To The Women;Does Penis Size really Matter??

[Growler145]

To all those who thought it was so important that I register>>>"I DID"<<< ok,,so whats the
whinning and sniveling about registering??

Anyway ladies I'm just courious,,being 71/2"
I've never had any complaints about size,,
but women seem to have this thing about the big"10" or better,,,well my dimunitive litle
pecker has made the eyes of a few women bulge
in the right position and I've had them tell me that a women's uterus is only 8" deep and anything over that is just pounding on their bladder,,,so whats up ladies,,is it true???

 

[Lil' Debbie]

This topic has been gone over and over again,
but weren't you the one in a thread that I won't mention, bitch about people asking questions on the BB. Don't you already have an opinion. Where's your backbone, since you're here asking a bunch of strangers about penis size. Hmmm, looks like the shoe is on the other foot.

 

[Lasher]

Amen, Lil Debbie (BTW, Oatmeal Creme Pies are my faves). I believe it was you on another thread that said, "I smell bullshit".

 

[Sammyjo]

Yes, size matters....I can't sleep with a guy who is smaller than 15" long and 5" around...sorry, that's just one of my hang ups...and it helps if he has two dicks, one for my ass and one for my pussy...I just can't stress size enough...size matters!!!

 

[Whispersecret]

You know, Growler brought something up that I've noticed myself but was afraid to talk about for fear of being set upon by the Group. Thanks, Growler, for being brave enough to state it on the BB (even if you were kind of, ah, hostile.)

As a newcomer myself (reading the boards for only about three weeks) I noticed immediately that there was a group of regulars. I don't fault them for creating a sense of community here and I realize that frequent "conversations" here on various topics will foster virtual friendships, as it were. However, perhaps you have become so comfortable in your niche that you don't realize what it looks like to people new to this BB.

Just be aware that sometimes a topic is posted and in no time the thread strays away from the original intent. Very often it ends up being a joking banter between the regulars, citing inside jokes, lusting after each other's well-publicized physical attributes, agreeing with each other's opinions. Honestly, there really isn't anything wrong with any of that, except that it does create a sort of bubble around you that makes the rest of us feel like outsiders. I'm sure none of you intentionally set out to create this atmosphere, but it is there nonetheless. (By the way, not all of the regulars are like this. Dixon and Nurse come immediatly to mind.)

I admit that I have a pretty thin skin, which is why I've tried my best to couch my opinion in neutral, non-aggressive terms. Despite the fact that I've really worked to keep this post non-confrontational,
I am sure what I'm saying here is going to cause someone to jump down my throat. Certainly some of you reading this are already thinking "Whiner!" or "If she dishes it out, she'd better be prepared to take it, because here it comes!" or "Give me a break. Aren't we out of high school?" But since Growler brought it up, and bs added his part, I thought I'd throw in my ten dollars worth. (Sorry, my posts are always kind of long.)

Of course, I don't expect the regulars to all of a sudden stop being friendly with each other and having fun, but I would ask that you step back a little and see how it looks/feels to those of us who aren't in on the jokes and who want to share our opinions, get feedback, and interact with everyone.

Remember, when someone first comes to the boards, they're not going to look back at the posts for the last six months. One day's worth of posts is a huge amount as it is. So newcomers will almost certainly never be aware of long ago threads. Be tolerant of this.

FInally, I wanted to commment on topic, Growler. Sorry about the sidebar.

I've had large and small, thick and thin penises. My husband's is usually pretty long, about seven inches. Sometimes, I don't know why, it's shorter and thicker. When it's at its maximum length, in certain positions, it bumps my cervix, which is painful to me. It brings back memories of pelvic exams, which aren't something I do for fun. Really, for me my state of mind is much more important than cock size. My brain is definitely my most errogenous zone. If you turn on my brain, the size of your cock doesn't really matter.

