Tight or Not Tight?

[daddysgirl83]

So this isn't really a BDSM question per se, but i decided to put it here because this is where i frequent and because it's part of my lifestyle - so why not get the advice from the people i am around most

my question is: in your experience, do bigger/heavier girls have tighter pussies? do they have tighter assholes? is there really even any difference at all? .... just curious what everyone has to say

 

[catalina_francisco]

Nope. It's all about the condition of the individual, and over the years, their desire to maintain that condition...a skinny one can be just as tight or loose as a plump one, sort of like when you see a slim/slender woman....doesn't mean that flesh is toned, and often isn't unfortunately, despite the push that slim is healthy in all ways.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Nope. It's all about the condition of the individual, and over the years, their desire to maintain that condition...

Speak for yourself, honey. I can crack walnuts with mine.

 

[Netzach]

Having like, 9 children or something might have more to do with it.

 

[YourCaptor]

So this isn't really a BDSM question per se, but i decided to put it here because this is where i frequent and because it's part of my lifestyle - so why not get the advice from the people i am around most

my question is: in your experience, do bigger/heavier girls have tighter pussies? do they have tighter assholes? is there really even any difference at all? .... just curious what everyone has to say

I don't know, but I am fairly certain kegels will factor in.

Having like, 9 children or something might have more to do with it.

I have read that you really don't get looser, but more inclined to loosen up.

 

[Chicklet]

Speak for yourself, honey. I can crack walnuts with mine.

I'd like to see that.

but as a random hijack, I think Catalina's "nope" was to 'does it make any difference'

 

[catalina_francisco]

Speak for yourself, honey. I can crack walnuts with mine.

Didn't say you couldn't, nor did I comment on whether I could or not, isn't relevant...point is, weight has no connection at all. I have been super slim and I have been overweight...never changed things in either area.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Having like, 9 children or something might have more to do with it.

Actually I don't really think it has to. The body is a wonderful thing...it is made to deal with certain things, and then there is the added knowledge we have now of including the correct exercise during and after pregnancy, and on a regular basis for life. Those exercises are not only for making women tighter for sex, they are for also helping in the prevention of incontinence problems unnecessarily, minute and larger, as life progresses...and that can befall women even if they haven't had children.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Didn't say you couldn't...point is, weight has no connection at all. I have been super slim and I have been overweight...never changed things in either area.

Catalina

Heh. Bad joke on my part.

I know men make this big deal out of how tight whatever hole they want to insert something in is. But, let's face it, the mouth, the pussy, and the ass all have varying degrees of tightness, and most men are able to orgasm in any of the three. That's not even mentioning things like handjobs, footjobs, and various other "stick my cock in this part and move it around" areas, like knees, elbows, and armpits. Weight, of course, has nothing to do with tightness, and tightness itself appears to be a lesser factor than most men make it out to be, hot-dog-down-hallway notwithstanding.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Heh. Bad joke on my part.

I know men make this big deal out of how tight whatever hole they want to insert something in is. But, let's face it, the mouth, the pussy, and the ass all have varying degrees of tightness, and most men are able to orgasm in any of the three. That's not even mentioning things like handjobs, footjobs, and various other "stick my cock in this part and move it around" areas, like knees, elbows, and armpits. Weight, of course, has nothing to do with tightness, and tightness itself appears to be a lesser factor than most men make it out to be, hot-dog-down-hallway notwithstanding.

LOL, no probs. Armpits and feet can be quite useful for the adventurous I have found...boobs too but you gotta watch for that spurt in the eye thing which can hurt in a not so good way.

Catalina

 

[twysted73]

Speak for yourself, honey. I can crack walnuts with mine.

I thought it was funny. *snicker*

You must be fun around christmas.

"Who needs that old nutcracker grandpa...look what she can do."

 

[Netzach]

Actually I don't really think it has to. The body is a wonderful thing...it is made to deal with certain things, and then there is the added knowledge we have now of including the correct exercise during and after pregnancy, and on a regular basis for life. Those exercises are not only for making women tighter for sex, they are for also helping in the prevention of incontinence problems unnecessarily, minute and larger, as life progresses...and that can befall women even if they haven't had children.

Catalina

I think having one to 3 kids or 4 is one thing if you do your kegels and all that.

I think it's another when you're popping 'em out in the high single and double digits, no? Not that I personally have stuck anything in anyone like that, the most kids in question was 3 and she was on the bell curve of pussy I've played with.


Armpits? Man, have you people had the tickle nerves removed? I wish I could do that, I can't even stand being sniffed.

 

[Ladythunder]

I agree that being overweight has nothing to do with it, I believe that urban legend came from something to do with the myth that fat chicks never get laid therefore the tissues tighten up due to lack of use or something equally as silly.

As for having kids, I had mine c-section but when I went in for a pap, my doctor asked me if I had kids and when I said yes, he told the nurse to get the bigger speculum (which sounded like he at least was saying that women who have given birth are looser but when I protested and told him the manner of birth he went back to the normal sized one (for which I was eternally grateful lol!)

so...I really don't know, but at least some members of the medical community seem to think so anyways.

I do agree that kiegels etc are a major benifit though.

 

[BiBunny]

Armpits? Man, have you people had the tickle nerves removed? I wish I could do that, I can't even stand being sniffed.

