Time for real cock?

[harv]

I have been playing with dildos for a long time. I have taken them deep in my mouth and deep in my ass.
I can get a pretty big/long dildo deep into my throat and a really big (too big for my mouth) dildo in my ass. I love the feel of both.
I am married and have almost no experience with another man. I have stroked one other cock and let one man suck mine. All of that fairly recently.
I feel like it is time to try a real cock. I have no desire to kiss another man, hig or any of that, just to know what a real cock feels and tastes like.
I don't seem to be able to find a safe means to make this happen. I need a stranger, but that brings the inherent risks, even with condoms, which I feel will cheat me of mart of the experience??

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[xray678]

I wonder the same thing. Have played with dildos and vibrators for some time, but would love to try the real thing. I have no desire for a relationship with a man, but the idea of having a cock in my ass turns me on incredibly.

 

[wantingitnow]

I have the same Idea I would like to suck dick and have anel for the first time. if I like it then I will want more and more.
the thought of a huge cock cumming in my mouth& ass makes me hard.

 

[chrk1]

there ain't nothin' like the real thing.

 

[luvrboy333]

Hot Cock

Met a guy on the Curious Male boards here. We emailed and loosely agreed to hook up to see what it would be like. Now reality is here. He will be in my area and wants to meet for a drink to check it out.

We are both of similar background, life situation, and mind set. Married, and not looking for any serious entanglements, we just want to explore the curious side of our natures---experiencing a cock. Neither one of us is really turned on by the idea of getting to know the guy attached to the cock. We just want to play with a nice cock. And judging from his pics, he DOES have a nice one. He says my cock is hot.

I have fantasies about getting on my knees in front of him, opening his pants and worshipping his enormous cock. Then after he is sufficiently hot and hard, getting on my hands and knees, head down, and ass in the air, and begging him to fuck me.

"Oh please, Timmy, give it to me. Fuck me, fuck my ass with your big, hard cock. Give it all to me and make me your cock slut. Fuck my virgin ass , take me, and make me your bitch! Plug me like no one ever could, and fill my ass with your cum! Make me your bitch. Fuck my ass. Fuck meeeeeeeeeee......."

Had to get that off my chest. Neither of us can tell our wives. So I'm unloading here.

 

[Etoile]

Cheating on one's wife isn't cool, but you could always look up your local gloryholes. Use a condom, though. If cheating on your wife isn't cool, then giving her an STD is really not cool.

http://www.squirt.org/
http://www.cruisingforsex.com/

 

[luvrboy333]

Cheating period is not cool. However, I have this need to sample cock. It has reached a point where I really want to act on it and see what it is like. Gloryholes seem VERY risky. I would rather know who I am dealing with, and take precautions with that guy. Plus, I really don't plan on making this a regular thing, and want to find someone of like mind.

Having said all that, it still remains cheating is not cool. I anticipate the cock play will be though!

 

[Etoile]

Cheating period is not cool. However, I have this need to sample cock. It has reached a point where I really want to act on it and see what it is like. Gloryholes seem VERY risky. I would rather know who I am dealing with, and take precautions with that guy. Plus, I really don't plan on making this a regular thing, and want to find someone of like mind.

Having said all that, it still remains cheating is not cool. I anticipate the cock play will be though!

Gloryholes absolutely are very risky. For those who don't want to cheat but need some same-sex action, though, I guess that means telling the spouse about the desire and hoping it works out for the best. I totally support the idea of knowing who you're dealing with, though - there are plenty of sites out there that are dedicated to one-off hookups. (Or even if they're not dedicated, they happen there anyway! Planet Out and Gay.com are both like this I think.)

 

[luvrboy333]

Gloryholes absolutely are very risky. For those who don't want to cheat but need some same-sex action, though, I guess that means telling the spouse about the desire and hoping it works out for the best. I totally support the idea of knowing who you're dealing with, though - there are plenty of sites out there that are dedicated to one-off hookups. (Or even if they're not dedicated, they happen there anyway! Planet Out and Gay.com are both like this I think.)