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[Slut_boy]

LOL @Sammy. Yup, I agree with what you said Lil' Debbie. For some inexplicable reason we have so many aggresssive and hostile characters on this BB. Perhaps if we treat them like that then they'll either fuck off or learn to be nice.

 

[Guest]

Sure size matters, so choose the right fit.
If your having sex for just the physical realm, the jouney has just begun. Good luck! I hope you make.

 

[Bs]

You know, I've been around for a while ,,,.. I'm not the one with the most posts or the wityest ..... but I try to read every thread and every new post everyday...... don't want a medal or a chest to pin it on.


And guess what? This penis question has come up before. *pun intended* But, I would rather Mr. Growler145 start his own thread then to dig up an old one .... and if you don't care to respond then so be it don't. End of Story. Dead Thread.

This is the new kid on the block, there might also be sombody out there reading this that has never seen it before and think .... OH,WOW! I'm going to put in my 2 cents worth! Who knows we may get another deborah, or Dixon (I know theres only one, but what fun! if we had two?!), or maybe a new nurse? So, if by chance you have'nt got it yet, BACK OFF!! Let the new guys alone to sink or swim on there own.....

Lets pick on our own that have been here for a while like ...... lets say ....... slut_boy ..... to me he is a stupid little nerdy kid that keeps running around saying "let me play, let me play" .....the more he posts the less he says.... but, I guess he likes to hear his own head rattle!?.... but he is the lesser of the evils then say a fake name or somthing ....

And yes lil' debbie he did start a thread on getting a back bone... I thought it was a pretty good statment .... one that had not the cheese heads taken over might have figured out.... like this very thread for example.... Growler starts a thread then instanly 5 people jump his ass ... kinda looks to me like the perfect breeding ground for another bruiser or mr. fake name... somthing for ya'll to think about....

I now return you to the original question ...

and have a nice day. bs

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[Slut_boy]

Ouch, an unprovoked attack.....thanks bs.

 

[Dakota Ryan]

I for one am new here to some extent, I have made a few replies to some of the posts which catch my eye. I do think its funny how a single question can cause so much bitching among the natives...LOL...(pun intended) and how they can devour a poor guy if he asked the wrong thing. I also know this question is as old as time itself, but has it ever been answered? I think not, why you may ask? Mainly because some like being sore the next day from a 10" cock slammin away inside their hot bodies, others prefer to be able to walk the next day with less pain....LOL... either way big or small I still say size matters and I'm not talking about cock size! If you make love to a woman with just your cock, then size matters, if you make love with your heart and soul then the only size that matters is orgasm you both experience!

 

[Nobody Special]

Good call Dakota.

 

[Lil' Debbie]

bs, as you pointed out about people "jumping on his ass", I just find it a little strange that he would start a thread about people having a backbone, and then turn around and do exactly what he was bitching about in the first place. And using Bruiser as an example really has nothing to do with it, because that's all in good fun, and if he didn't know it, I'm sure he wouldn't keep coming back. Perhaps Growler didn't mean to come off as harshly as he did, I don't know. I'm not picking on Growler, I'm sure he could probably provide a lot of input on this board, but I just think if someone's going to take a stand about something as he so obviously did, they should practice what they preach.

 

[Growler145]

well everyone seem to have taken offense at
me pointing out hte fact that most of their replies seem to be hinged on wether the will anger their peers,,,I don't believe I said anything about not having a backbone,,just meant that i think people should state an oppion thats truly their's not one intended to just please their peers,,,shit,,,the're are plenty of places to hang out in cyber
space,,no need to be where every word is critized to the point that someones character
is questioned,,,Ok,,I was critized for not being registered,,DONE,,,But I still don't believe that asking for someone's oppion make me hypocritical for stating that the oppion you express should be your own without
fear of reproach,,,but if you wannabes need someone to attack to make yourselves feel
like you belong,,go ahead,,I can take it....

 

[Slut_boy]

Nope, Growler, I just wanna be friends. You'll see that I have apologised for my part. Do I now also need to apologise to bs, you know for being a "stupid little nerdy kid"? Well perhaps I do.

