Tipping Point

[MWMBi]

Hi Everyone.....
I appreciate reading everyone's posts since they help me get insight. For your honesty, I can only say Thank you. I do have a question.....

What was the tipping point for you where you decided, "I'm gonna do it." What finally made you decide that you were going to sleep with someone of the same gender? Another way to ask this question is...what finally "gave" you permission to go for it?? What had to give way for you to hop over to the other side/what inhibitions were eliminated/lowered lowered? I hope the question makes sense....

Thanks.....

 

[symbolicflame]

Hi and good question. I am one that always knew I was attracted to the same sex. I had my first expierence in 8th grade. And a night after sneaking some booze from the folks cabinet. I then tried to act stright in HS and after, but I finally gave myself permission to be me, when I knew I could no longer live the lie. I just had to be honest with myself and the rest will follow. I wish you the best!

 

[H_Meyerer]

When I was in high school I had a girlfriend but we never did anything the whole time we dated. I hated even the thought of kissing her. I knew then that I was 100% gays and that I would never be with the opposite sex. So really there was never a question for me. I couldn't wait to meet someone and have relations.

 

[gagginforit]

It hasn't happened for me yet but I'm sure it'll be when someone flops it out in front of me.

 

[Etoile]

I knew in HS that I was at least bisexual, starting around age 13-14 (sophomore year). I had crushes on both boys and girls at that time, but I was heavily involved in extracurricular activities and didn't date much at all. I had one failed relationship with a boy in HS, and another my first semester at college (age 16). Then I met the woman who is now my wife, and we started dating. It was SO right - I knew this was what I had been looking for. The emotional component far surpassed anything I'd experienced with boys. These days I can still look at a guy and find him attractive (hello, Johnny Depp!) but my true place is with a woman.

 

[privyjo]

Through various circumstances I experienced as a kid I knew I was gay when I was 8 years old. However, after growing up in a very small conservative town, it was a long time before I acted on my feelings as an adult. As an adult, the tipping point occurred while I was living and working overseas away from family. I came out to a close friend during that time. She was straight but was also the first person who fully accepted and loved me as I truly am. Her acceptance of me was my tipping point - my permission to be who I am sexually. Had an affair shortly thereafter that did not go well but ... I knew I was on the right path.

 

[Torreyjs]

i first began to question whether i was straight or bi when i noticed my freshmen year in highschool i didnt give a shit about anything the "guys" did
exept for nerdy things

anyways i was always a lot more interested in what the girls had to say
then from there i noticed that brad pitt is hot madness
and so is juliane moore

and from there i been growin into the idea ever since and workin on that tippin point when i get my own place

 

[webber1998]

Thinking back, I realize that there was something different about me. I really didn't have a thing for girls. I lingered in the boys showers more then I should have. When I saw xxx magazines of girls and guys, the photos with the hard cocks drew my attention.

And all it took was his touch. That did it for me.