To be vocal or not?

[RedHotMamaTN]

I am very vocal during sex. I moan, I groan. I talk. I have always done this and I don't see it changing. I have been asked if i was faking it. I asked Why would you think I was faking? Their answer, Because I sounded like a Porn Star. WTF?? I said you say that like its a BAD THING? They shut up after that.

I have asked my new lover if there was words or phrases that he enjoys hearing from me. He said the usualler Fuck me works. But he liked sounds more than words. So he LOVES the sounds I make.

My question is, Do you like your lover to moan, talk whatever or do you rather them to not say a word ?

 

[VanishingAct2]

I am very vocal during sex. I moan, I groan. I talk. I have always done this and I don't see it changing. I have been asked if i was faking it. I asked Why would you think I was faking? Their answer, Because I sounded like a Porn Star. WTF?? I said you say that like its a BAD THING? They shut up after that.

I have asked my new lover if there was words or phrases that he enjoys hearing from me. He said the usualler Fuck me works. But he liked sounds more than words. So he LOVES the sounds I make.

My question is, Do you like your lover to moan, talk whatever or do you rather them to not say a word ?

I'm sorry....I'm too turned on by the thought of your sex sounds to understand or answer your question.

I hope that helps

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

I'm sorry....I'm too turned on by the thought of your sex sounds to understand or answer your question.

I hope that helps

LOL Yes it does.

 

[Noor]

I say be yourself, and go with whatever. I am told I am often quite vocal but I don't really pay much attention to what I am doing, too busy I guess

 

[VanishingAct2]

LOL Yes it does.

I love love love vocal. The louder the better.

It means I'm doing my job!


(I don't suppose there's any audio evidence out there of your vocal stylings? You know....for my research)

 

[NeonKnickers]

I am mesmerized by man sex noises. I want a partner that is settled enough in their own skin that they let loose when we are together, like I do. I don't care if he uses words, sounds, grunts. Just emote.

Hot.

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

As I had said, I asked my new lover about this and he said sounds works for him because he knows hes doing a good job. How else is he going to know im being pleased if I dont make some kind of sound? Hes not so much into words but sounds he LOVES! I have had to put my face into a pillow to be quiet or the neighbors would think i was being murdered. LOL
Maybe the guy i was with who thought I was faking it was turned off by my sounds. Who knows, that is probably why hes is no longer with me.

 

[VanishingAct2]

As I had said, I asked my new lover about this and he said sounds works for him because he knows hes doing a good job. How else is he going to know im being pleased if I dont make some kind of sound? Hes not so much into words but sounds he LOVES! I have had to put my face into a pillow to be quiet or the neighbors would think i was being murdered. LOL
Maybe the guy i was with who thought I was faking it was turned off by my sounds. Who knows, that is probably why hes is no longer with me.

If he doesn't appreciate your sounds, he doesn't deserve to give you pleasure

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

I have asked my new lover if there was words or phrases that he enjoys hearing from me. He said the usualler Fuck me works. But he liked sounds more than words. So he LOVES the sounds I make.

RedHotMama, I did say in your other thread he sounds like a keeper, I can only repeat it

I moan, and do a bit of talking, but Ive been suppressing it for years so my sons don't hear

Ahhhh to give into my moans once more as I cum

 

[paulstories]

As much noise as possible..love the passion, was married to someone who didn't move a muscle or make a sound. Made me appreciate people who can, and so, let themselves go..

 

[Led_Astray]

Anything that tells you lover that what you are doing is oh-so-right is good.

It's a real turn on for me to hear my partner gasping or crying out when I hit just the right spot, and surely it has to make it better for her when, using the intensity of her sound as guidance, I can seek out just the right spot, or just the right movement, or just the right combination of tongue and fingers to take her to a screaming orgasm.

So please, ladies, make some noise

 

[CandiCame]

I get headaches if I have sex quietly... I think it's because I don't release the tension or whatever, so... I'm kinda loud... I don't really talk during sex though- more, I guess animalistic noises, just whatever I can't suppress. Guys aren't supposed to be loud, so we can hear the chick.

 

[SpicyVixen]

I am very vocal....my partner is very quiet. One day I wanted to prove a point (I know not a good time when we are in the middle of having sex) and didn't make a sound.....after we were done and he was cuddling me he was disturbed that I had been so quiet lol.

I know everyone is different but a lil moan.......I need it to hear something.

 

[tocurpussy]

From a mans point of view, the more sound you make the more excited I get and just makes me want to please you more. Just my thoughts on it

 

[Jackotheshadows]

I am very vocal....my partner is very quiet. One day I wanted to prove a point (I know not a good time when we are in the middle of having sex) and didn't make a sound.....after we were done and he was cuddling me he was disturbed that I had been so quiet lol.

I know everyone is different but a lil moan.......I need it to hear something.

Call it positive reinforcement...although the theatrical shrieking is a turnoff....heartfelt noises of pleasure are *yummy*!

 

[yours2nite]

Anything that tells you lover that what you are doing is oh-so-right is good.

It's a real turn on for me to hear my partner gasping or crying out when I hit just the right spot, and surely it has to make it better for her when, using the intensity of her sound as guidance, I can seek out just the right spot, or just the right movement, or just the right combination of tongue and fingers to take her to a screaming orgasm.