I hope this blows over Growler - it truly is good to have you on board.

 

[Sammyjo]

Apparently there are a few people that STILL don't get my sense of "humor"...I use the quotes only because you aren't getting it, not because it's not funny, which it most certainly is.

I will NOT apologize for saying what I said because I thought it was hilarious. Now, certainly other people don't agree, but I don't care.

Now, size does matter, to ME. I don't go inspecting men's crotches though, so I have definitely ended up with men that are less endowed. That does not mean I dumped them because of their lack of size. Surely, there is more to a relationship than the size of someone's dick or breasts or what have you. My choice would be a man with a larger penis. However, if I met someone who was everything I had been searching for, and he had a less than average penis, that wouldn't change how I feel.

Whew...glad I got all that out of my system, it was eating me up inside.

 

[*Eve*]

Well, I think the perfect size for me would be somewhere between six and 10 inches. Man, have any of you ladies actually had a penis inside of you longer than ten inches, and was really wide? Let me tell you that it's a painful thing. I guess, though that some women are better equipped to handle it than others. In theory size is not suppose to matter, but a girlfriend of mine, is married to a man with a very small penis it they can't perform certain positions because it's so small. So does size matter? Yes and no.

 

[Lasher]

Very well said, Whisper, now allow me to jump down your throat. (Jeez, I'm just teasing, ok?).

Just keep in mind, at some point, everyone who posts to this board was new to it. When I first came here in December, I thought this thing had been around forever. I saw the posts from people like Dixon Carter Lee and hullo_nurse, and Michael, and XXPlorher, and southernhelle and people like that and it seemed like they had known each other forever. I had no idea at that point that this BB had just been up for a couple months. And it was the familiarity these people had, the inside jokes, and the intelligence of the conversation that got me to the point where I started coming back everyday.

Since then, other people have become what you would call "regulars" (sammyjo, slut_boy, Ravenloft, among others). And I'm sure the went thru the same feelings that you have. Hell, we didn't like slut_boy when he first came here, but he just wanted go away, so we had to keep him (dammit, hope you know that's a joke, Choda_boy..Did ya rent the movie yet?).

I'm sorry you felt you had to watch what you say, but I guess that's more or less the nature of group interaction. You don't walk into the PNA Club and start telling polish jokes...that's an easy one to figure out. It's a lot more difficult to realize what kinda crowd your dealing with on an internet BB. In most cases we're an open-minded group of people here. But if you walk in the door like our new bestest buddy Growler did and start yelling, "Hey, you suck!! Why can't you all suck less??" Don't expect anyone to bend over backwards to say, "Nice to meet you...Thanks for pointing that out."

I personally think this BB is a better place for you being here, whispersecret. You shown yourself to be intelligent and well-spoken, and I hope this is the last day you feel a need to censor how you feel. I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you honestly express how you feel, you can expect between 49% and 51% of the people to tell you your full of shit. The only difference is that some will do it nicer than others.

And they disagreement I had with Growler on this post had nothing to do with the fact that he was repeating something that had been discussed on previous threads. I just think the guy is full of shit.

 

[Growler145]

Just so everyone know's,,If I offended anyone
with seemingly thoughtless hostility it was not my intent,,I'm glad I was at least able to inspire a few like whispersecert to jump in and make her heart felt presence known,,
it brought a pleasant smile to my face,,,to hear her oppion expressed so elequently,,,I wholeheartedly agree with (s)Las(h)ser,,the BB is a much nicer place because of your presence here,,,Honor and integrity is slowly
being lost these days,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but Lasser99,,your right,,I am full of shit,,,
AKA<<<<<Shithouse>>>>it's my calling I guess
so say once again,,I'm glad I was able to keep you ammused,,,,,,,damn I love those
comma's,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

[Skitten]

In my honest opinion no size doesn't matter as long as it works for the both of you but of couse, just try to enjoy if you don't feel its right try new things maybe.