My wife has repeatedly told me that she fully expects me to cheat at some point--I am just a man after all. She has told me that if/when I do, she does not want to know about it and better not find out. She says that I will just have to live with the guilt. The only thing she insists on is that I use protection. She has also offered to do a 3 some with another woman if I want to. I am sure she expected me to want another woman. But I already have a really great woman. I don't need to be with another woman, or have sex with another woman. I have never had sex with a guy. As I get older, I wonder what it would feel like. I just have to try it. If my experience with another cock goes well, I may talk to her about getting another guy into our bed. The combinations would be SO hot.

 

[Etoile]

My wife has repeatedly told me that she fully expects me to cheat at some point--I am just a man after all. She has told me that if/when I do, she does not want to know about it and better not find out. She says that I will just have to live with the guilt. The only thing she insists on is that I use protection. She has also offered to do a 3 some with another woman if I want to. I am sure she expected me to want another woman. But I already have a really great woman. I don't need to be with another woman, or have sex with another woman. I have never had sex with a guy. As I get older, I wonder what it would feel like. I just have to try it. If my experience with another cock goes well, I may talk to her about getting another guy into our bed. The combinations would be SO hot.

Wow - she expects you to cheat on her? That doesn't sound like a happy way to live. I admire that you don't want another woman because your wife is really great - I could see using that as a beginning to telling her about the desires. Then again, perhaps she would be distraught over the idea...even people who are open to the idea of bisexuality in general may have an entirely different response when it is their spouse.

 

[luvrboy333]

Wow - she expects you to cheat on her? That doesn't sound like a happy way to live. I admire that you don't want another woman because your wife is really great - I could see using that as a beginning to telling her about the desires. Then again, perhaps she would be distraught over the idea...even people who are open to the idea of bisexuality in general may have an entirely different response when it is their spouse.

I know. That's why I want to check it out and see if I am really into it before I broach the subject with her. She offered to do the 3-some, maybe I tell her we can do it, but with a twist.....

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[luvrboy333]

Please *do* unload!!! ;-) But you do need to tell us how it goes, maybe even take some action photos and post them here.

I can definitely empathize with your one-sided dialog there... Kinda rings my bell (or is that my prostate?) too. ;-)

I see that (based on your story). I love hot dirty talk.

It looks like the meeting is in doubt. I wrote a fantasy story about what might happen where I was dominant and he said he wanted to read it. It was a verbal scene, and some of the fantasy language was abusive. (But it was a fantasy where I was dominant, remember). It freaked him out. I think he is rethinking the meet, which is too bad.

 

[Sanitysux]

A Brief Rant

I have no desire for a relationship with a man

[ Begin Rant ]
What's wrong with the male species?
I'm a bi man and after numerous failed relationships with women, I've decided to try dating guys to see if my luck will change.
So far, I've only found 2 kinds of men.
Either they're married and just want a blow-job in some dingy restroom or they're un-attached but just want a one night stand.
Aren't there any other un-attached men on this planet that want to try and develop a meaningful relationship with another man?

I don't mean run away to Hawaii and get "married" on the first date or some shit, but getting emails like:
"Hi, I'm 8" un-cut, meet me at noon on Friday in the men's room of Jimmy's bar & grill". just doesn't turn me on!
[ End Rant ]

Thanks for opening the door for me to get this off my chest!

 

[Etoile]

[ Begin Rant ]
What's wrong with the male species?
I'm a bi man and after numerous failed relationships with women, I've decided to try dating guys to see if my luck will change.
So far, I've only found 2 kinds of men.
Either they're married and just want a blow-job in some dingy restroom or they're un-attached but just want a one night stand.
Aren't there any other un-attached men on this planet that want to try and develop a meaningful relationship with another man?

I don't mean run away to Hawaii and get "married" on the first date or some shit, but getting emails like:
"Hi, I'm 8" un-cut, meet me at noon on Friday in the men's room of Jimmy's bar & grill". just doesn't turn me on!
[ End Rant ]

Thanks for opening the door for me to get this off my chest!

Ew, emails like that ARE nasty. I have a friend who's in a similar situation - he is closeted and e doesn't want to use online personals because they're so full of people looking for anonymous hookups. He wants to find a guy he can be friends with and see how it develops, and he's having a hard time.

