To edge or not to edge….

Wow!
So I would do this to myself. But someone else? I’m not sure. But that is arousing!
It's hot to catch somebody right at that pleasure peak, so they are pleading for release but hoping it never ends, reduced and helpless flailing on the edge of orgasm. That power is exquisite.
 
Well i dont care to edge, i would rather have a deep release. But being in a sexless marriage i usually enjoy stroking my cock. But i so need to feel the real thing my cock and hand are in a battle and not playing well together. I want to cum, but need more stimulation to get me to the end result. This being said- i dont want to edge but i guess i am ...Sadly...
It's not you cocck or your hand, but your brain that needs the juice of the perfect fantasy.
 
It's hot to catch somebody right at that pleasure peak, so they are pleading for release but hoping it never ends, reduced and helpless flailing on the edge of orgasm. That power is exquisite.
You make a strong case for it …

Very strong.

So people who edge, do we prefer to be edged by someone else, or to do the edging to someone else?
 
I think I first edged when I used to call phone sex lines in the 90s. Remember those? But it was expensive to edge. Like $3.99 a minute. Then with America Online I was introduced to sex chat with random horny women. These chats would sometimes go 3 hours and I would be close to orgasm at least a dozen times over 3 hours. When I finally let it go it was powerful. These days I still edge but not usually in one 3 hour session. Unless I find a great chat friend.
 
Been edging all my life…didn’t know it had a name or was a thing. Just learned that this week @55 years old, lol. Got me thinking how edging is distinguished from regular masturbation and then it occurred to me that edging is normal masturbation…I’d say I edge 95% of the time or more and really only rub out a quickie once in a great while.

So I’m wondering about how you all view it. What percentage of the time do you edge and what percentage of the time are you really on a mission to rub one out?
I prefer edging because it builds the thrill. I would say the vast majority of the time, I'm going to be either (1) intermittently masturbating throughout the day for a big climax later or (2) having a sustained hour-or-two long session. I'll occasionally rub out a quickie if I need to but I prefer to prolong the experience.
 
Ive been caught edging… and she was mean enough to grab my cock, squish it a few times, and left me there just dripping cum in a ruined orgasm as she turned to keep sleeping! Not bad at all I say… lol… but that was the end on the night… :)
 
I love edging and essentially start every day by doing so. I normally wake up with an erection and feel so good to rub it first thing in the morning. Sometimes I get to the very edge and then back off and sometimes I'll just rub until it feels good and then stop and get dressed. I enjoy the physical and mental state that it puts me in during the day and I'll often edge my cock several times throughout the day. I frequently repeat this for several days in a row until I absolutely can't take it anymore and have an incredibly intense orgasm.
My wife has seen me do this many times but one time in particular she had no idea how close to the edge I was. She was going shopping and I was sitting there edging and got up to give her an innocent kiss goodbye and she teasingly grabbed my cock. That was not a very good move on her part because I ejaculated all over her. She was rather upset because she had to go change her clothes before she could meet her friends to go shopping. Oh well... live and learn LOL.
 
I am an edger. I work from home and have the freedom to spend the day working and edging.

Some days it is just me and my hand, edging throughout the day. Some days it is a butt plug and my hand. Some days it is not touching at all and just watching porn or reading stories on lit that keep me on edge.

I love holding out
 
I'd love to hear others definitions of edging. I define edging as any stimulation of my genitals that provides sexual arousal but doesn't result in an orgasm. It really doesn't need to bring me to the brink of orgasm every time and usually doesn't. It does however build me to an eventual intense release when I do reach my climax. How do you define it?
 
I'd love to hear others definitions of edging. I define edging as any stimulation of my genitals that provides sexual arousal but doesn't result in an orgasm. It really doesn't need to bring me to the brink of orgasm every time and usually doesn't. It does however build me to an eventual intense release when I do reach my climax. How do you define it?
I’d say the same. But I think there has to be a sense of delayed gratification or saving it for later et al.

I know some people talk about this sort of soft-dom thing of bringing someone to the edge repeatedly in the same session. I’d agree with that take on it too
 
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