Me neither. I hear some folks can, but not me. I'm so painfully ticklish that I'd derail the moment for all but the most dedicated sadist. Squealers aren't sexy.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I've had thin lovers and thick lovers, those who were pre-children and those who had several. I had one who's pussy was so tight I literally could not get my cock in her, and she wasn't that big. I've had one (and only one so far) that I have successfully fisted and she wasn't that tiny.

It all depends on the woman and how she's put together and how much she can relax and enjoy the ride.

 

[Marquis]

In my experience the amount of adipose tissue on the female does not affect the tightness, but fatties do tend to give good head.

 

[alexanna]

Actually I don't really think it has to. The body is a wonderful thing...it is made to deal with certain things, and then there is the added knowledge we have now of including the correct exercise during and after pregnancy, and on a regular basis for life. Those exercises are not only for making women tighter for sex, they are for also helping in the prevention of incontinence problems unnecessarily, minute and larger, as life progresses...and that can befall women even if they haven't had children.

Catalina

Sorry but simply not true. i have done kegels since i found out what they were as a teenager and still prolapsed, both anterior and posterior, when i gave birth to my 3rd child and no amount of kegels fixed it, believe me i did them CONSTANTLY simply in an effort keep from turning inside out. Hormone levels have more or at least as much to do with it as exercise.

I will concede it was not just having the babies that caused my problems but having the babies in conjunction with hormone imbalance but whacked out hormones aren't all that uncommon. I was perfectly fine after baby number 2 and all through the pregancy of number 3, the birth itself did it. If you have a prolapse and search the internet you can find post after post of women with similar problems, it is not a problem women frequently talk about even with each other. It is very embarrassing to have to put your fingers into your vagina to support your rectum in order to have a bowel movement. i never had the incontinence thing.

 

[alexanna]

I think it's another when you're popping 'em out in the high single and double digits, no? Not that I personally have stuck anything in anyone like that, the most kids in question was 3 and she was on the bell curve of pussy I've played with.

Interestingly when i was researching this prior to my hysterectomy and vaginal repair the magic number seemed to be 3. i could not believe the number of women who seemed to be fine after 2 and then fell apart on the 3rd. i'm thinking it could be age has something to do with it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sorry but simply not true. i have done kegels since i found out what they were as a teenager and still prolapsed, both anterior and posterior, when i gave birth to my 3rd child and no amount of kegels fixed it, believe me i did them CONSTANTLY simply in an effort keep from turning inside out. Hormone levels have more or at least as much to do with it as exercise.

Hence I didn't make a blanket statement and say it was the magic cure, only that is can and could help prevent such things thinking people would understand that didn't mean it saved everyone. One of my friends had 4 children and had prolapse and she too had been given the exercises and not had it work. They said part of the problem was the huge weight she had gained on top of already being a big girl.

The incontinence thing is often about having a small leak when you sneeze, cough etc. For that, kegels seems to be one of the preferred treatments before considering surgery or resigning themselves to a worsening condition.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think having one to 3 kids or 4 is one thing if you do your kegels and all that.

I think it's another when you're popping 'em out in the high single and double digits, no?

I think it is once again, an individual thing. We all have bodies, manyof us with pretty much the same equipment, but that is where the consistency ends and uniqueness begins.

Armpits? Man, have you people had the tickle nerves removed? I wish I could do that, I can't even stand being sniffed.

LOL, tickle with fingers and I can go crazy, though I am managing to use mind control to handle that. A bit of lube and armpit sex can be a fun thing to do when looking for a little variety and stupidness.....thighs are also good....butt cheeks (better for smaller appendages). All fun with the right person.

Catalina

 

[alexanna]

Hence I didn't make a blanket statement and say it was the magic cure, only that is can and could help prevent such things thinking people would understand that didn't mean it saved everyone. One of my friends had 4 children and had prolapse and she too had been given the exercises and not had it work. They said part of the problem was the huge weight she had gained on top of already being a big girl.

The incontinence thing is often about having a small leak when you sneeze, cough etc. For that, kegels seems to be one of the preferred treatments before considering surgery or resigning themselves to a worsening condition.

Catalina

Sorry, i had sort of a knee jerk reaction there and did not read carefully. That prolapse thing bites and even though mine's fixed now i still get a little sensitive about it. It was so very strange how it affected my self esteem. i get pretty defensive about it because there are a lot of people that try to say kegels prevent\fix everything like its your fault your plumbing is falling out. In my case it was probably premature menopause but i did not know that until the Doctor said my tissue looked post menopausal when he did my hysterectomy which was just 3 months after giving birth to child number 4 Our fourth was not planned and probably a premature menopause baby as i am only 34.

 

[Etoile]

I think it's another when you're popping 'em out in the high single and double digits, no?

Let's ask Mrs. Duggar, who is working on #18.

 

[daddysgirl83]

In my experience the amount of adipose tissue on the female does not affect the tightness, but fatties do tend to give good head.

lol, and why is that??

 

[Breaker_Morant]

Speak for yourself, honey. I can crack walnuts with mine.

 

[Desdemona]

Lol

Let's ask Mrs. Duggar, who is working on #18.

I was just thinking about her as I read this thread.