 

[Sanitysux]

I have a friend who's in a similar situation - he is closeted and e doesn't want to use online personals because they're so full of people looking for anonymous hookups.

Online ads are my only option really.
I live in a small rural town and the nearest gay bar is 100 miles away.
I feel sorry for women if straight guys approach them in the same manner.
If they do, it's a wonder that the human race hasn't died out!

 

[Etoile]

Online ads are my only option really.
I live in a small rural town and the nearest gay bar is 100 miles away.
I feel sorry for women if straight guys approach them in the same manner.
If they do, it's a wonder that the human race hasn't died out!

Not often, but sometimes. There's a thread over in the BDSM Cafe called "I seek like minded individuals" that's about the cheesy stuff people send each other in the hope of getting laid...

 

[Sanitysux]

There's a thread over in the BDSM Cafe called "I seek like minded individuals" that's about the cheesy stuff people send each other in the hope of getting laid...

That sounds fun, I'll have to check it out.

 

[strictlyanon69]

I have no desire to kiss another man, hig or any of that, just to know what a real cock feels and tastes like.
I don't seem to be able to find a safe means to make this happen. I need a stranger, but that brings the inherent risks, even with condoms, which I feel will cheat me of mart of the experience??

I'm in the same boat as you are...im young, soon to be single when I move and break up with my current GF, and am curious what it would be like to taste a big uncut cock. Not really interested in anything else.

I know some others in this thread said they are lookign for a relationship and are tired of those guys looking for one night stand in a bar blah blah. And thats cool, but I honestly want a little taste and thats it...just love pussy too much, but wonder what cock is like.

I would totally try a glory hole if A) the guy had a big uncut dick(I like this cuz mines cut and im curious) and B) if it were safer.

The anonymous factor is key for me, as I would freaking die if anyone ever found out.

Is this normal? Sorry to those who dislike this kind of thing, but I'm just too damn curious george!

 

[Etoile]

the guy had a big uncut dick(I like this cuz mines cut and im curious)

Thank you so much. I have often wondered why many men seem to be looking for uncut cocks. I know that circumcision is the norm in the U.S., so perhaps it's just curiosity about what one hasn't got.

 

[strictlyanon69]

Thank you so much. I have often wondered why many men seem to be looking for uncut cocks. I know that circumcision is the norm in the U.S., so perhaps it's just curiosity about what one hasn't got.

Thats exactly why for me, and im sure its why other guys say the same. Its that extra skin to slide up and down, and it looks good when that bright red/purple head pokes out the top. Ive never had any gay experience, and I just started posting here today, but I will admit im dying to play with one and see what it feels like in my mouth.

As a female what do you think of this fantasy etoile?

See my intro post here: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=358508

 

[Leolover711]

My wife has repeatedly told me that she fully expects me to cheat at some point--I am just a man after all. She has told me that if/when I do, she does not want to know about it and better not find out. She says that I will just have to live with the guilt. The only thing she insists on is that I use protection. She has also offered to do a 3 some with another woman if I want to. I am sure she expected me to want another woman. But I already have a really great woman. I don't need to be with another woman, or have sex with another woman. I have never had sex with a guy. As I get older, I wonder what it would feel like. I just have to try it. If my experience with another cock goes well, I may talk to her about getting another guy into our bed. The combinations would be SO hot.

If she will do a FFM then she most likely will do a MMF. You are so better off talking to her about this then sneaking and cheating. Living with a lie is like cancer, it grows and grows and slowly kills a part of you. No matter what her reaction, you'll live thorugh it. Living a lie is like dieng a little bit every day.

 

[Likku]

Hey harv,

I know right where you're coming from. I played around with dildos and broomsticks and cucumbers and anything I could find that resembled a cock for years before I had the opportunity to get the real thing. I was primed and ready for a real dick. I was burning with the need to suck cock and explore fucking and getting fucked. I was married the first time I had mm sex (and we had good sex too!). I'm still not into kissing a guy...just doesn't feel good and right to me.

