To those who are bisexual...

My parents don't know either. But I do have a lot of gay/bi friends. My outlying family members just have issues when it comes to people who aren't straight. One of the things I hate about overly religious people.
 
I think it depends on my mood...

Well the funny thing is...I'm attracted to girls my own age or close to it...but most of the men I'm attracted to can range from [/I] 10 to 25 years my senior... I'm 24...I'm attracted to a woman that is 28...but a guy that is 49. I tend to lean more towards the older men when I want to be loved and doted on...and women when I want to be appreciated for the adult I am.

I have never been attracted to men my own age...

I have never been attracted to older women...

I have issues

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I'm just the opposite. I prefer women my own age or older. As for men (at least in my fantasy world), I prefer younger because they tend to be more eager to please. Once a guy gets to my age, he is pretty much set in his ways and gets to be too difficult to train correctly, you know, like how to do the dishes, fold his own damn laundry, and put the seat down.
 
For me it is the same for both. I have enjoyed sex with both sexes and never really felt a stronger pull towards one or the other.
 
A guy's view...

Hi all,

Seems to be mostly ladies posting here, so I thought I'd my male perspective.

I guess I've been bi since I became sexually active, although it took me a while to get my head round the issue. I went to an all boys school and changing after sport was a major test of concentration to keep my hard-on at bay. I never pursued these feelings at the time, and was attracted to lots of girls too.

These days, I fantasise about both in equal amounts, but have to say I rarely meet guys I want to get down and dirty with. I fancy many more women. It's just that every now and then I fancy a nice hard cock.

With guys, I mainly want to get on my knees and give head. In fact, most of my sexual fantasies involve me giving oral, whether to men or women. But it is less specific with woman, ie I fantasise about many sexual practices. With guys, I want to pleasure them with my mouth, or be fucked in the arse. I never fancy fucking another guy in the arse, but I love women's arses - to kiss, lick and screw.

Guess I still have some issues ;)

Any amateur psychologists got a take on this ?

J
 
I have to say more attracted to males.
(Since I am still new to the whole scene).
 
Looking back at all the guys I've dated, most of them were always pretty feminine. I never really dated a butch type of guy...well once but it lasted all of a week.
I love intelligent, cultured people who can hold conversations about philosophy, history, art, etc...but easily move on to a casual topic such as books, movies...even video games :rolleyes:
Gender doesn't bother me...if someone can stimulate my mind...its likely that they'll be stimulating my body sometime in the near future :devil:

On a side note...I also tend to be attracted to goth/punk guys and girls...there's this one new girl I've been hanging out with...we have the same name so that would be kinda odd....she's sexy in a goth sorta way...and apparently she likes me :D
 
m/f

I do love both but I would have to say ILean towards women. I so enjoy touching a womans body. And women, I THINK ARE MORE asthetic to admire and i dont what the hell i'm saying. yes women--kate--
 
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m/f

I'm sorry for that last post. My roommate walked past and I got caught looking at her very pleasing to look at ass. --------Kate---------
 
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clamshell2 said:
I'm sorry for that last post. My roommate walked past and I got caught looking at her very pleasing to look at ass. --------Kate---------

Don't worry about it :D I do a lot of looking........haven't got the courage up to do any more than that yet........;)
 
While I will drool over whoever is pretty, male or female, I tend to lean towards nice people, and my relationsips with women have been much more fulfilling (emotionally and sexually) than my relationships with men *(until now.)
 
It has varied at different times in my life. On the average, I have leaned more towards men. I have had long term relationships with both sexes, some in one-on-one relationships, some in poly relationships. In my relationships with men, I have always been submissive, and my last few relationships have been Dom/sub relationships. As far as women go, I have been with both feminine and butch women (although neither have leaned towards the extreme). With women, I am not necessarily quite as submissive as I am with men.

In either case, real bodies and brains interest me more than anything. I like a quirky, even silly sense of humor, and an innate sense of confidence. Attention whores aggravate me. I don't care to be anyone's savior, either. I do enough of that at work.

Currently, I am in a relationship with a male Dominant. I guess I'm in a man moment :D

~anelize
 
Mmmmm...is a complicated question for me. I am bi and would off the top of my head say I am more attracted to men....fantasise about men much more than women and more creatively most times....but then a pic of a guy rarely does anything for me but raise my artistic interest whereas a woman in various states of dress or undress can do it everytime...and my art is mainly studies or women. And it has been noted by many that k d lang can create a more marked interest in me than anything or anyone else most times, and I did go to great lengths to meet her, not to mention the difficulty I went to in buying her music before she became known in Oz. So as much as I think of myself as being more into men, and am married to my Master who definately does it for me, I am obviously strongly attracted to women also.

Catalina
 
What, lesbains are a pissy lot. No one ever disagreed with me on that.
 
Well, I've said it three times now, so it must be true...
 
isn't it when you say something 3 times it becomes true ? if i wake up in a bad mood tomorrow im blaming you :)
 
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