Etoile said:Wow - she expects you to cheat on her? That doesn't sound like a happy way to live.I admire that you don't want another woman because your wife is really great - I could see using that as a beginning to telling her about the desires. Then again, perhaps she would be distraught over the idea...even people who are open to the idea of bisexuality in general may have an entirely different response when it is their spouse.
Not necessarily. Some people do understand that others may or not have a hard time being monogamous. And in that, as long as they aren't told about it, or given the details. Life will go on. And probably very happily for them. They simply don't want to know.
I wouldn't call it an unhappy way to live. Just my opinion though.