So please, ladies, make some noise

This is oh so true, making the right noise at the right time is the best way to tell him that he is doing the right thing for me. At different times the right thing will be different, so it's good to be able to let him know to keep doing what he is doing, or keeping quiet to help him know it's time to do something else. I'd like to say this is always planned, but often it's just the way it happens when I'm enjoying it.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

This is oh so true, making the right noise at the right time is the best way to tell him that he is doing the right thing for me. At different times the right thing will be different, so it's good to be able to let him know to keep doing what he is doing, or keeping quiet to help him know it's time to do something else. I'd like to say this is always planned, but often it's just the way it happens when I'm enjoying it.

Of course, the sounds coupled with the "Oh shit!" look on your partner's face is even better...

 

[klippert]

out and out screaming, that would be annoying.... I really like hearing Mrs. K telling me to fuck her....or when she talks dirty period.

I like talking dirty....but, you can get me laughing if your really working the dirty talk. sounding like some pro porn star. If it's natural, and just comes out and doesn't sound scripted.

some of the bet vocal or dirty talk cums when you sneaking in some goodies....and you have to whisper....for example: we're in S.C. Went to the Masters. Thursday last week. Mrs K came into the bathroom, I had just got out of the shower. She says: should I assume the position...with a smile she goes to her knees. she pulls off from sucking me and say: "I get so hot sucking your cock, knowing my mom is in the other room".....she didn't have too get all dirty talk, or yell, or make up porn gibberish.... she meant what she said

 

[stu_gats_2000]

I like the moaning and groaning myself ... love a little dirty talk especially when I hit the right spot or you are guiding me to it

 

[Dav81]

I am very vocal during sex. I moan, I groan. I talk. I have always done this and I don't see it changing. I have been asked if i was faking it. I asked Why would you think I was faking? Their answer, Because I sounded like a Porn Star. WTF?? I said you say that like its a BAD THING? They shut up after that.

I have asked my new lover if there was words or phrases that he enjoys hearing from me. He said the usualler Fuck me works. But he liked sounds more than words. So he LOVES the sounds I make.

My question is, Do you like your lover to moan, talk whatever or do you rather them to not say a word ?

Definitely. Noise and lots of it is a great turn-on. I remember when my wife and I started dated, we were ridiculously loud (she is a screamer and I have always enjoyed being very vocal during lovemaking). We lived in a condo at the time and our master bedroom's headboard wall was shared with the condo next door. We thought the condo was empty so we were ridiculously loud and we tend to shag like rabbits so we were ridiculously loud a minimum of 5-6 times a day. One time, after a marathon lovemaking session, we went grocery shopping (I know, hot right?). We got dressed and prepared to go out and opened our condo's front door...and walked promptly into our new neighbors (2 college age guys) who had clearly heard us through the wall quite clearly. They both had these giant shit-eating grins on their faces and I simply smiled and introduced us to them. From then on, my then GF/now wife tried to be even louder when she knew they were home. She's quite the exhibitionist...which is so very, very hot.

The flip side of that was the first time we visited her father's house and the bedroom we stayed in shared a wall with his room...she wanted so very very much to scream but didnt want her father to know she was being a bad girl so she had to keep biting her lip and pulled a pillow over her face as I pounded her as hard as I possibly could to get her to moan/scream/beg for mercy.

Ah, good times.

 

[Dav81]

I like the moaning and groaning myself ... love a little dirty talk especially when I hit the right spot or you are guiding me to it

My wife is like that. Normally, she will never swear or curse and acts like a goody two shoes in public...get her in the bedroom and she basiclaly turns into a porn star. She's literally saying the nastiest things imaginable...Its like "Oh baby, cum on my face, cum on my fucking face with your big cock...that's it, fuck my pussy hard baby, FUCK ME HARD!!!"

Its an odd yet fun mix.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

My wife is like that. Normally, she will never swear or curse and acts like a goody two shoes in public...get her in the bedroom and she basiclaly turns into a porn star. She's literally saying the nastiest things imaginable...Its like "Oh baby, cum on my face, cum on my fucking face with your big cock...that's it, fuck my pussy hard baby, FUCK ME HARD!!!"

Its an odd yet fun mix.

Sounds awesome... I down with the good dirty talk especially if you are in a very horny mood all you want to enjoy is a good hard fuck... but when you are taking your time to please the women and get her all hot and bother I prefer the moaning/groan and confirmation that I am hitting all the right spots with something simply like "oh yeah" or "thats the spot" or "make me cum"

 

[Pornorica]

Anything that tells you lover that what you are doing is oh-so-right is good.

It's a real turn on for me to hear my partner gasping or crying out when I hit just the right spot, and surely it has to make it better for her when, using the intensity of her sound as guidance, I can seek out just the right spot, or just the right movement, or just the right combination of tongue and fingers to take her to a screaming orgasm.

So please, ladies, make some noise

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[SpicyVixen]

Sounds awesome... I down with the good dirty talk especially if you are in a very horny mood all you want to enjoy is a good hard fuck... but when you are taking your time to please the women and get her all hot and bother I prefer the moaning/groan and confirmation that I am hitting all the right spots with something simply like "oh yeah" or "thats the spot" or "make me cum"

Smiles

 

[Pornorica]

Call it positive reinforcement...although the theatrical shrieking is a turnoff....heartfelt noises of pleasure are *yummy*!

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