To those who are bisexual...

[Guest]

are you equally attracted to both sexes...or do you find that you lean towards one more than the other at times?

 

[april-wine]

Can I lean toward you???? hi

 

[killallhippies]

it's an individual thing. i'm more attracted to certain personalities then women or men in general.

 

[Guest]

Can I lean toward you???? hi

lean away gorgeous

 

[april-wine]

Yep, I'm with the Hippieman....It's personalities that attract me, male or female.....But I do find myself leaning towards women more....

 

[Etoile]

I'd have to say I'm more attracted to a person than to a gender. Then again, I label myself a dyke, so I'm pretty much always attracted to women. I can see a model in a magazine ad and think "oh, he's pretty" but I'm not interested in fucking him.

 

[Guest]

I agree with personalities... but overall I would say I lean more towards women in fantasies and your everyday appreciation.

 

[Etoile]

It might be interesting to throw butch/femme and androgyny into this mix. I'm especially attracted to butch women (k.d. lang in the pictures from her Drag album just makes me swoon), but does this mean I'm attracted to masculinity? What about attraction to those who don't fit either side of the binary gender system?

 

[Angel]

I lean more towards men. Also, I'm pickier about women for some reason.

I'm more attracted to EXTREMELY girly girls than non-girly girls but there are a few exceptions.

 

[pollyjean]

I lean more towards women also.

 

[Etoile]

I lean more towards men. Also,I'm pickier about women for some reason.

Pickier how?

 

[killallhippies]

It might be interesting to throw butch/femme and androgyny into this mix. I'm especially attracted to butch women (k.d. lang in the pictures from her Drag album just makes me swoon), but does this mean I'm attracted to masculinity? What about attraction to those who don't fit either side of the binary gender system?

personally, i do find pretty boys more physically attractive then manly guys. i don't know what it means. don't care too much either. they are just cuter.

 

[SweetCherry]

In the past I leaned more towards men, but a lot of that had to do with upbringing. I've come to realize tho that it wasn't a gender, but a quality that I was looking for. I crave a dominant personality and that's what I am drawn to. Currently, I'm into girls more.

 

[Guest]

I like girly girls more... not to say that I wouldn't find a someone who wasn't attractive.. just so far that tends to be my preference.

 

[Etoile]

Exactly - I think it's a continuum that changes throughout a person's life.

 

[Angel]

Pickier how?

I'm not sure exactly. Being a girl myself I think I just developed a pickiness on how I think another girl should be while I tend to think of men as "Take em how they come"

I'm weird.

 

[Guest]

I'm not sure exactly. Being a girl myself I think I just developed a pickiness on how I think another girl should be while I tend to think of men as "Take em how they come"

I'm weird.

nope...thats not weird.

 

[Etoile]

I'm not sure exactly. Being a girl myself I think I just developed a pickiness on how I think another girl should be while I tend to think of men as "Take em how they come"

I'm weird.

I agree with jadedpast, that does make some sense. I'm not sure how, but I get it.

 

[Angel]

I agree with jadedpast, that does make some sense. I'm not sure how, but I get it.

I'm not sure how either, but it's honest

 

[James G 5]

I lean towards females as both sex and play (D/s) partners
It's rarer for me to find a guy who I am intersted in sexually

I actually LIKE playing with male subs, which freaks a lot of people since I am generally het-identified in the group here and it's rare for "straight" Doms to play with male subs
I usually end up playing with a few willing male subs who belong to Domme friends of mine tho since when I play with gay subs they always seem to want more

Was that WAY too much info?
LOL

 

[Netzach]

I go for the individual je ne sais quois in a person most of all. That said, I'm not blind to some patterns in my likings:

I dig in descending order:
sub girly guys
select Dom femme women and ultrafemme T's.
sub butch guys
sub butch girls and ultrabutch T's.
some sub femmes

rarest of exceptions would be the butch guy I let Dom me, definitely must be queer, can be a butch FTM guy but this would also be rare.

Power polarities and gender stuff are somewhat inseperable as attractors.

 

[James G 5]

I go for the individual je ne sais quois in a person most of all. That said, I'm not blind to some patterns in my likings:

I dig in descending order:
sub girly guys
select Dom femme women and ultrafemme T's.
sub butch guys
sub butch girls and ultrabutch T's.
some sub femmes

rarest of exceptions would be the butch guy I let Dom me, definitely must be queer, can be a butch FTM guy but this would also be rare.

Power polarities and gender stuff are somewhat inseperable as attractors.

So if I met you with the faggot pink (hey, that's what the queen that gave them to me called them) 5" spike heels with the blue jeans and Ozzy shirt with a corset under it, long hair down but a full beard on, would I hit the radar?

 

[Netzach]

Corset over Ozzy shirt.

Guess I'd want to Top you. LOL.

 

[lady-kat]

my experiences/relationships with women are not as many as with men, having only had one serious relationship with a female lover, and a one night stand, more of a comfort "fuck" if you will.... but i would say it's about a 70/30 split....

i have serious lust (no other way to put it ;-) for my boss at work...... god the woman has one of the most outgoing and open personalities of anyone, male or female i have ever met.... and bless her, she is one of the few females to use the word mother fucker in front of me.... the lady has true brass....

one other woman at work that i would luv to have as a lover. a pretty young girl who loves to dance around at work and occassionally rub against me..*smile*... i call it getting a boogie body rub.....

with a man, i am attracted sexually to usually only one type. someone with a stronger personality/mannerism than my own.... but women?....ah.... can be any type.....


edited to add:
... loving this forum already....
;-)

 

[Bandit58]

I lean probably 70/30 towards men.......though those men do tend to have effeminate qualities. With women it's the girly girl types, long hair especially.......