To Do List

[lark sparrow]

What's on your BDSM 'To Do' list?

 

[Cirrus]

Good question.

I've done pretty much everything I want to do for now, but I would like to try vaginal fisting (as the recipient).

 

[MissTaken]

Nothing.

I dont' have a "to do " list barring finding someone special who will explore sensuality with me.

I know he is out there, Somewhere!

 

[HzDomme]

It would be wonderful to have a few days where the kids, the house, the bills and the phone were not an interruption.

I guess that means my to do list is just
to do.

Edited: I'd like to read all the books I've collected and explore new ideas I've found.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Number one

Get my 24/7 slave.

Eb

 

[lark sparrow]

Nothing.

I dont' have a "to do " list barring finding someone special who will explore sensuality with me.

I know he is out there, Somewhere!

Oh, nothing... just a tiny, little matter of a great relationship, and sizzling intimacy.

I have that someone special, the next 'to do' is how to wrangle the time, money (patience and creativity, in the meantime) for the next visit.

I have no doubt he is out there, in fact, there are probably many more possibilities than just one...but I understand it's one of those things you can't look too hard for, aside from making yourself available, open and happy in the meantime, so I can see how it is not a formal 'to do'. But it still made me giggle. Sounds like a full plate to me!

 

[lark sparrow]

Good question.

I've done pretty much everything I want to do for now, but I would like to try vaginal fisting (as the recipient).

Hey, that's on mine too! I've had it attempted (unsuccessfully), though not as a formal, exclusive activity.

Another, which is scheduled for the next visit, is golden showers, or pee play. A few years ago, this would have been an 'eww' for me, but we've both discovered enough erotic, intimate overtones and kinky curiousity to make it a very compelling fantasy and a 'must try'.

 

[lark sparrow]

It would be wonderful to have a few days where the kids, the house, the bills and the phone were not an interruption.

I guess that means my to do list is just
to do.

Edited: I'd like to read all the books I've collected and explore new ideas I've found.

'To do" list: Somehow make more time for myself, so I can actually make my BDSM 'to do' list. Getting to it may be another matter! I think we all experience that - so many things to do, so little time. A few days away is not an entirely impossible goal though.

I hate formal 'to do' lists, unless it's a shopping list as otherwise I get to the store and wander around aimlessly finding things I didn't intend to get, which can be nice, but it's terrible to come home missing one of the basics... it's good to take stock sometimes.

 

[lark sparrow]

Re: Number one

Get my 24/7 slave.

Eb

A very determined Woman! This one sounds familiar too.

Seeing other people's 'to do's' is an interesting way to get to know them, and will sometimes give me a new perspective on my own list.

Anyone else?

 

[Bijoux]

1. Anal sex...yeah, virgin here - last boyfriend had "issues"

2. I'd like to try v. fisting too but so far I haven't been able to loosen up enough

3. Tell my Dom I love him...and then cower in fear, waiting for rejection (you just get to that point where phenomenal sex and a great "friendly" relationship just aren't enough sometimes)

Man....I can't believe I actually typed that out - I guess they're right, the internet makes people spill more be it true or not.

~
B

 

[zipman]

Although I have been into BDSM for a long time, I have never done any public scenes.

I guess I would like to try that.

 

[lark sparrow]

I really enjoy anal play, Bijoux often on my 'to do' list as well. The last time being an impromtu spanking with a very stingy thick plastic brush... it's handle utilized as well. Naughty.

Edited to add: Re the 'I love you' issue. I can relate. The Domme I belong to actually prompted it from me because She knew I was uncomfortable with my feelings for Her. But then it was awhile before She returned it, so any way it's done can be scary and putting yourself out there.

Zipman. I've been to NYC once, and I did visit 'Paddles'... only observed, but it looked like people were having a wonderful time! I think I would also like to try this at some point with my Domme. It's great being a woman when visiting sex clubs... having a penis triples the entrance fee

 

[lovetoread]

My to do list is very long.

I am not even sure I could take what I really want to do.

Breast binding is up there.

Fisting is not I am afraid.

I want to do the whole being taken thing with someone, but its not like you can plan that easily.

Not to mention the fact that I need a good babysitter when I do all of this.

Sigh...I gots so much to do.

 

[zipman]

I really enjoy anal play, Bijoux often on my 'to do' list as well. The last time being an impromtu spanking with a very stingy thick plastic brush... it's handle utilized as well. Naughty.

Zipman. I've been to NYC once, and I did visit 'Paddles'... only observed, but it looked like people were having a wonderful time! I think I would also like to try this at some point with my Domme. It's great being a woman when visiting clubs... having a penis triples the entrance fee

Considering how much I use it, it is well worth the price.

 

[lark sparrow]

Considering how much I use it, it is well worth the price.

LOL indeed!

I was surprised because many of the clubs here use a sliding scale dependent on how one is dressed (to discourage lookie-lous). I went with one female and one male - we were all there just to check it out, not to play, but he sure paid a high price!

I suppose it depends on whether or not it is considered a sex club, or more of a social/dance club. I tried to go to 'The Power Exchange' one night here, our sex club which also includes alot of BDSM activity - but it was "men only" night. That's SF for ya!

 

[lark sparrow]

My to do list is very long.

I am not even sure I could take what I really want to do.

Breast binding is up there.

You're brave (in my book!) lol breast binding images scare me a bit, although I very much enjoy breast/nipple play. I am watching the new thread on this topic to learn more. It's definitely not a hard limit and I am sure my Domme and I will explore it, but it is not on my overly eager, must do now list. Same for play piercing - though I will try that eventually as well . Those things that somehow trigger some sort of fear, but are not hard limits are fun in their own right.

 

[TantaLiza]

My "to do" list grows each day...

Right now, I am thinking about getting my clit pierced...just don't know whether to do it vertical or horizontal....any suggestions???

I'm also working on finding some of those seamstress clips that someone suggested on another thread...hmmmm....gotta get that toy bag goin on strong...

 

[gomeade]

My to-do would be to come out re: my BDSM interests to someone who knows me in my "regular" life.

 

[rick_j21]

See now I would have thought this thread would have included a few people. My to do list is mainly to do some of you. I also really really would like to be able to attend more play parties.

 

[lark sparrow]

Hi Tantaliza... the clit or clit hood? I was hoping someone else might jump in as I only have the usual pierced ears so far. I love the look of pierced nipples, and the rings through inner or outer lips... even the eyebrow holds some appeal. The Domme I belong to has this idea about eventually getting a clit piercing for me. I'm unsure lol that is a precious bundle of nerves that I never want the possibility of damaging! I keep bringing up how difficult it might be to play with the clamps we both like so much as an aside . If you do your piercing I'd love to hear about the experience.

 

[lark sparrow]

My to-do would be to come out re: my BDSM interests to someone who knows me in my "regular" life.

Do you have anyone in mind?

 

[lark sparrow]

See now I would have thought this thread would have included a few people. My to do list is mainly to do some of you. I also really really would like to be able to attend more play parties.

That's what makes it interesting... different people's takes. lol.. who would you do or be done by?

Is owned so can't go there - there is only one acceptable answer

 

[Prince Romeo]

My list. If it was an ocean I'd say I'm still sitting at the docks waiting to cast off.

 

[Wizard]

I want to hit the clubs but just can'y find to many public places around here.

 

[gomeade]

Answer to Lark's Question

Thanks for asking. I have someone in mind, but unfortunately, she sees me as "just a friend" (I hate that "just" part).