To clip the lip or not...

[Kitte]

Ok I figure if I can ask this anywhere its here. I have large vaginal lips... I am considering reduction surgery to make them look more like the ones u see in porn etc. I am looking for opinions. I am kind of uncomfortable with the way they look. Always have been since i first saw they werent the "norm" Men and women do u mind them.. women how many of u have them???


I appreciate honest responses

 

[mskittykatt]

Ok I figure if I can ask this anywhere its here. I have large vaginal lips... I am considering reduction surgery to make them look more like the ones u see in porn etc. I am looking for opinions. I am kind of uncomfortable with the way they look. Always have been since i first saw they werent the "norm" Men and women do u mind them.. women how many of u have them???
I appreciate honest responses

personally i would not have surgery for that. mine are large as well and i grew up hating it... but my boyfriend now absolutely loves them just the way they are, and my Master adores them. please don't change just to conform to what you see in a mag! i actually am thinking about piercing each side and getting tiny ornamental chains to wear sometimes!

 

[Sannion]

Men and women do u mind them.. women how many of u have them???

Mind them? I LOVE them. Pussies are beautiful. Period. There isn't one kind of beautiful pussy. Instead, they come in many shapes, sizes, colours. Some have thick lips, some thin. Some have lots of hair, some are shaved. Some look like delicate flowers, others like exotic sea creatures - but they are all beautiful. And the amazing thing about porn is that they are all reflected in it. It may be that certain popular forms of porn only show certain shaped pussies, but if you look hard enough, you can find anything and everything out there. If it's a variation, there's an audience for it.

Instead of changing yourself to fit someone else's standard of beauty, you should come to see the beauty of your own body, and find someone else who can do that with you. Because I gurantee you that there are plenty of men and women out there who will!

 

[BlazeofLife]

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Mind them? I LOVE them. Pussies are beautiful. Period. There isn't one kind of beautiful pussy. Instead, they come in many shapes, sizes, colours. Some have thick lips, some thin. Some have lots of hair, some are shaved. Some look like delicate flowers, others like exotic sea creatures - but they are all beautiful. And the amazing thing about porn is that they are all reflected in it. It may be that certain popular forms of porn only show certain shaped pussies, but if you look hard enough, you can find anything and everything out there. If it's a variation, there's an audience for it.

Instead of changing yourself to fit someone else's standard of beauty, you should come to see the beauty of your own body, and find someone else who can do that with you. Because I gurantee you that there are plenty of men and women out there who will!

Very nicely stated, I couldn't have said it better myself. Be happy with who you are, Kitte, and don't worry about what others might call imperfections. Remember, 'imperfections' are what seperate each of us from the other. Just because one person likes something one way, doesn't mean we should all be that way.
Diversity is a good thing, and so are your lips, regardless of their size.

Blaze

 

[Sir1765]

You need to be happy with what you got, If you truly believe it is a problem well then change yourself. Surgery for that seems like a extreme, just to conform to " the normal"...... Personally I love large lips and I know other males and females feel the same...

just my 2 cents

 

[CeceliaSkye]

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Very nicely stated, I couldn't have said it better myself. Be happy with who you are, Kitte, and don't worry about what others might call imperfections. Remember, 'imperfections' are what seperate each of us from the other. Just because one person likes something one way, doesn't mean we should all be that way.
Diversity is a good thing, and so are your lips, regardless of their size.

Blaze

What that guy said

 

[BlazeofLife]

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What that guy said

 

[sabbathstorm]

I wouldn't recommend that form of surgery to be more like the images put forth in porn videos. I'm one of those women with larger lips but my partner absolutely loves them. I've never considered them a problem at all.

 

[MysteryWriter]

why?

unless you want to be a porn model why?????

 

[Guest]

me too

I also have large lips, and HATE(D) them. (only 18 here, so still have to deal with the way i feel about them). I never used to let guys go down on my because I was afraid of what they might think, because I would be so embarressed. But, one night I let it happen and it was WONDERFUL - I just let go, relaxed, and enjoyed the moment. Needless to say, it doesn't really bother me that much anymore... Then I started doing the same thing(not letting him go down) when I was with my next boyfriend, but I figured... Hey, I go down on him, so why not?!?! He can't think his penis is what women always dream of putting in there mouths, and I'm sure there's something he's uncomfortable of too. Thinking like that helps me relax, and so now I deal with it better. I was also thinking about surgery, but now that I know it's not uncommen, I have changed my mind... Although, if the oppurtunity arrose, I would have to admit I would probably go for it... Just not out of my way.

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

I had a girlfriend who also had large lips. I absoloutely loved them. It was like being kissed when we had sex. And I used to be able to get her to cum so easily by playing with them!

Personally, I think they're sexy.

(see, I even refrained from saying that pictures would help me decide ...lol )

 

[lickboxer]

DON'T DO IT. I love large lips there's so much more there to stimulate, and isn't that where all the stimulation comes from? You wouldn't want to do something to effect that would you? Enjoy what you have, I would,

 

[Kitte]

I appreciate all ur responses. and it is an issue of insecurity I guess, I just wondered what the general consensus of the most sexually aware people I could find was... I guess I really think I wouldnt go out of my way to have it done... Thanks for the opinions!

 

[BlazeofLife]

No problem, Kitte, thats what we're here for!

Blaze

 

[LukkyKnight]

Nipples come in different sizes, cocks come in different sizes, lips on the face come in different sizes, and some people are silly enough to ignore anybody who doesn't conform to their narrow-minded ideals. Their loss. Don't let somebody else's narrow-mindedness influence your self-esteem, the ONLY person they have a right to judge is themselves. Porn movies reflect what the director THINKS will sell, but they aren't about reality, ya know?