sometimes those who need help are the one who would never ask or consider themselves in dire need. Cloudy was right, karma has just made a return triip.
Unexpected and unsolicited, when karma often shows up.
It went to a well deserved family and the kind of folks that are forever grateful.
Pleased it found you.
About the crying, it shows you're human and moved, nothing more.

Peace and continued good fortune, it is so richly deserved.

Hugo

Hugo,

About the crying. Yes I was moved, these people are struggling as well. (I should know, I helped board up the front windows of their place after Wilma.) I cried not just because they felt they could help me, but because so many others, so many that I know of personaly need the help more than I do, (as the owners of the store well know,) and yet they chose to help me because I'm having a bit of a hard time right now. I cried because, the tears needed to be shed.

Cat
 
Very nice story. It shows that you are a good person that others have noticed, and it shows that you associate with good people.

We already knew you were a good person.
 
God is blessing you for caring as deeply as you do for so many people.

Happy Thanksgiving, Cat!
 
you know i was having a bad day....been sad, depressed, angry and confused, then I come here and see your thread. I did cry but those were good tears....you made me remember that there are good people out there.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours :rose:
 
Well, it put a :) on my face. Thanks for sharing.
 
thanks for sharing that Cat...we all need to be reminded that these things do happen.
 
*hugs* Cat & Mrs. Cat. Regardless of the fact that you think others might need it more than you, you deserve it, too. :rose: It's all a circle, eh? You get back what you give in this world and you give good stuff, Cat.

There is kindness in strangers; I believe this with all my heart and soul. Random act of senseless kindness make the world go 'round. :rose:
 
Makes sense of the old addage, "No good deed goes unnoticed"

Bet those tears were tucked away for along time Cat, bout time you let them lose!
Hugs and Kisses,
C
 
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