I just stumbled on the opportunity one day when I ran into a friend of my brother who was gay. The vibe was hot between us and so was I. We just chatted for awhile first and got to know each other. The air was so electric with lust that it wasn't long before the topic of discussion turned to sex. He was out and open and patient and honest. I needed it so bad that it just happened. He was way experienced and slowly introduced me to the joy of mm sex.

It was so hot to actually have a real cock in front of me for me to play with and enjoy. After I sucked him off the first time I couldn't stop. He was smallish, about six inches. I drained the guy five or six times in one night. I learned to love the feeling of his cock pulsing and shooting cum and I couldn't wait for him to cum again. He was equally attentive to my cock and sucked me over and over again. We tried every position; taking turns in the superior and inferior places and 69ing. He fucked my mouth and I fucked his. It was heaven for sure.

The second day, after a big breakfast, he introduced me to anal sex. He wanted to feel my cock first. He knelt and lowered his shoulders and raised his ass to offer it to me. I lubed his ass with the KY he gave me and I slowly pushed my cock in his willing ass. I'd never had anything that tight surrounding my cock before. It wasn't long before I dumped my load in him. It was so hot I made him flex his ass and squeeze out my cum so I could see my jizz.

I collapsed in ecstasy and we talked softly for an hour or more. He praised my fucking and told me he wanted me the same way I had taken him. I recuperated quickly when he got down between my legs and started to suck me hard again while he fingered my ass. Slowly, he loosened me up with a little lube and finally got two fingers inside me.

When I was ready (I was eager to feel his cock inside me!), I did as he suggested and straddled him. I lowered my ass down on his cock slowly. It hurt a little at first but after I loosened up I began riding his dick. I controlled the pace, which soon picked up, and I was fucking myself on his stiff manmeat like crazy. When he told me he was ready to cum I slowed to a stop so that I could feel his cock pulse inside me.

We continued for the rest of the night, trying everything possible. It was a sweet introduction to mm sex. I hope you have an experience equally good but let me tell you a few things. It's really nice if the person you choose is aware of your naivete and is willing to spend a little time with you. I suggest you find someone who is either equally as inexperienced or who lets it be known that he knows how to deal with mm virgins.

A lot of guys are dogs...bottom line. Some want to go as soon as they cum. Casual sex is just that. No hanging around for a beer and cigarette afterward. No chat and "how are the kids?". Just cum and go. That's okay if that's all you want and it IS hot. I met some guys online once and had them lined up for blowjobs. Three guys came over to my house in one night just to get head. It was fucking hot just to be a slut for that one night.

Some just want oral. Some just want anal. Make sure you know just what you're getting into before you commit to sex...and make sure he's clean and d/d free and make sure it's safe. There are people who prey on the sexually curious. They are relatively rare but they do exist.

There are some who want to get to know you too. Not the huggy-squeezy weird gay mate sort of 'getting to know you' but just the 'who did I just suck off and did I like it enough to do it again?' kind of relationship. "Friends", if you will. If you are married (I play but have a straight gf), it's kind of reassuring that you are not having sex with an overexposed cock-slut. Chat for awhile with anybody you plan to meet. Get to know them a little first. Minimize any danger with knowledge.

Chat rooms are good. Make sure you chat with someone more than once or twice before you commit to a meeting. Married men are usually safe if they are not into that middle-aged all-out experimental phase that puts them at risk.

I personally don't like frequenting gay bars. There's a little 'too much' action going on there and I don't relate well. I don't want to adopt a lifestyle...I just want to get off with someone I get along with.

When you are ready it will happen. Have fun. Be careful.

 

[weathered2]

I told my spouse and she was very cool about it. She just assumed it was something I needed to work through, Karma of sorts, and was supportive, as long as I was careful. I was fortunate to have a lifelong monogamous friend, who, though straight, was generous enought to "help me out". We were still precautious. I can't get over how lucky I was. My point is, however, when I first approached my spouse, I had no idea what the reaction would be. I was prepared to say, "ok, forget that, bad idea" and finish this time around without that being sorted out. Somewhat to my surprise, she was supportive. Maybe it's worth broaching the subject. I can't know the personality your dealing with, but you might be surprised in a good way.