 

[Hullo_nurse]

oops...just go on to the next post... this is boo boo (in technical terms, a 501blues error).

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[Hullo_nurse]

Size, wise, mize, tize...

Hmmmm, well, to some size is VERY important, like those who are just in it for a fuck. For some size matters cuz if it ain't good in bed, why bother? For others, if he lacks in size but has a tongue that knows the lay of the land, who gives a rats ass if it's chi si

So...what do I like?

Well, I loved Landis's 8.5-9.0inch cock. This guy was incredible. We could do it any way we wanted. He could make me cum & cum again. But, there was no love between us.

I also loved Rico's 7inch cock. I thought I loved him & he was my first & we had great sex. But, alas, he was an ass...he cheated on me every chance he got, me thinks, so it had to end.

SO, now I am with my hubbie. And while I admit he is not as large as either men who could make me scream out in orgasm, he is the one for me. [Let me tell you, me thinks me has one of the tightest pussies around. This can be a VERY good thing (except when you have the urge to have a fist rammed in you and know there's no way in hell it'll hapen...)] He loves me, all of me, and he has found ways to light my fire and make me cum that "make up" for his not so large stature. I used to think that it mattered, reallly mattered, but I have learned that love conquers most, not all, but a miriad of things.

 

[Whispersecret]

Thanks, Lasher. If you were here, I'd give you a big hug. I do feel freer to say my piece. Maybe I'll let loose a little more. I can remember one time last week when I couldn't hold back and I really railed on someone who cast aspersions on the education system. (Of course, I should remember I did the same thing to the legal system myself that same week.)

Back on topic...ah, nine inches, Nurse? Good God, I'm only 4'11'. If someone slammed a 9-incher into me, I think he'd actually be giving me CPR.

All this time I thought my husband was on the large side. Is seven inches NOT big? Actually, nevermind. I just said I fell on the "size doesn't matter" side, and I do. Sex-wise it's not important.

By the way, I don't think a cock can hit the back of a uterus. Isn't the cervix in the way? (You know, that thing that hurts like a son of a bitch when it's dialating?) I think Growler meant the vagina.

 

[Lasher]

4'11", Whisper?? Wouldn't be that big of a hug then, would it. LOL. I'm certainly glad that you feel better. There are many times when people post here that they need to be told they're fucked in an erudite manner, and I think you're just the person to do it.

 

[Fallen Angel]

Boy the more things change the more they stay the same.

If anyone is interested, on General click the show topics bar till it says "show all." There are very few new topics left only new people and new views.

As was pointed out, everyone was a newbie once even Laurel. Cyberspace is a big place so if you're not happy here...Most of the folks here are smart, tolerant, witty, compassionate, and love sex. They pay attention to what is posted and will nail you if you flip flop around on issues or if they feel you are wrong. Brusier caught hell for being an asshole but earned some respect for sticking to his opinions.

The board is the people on it. While it looks formidable to those new to it, it is that very sense of community that draws new folks out of the void to post their opinions and keeps the oldtimers coming back just to check on what is happening.

Now while not a woman I will post to the topic. Mine seems to me to be the right size. It gets my woman and me both off and fits my hand well when I am by myself. Anyone with one smaller is a wimp and anyone with one bigger is a freak. Most guys I think feel about the same way. Most women don't care as long as you both get off.

Some of the best sex I have ever had we never got around to the traditional fuck so now we are back to a question of size best for different kinds of sex. Yes yes that one has been covered too.

 

[Nicole]

NO NO NO size does not matter!!!! It is what you do with what you have that counts. If you are in a loving fulfilling relationship then as long as you are with that man it doesn't matter in least what he has down there just how he makes you feel. And remember ladies we have to please our men as much as they please us, We can't always take and never give back which is what alot of these younger girls nowadays seem to do. (Or at least this is what I hear from alot of my male friends).

Any way like I say NO it does not matter in the least. Well at least to me it doesn't