tips?

[jkaustin72]

anybody got any tips on relasing the wild woman in a conservative wife? We have talked about many thing when she has a little too much to dirnk, so i know the thoughts are there..how can i help bring them out?

 

[red kitten]

anybody got any tips on relasing the wild woman in a conservative wife? We have talked about many thing when she has a little too much to dirnk, so i know the thoughts are there..how can i help bring them out?

Just my 2-cents---
Have her join Lit, and explore ... worked for me!

 

[jkaustin72]

i wish

i wish...shes not in to the whole porn type thing...discussions are hard between the two of us dont think she would even consider it.

 

[Eilan]

i wish...shes not in to the whole porn type thing...discussions are hard between the two of us dont think she would even consider it.

It would help your relationship immensely (and not just sexually) if the two of you would work on communication. How can you expect her to do "wild" things if it's too difficult for the two of you to talk about them?

 

[TBKahuna123]

It would help your relationship immensely (and not just sexually) if the two of you would work on communication. How can you expect her to do "wild" things if it's too difficult for the two of you to talk about them?

Eilan's right on! Patience is the key too. If you just keep exploring, let things take their course, she may eventually feel comfortable opening up. This won't ever happen though if you can't get her to open up enough to talk about these things.

Lots of women think that having sexual desires makes them some kind of slut and it's just not true. If you can get her to look at Lit, she might really enjoy it. Lit's not just about titillation, it's about exploring sexuality. This is what youa re trying to get her to do, right?

I think getting her to open up and talk about things is defintely the way. Trust me, if you get her to talk about it, that will be the wall crumbling to let the wild woman out. The tough part after you reach this point, is hanging on for the ride!

 

[LadyJeanne]

You can bring out the wild side of your lady if you bring out the wild side in yourself. If she's more relaxed and adventurous when drinking, I'll bet you are more relaxed too (whether you've been drinking or not). When you're free and open with her, she'll be more comfortable being just as free.

So, tips. Frequently do the following:

- tell her how hot she makes you feel
- whisper in her ear what you'd like to do to her
- sneak in a passionate kiss when she least expects it
- touch her (fill in body part) and tell her how hot you think she is
- tell her about things that turn you on and what you'd like to try with her


In bed, when the mood is good, take the lead and do some of the wild things you'd like. Suggest things, or tell her about a fantasy of yours. And make sure to keep telling her how terrific it feels and how much you love whatever it is. Be encouraging when she gives you a glimpse of her wild side.

Don't wait for her to figure out what and how you like it. Tell her, show her, treat her like your hot, mischievous partner in crime.

 

[jkaustin72]

hmmmm....mabey im not trying hard enough, gives me something to think about. i am extremely open minded and fairly experinced on the wilder side..so i know she could have alot of fun....will suggest this site and see where it leads.

 

[KarenDee]

I dunno but I think you answered your own question here. If she loosens up when she's had a drink or two...I'd give her a drink or two.

 

[TBKahuna123]

hmmmm....mabey im not trying hard enough, gives me something to think about. i am extremely open minded and fairly experinced on the wilder side..so i know she could have alot of fun....will suggest this site and see where it leads.

Don't try TOO hard though, otherwise she'll feel pressured. The key here I think, is comfort. She has to feel comfortable and confident showing you that wild side, knowing that you'll still respect her in the morning so to speak.

 

[silverwhisper]

el grande kahuna quoth
patience is the key too

aw, c'mon kahuna: you know it's only about communication around here...

JK: do you guys do any fantasizing or dirty talk when you make love?

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

knowing that you'll still respect her in the morning so to speak.

Speaking of which...*slaps* Thats for last night, bastard!

 

[jkaustin72]

somewhat...

if shes really going yes just the typical fuck me..ect....nothing overly explicit.