Threesome Trouble

[Teddybear1626]

Ok my bestfriend and me and her boyfriend recently all hooked up for alittle fun. it was wonderful but i ended up being with her all nite and not getting any fucking action from the man becuase she is to protective of him. She got pissed when i touched his dick. Me and him are sorta sneaking behind her back anyway and it made it so hard not to touch him like i wanted to. so does anyone have any ideas on how i can tell her to let both of us enjoy him openly so we don't have to hide it anymore?

 

[MR.GGG]

Sounds like you have an EX friend.

Who's idea was it to get together for a little fun? It doesn't sound like she was was a very willing participant if she wouldn't let you touch him. Wasn't that the object of the threesome?

Anyway, if you are sneakin around behind her back the question, I think, is moot. What kind of "relationship" do you think you can have with either of them now - providing he even stays with her. If you get him do you think she's going to call you a friend still?

Just remember what goes around, cums around. Don't get too upset when some girl"friend" snatches your man in the future.

My 2¢.

 

[dreamer]

Nicely said...REALLY nicely said..I think I would've been a bit more harsh.


Bestfriend my ass!! Try a teeny bit of honesty and integrity...grow up and come back when you're ready to have a mature relationship. Sheesh, am I feeding the trolls??

 

[ClubIrish]

I totally agree, you are not much of a friend if this is what you are doing. You should talk about it before everyone gets hurt and there can be no possibility of friendship.

 

[Guest]

I'd hate to say it, but I agree with the other posters here. I'm guessing that you and your "friend" are bi since you were "with her all nite" and were "not getting any fucking action from the man"?

Perhaps this "friend" knows something is up between you and her man?

Will we see you three on Springer soon?

 

[digdat]

Seems that your friend is protective of her man for a reason. I'd say that he has likely cheated on her before and can't be trusted. This is shown in the fact that you and he are sneaking around, behind her back.

But maybe, she was more into YOU than she was into the 3some with the man present. Its possible that she wanted to explore options with you in a WW situation than including her BF in the mix. Have you two ever been intimate alone without a man present?

Also sounds like you need your own boyfriend, if you are needing to get screwed that much. Don't use someone elses BF as that person. Find your own and you will be much happier, trust me on that. Otherwise, your gonna end up with a proven cheater and an EX-friend.

 

[msbuzzy]

I would have to agree with the person who suggested that your friend was more into you than you being with her boyfriend.

Not to mention friends don't sleep around with their friend's man.

He could just as easily turn around and cheat on you the same way he did to her? Is it worth losing your friendship over? If so, then you werent that good of friends to begin with.

Men will come and go in your life, but good friends are hard to find.

 

[Guest]

Men will come and go in your life, but good friends are hard to find.

Amen.

 

[bunny bondage]

once again, i seem to be a little late and therefore only capable of redundancy. so, um, yeah, what everyone else said. it sounds to me like all three of you shouldn't be with eachother. neither you nor the guy can be trusted by this girl. maybe if you come clean immediatly the friendship can be saved, but frankly, i doubt it. sorry

 

[ApplesMcgee]

outside view

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[Monazwx]

The threesome is not the problem here.
You need to be honest, it you really care about saving your relationship with your friend.

 

[SXCRgirl]

The concept of a threesome is thrilling. However, I don't think I would ever engage in it. Why? Because you're bringing another factor in your intimate life that doesn't need to be there. Another person brings about problems that you cannot anticipate, it breaches trust AND ultimately will erode that special relationship you have with your partner. You can use the threesome concept as part of your fantasy life, to add spice to your relationship and to keep the juices flowing.

The reality of a threesome does not equal the fantasy as you're experiencing now. If you really are a good friend, then getting involved with your so-called best friend's man wouldn't even enter your mind, regardless of what happened in the bedroom. Even though you may be able to salvage your relationship with her, it will never be the same. When you three decided to have a threesome, she didn't allow you to 'touch' her man, those were HER limitations on what should go on. You didn't respect that by secretly having sex with her BF without her. Now you want her to be open to sharing HIM?!? Put yourself in HER shoes and tell me what needs to happen in order for you to trust her completely again.

You say the woman is your best friend. This means that she knows you better than most. I'm pretty sure she's already suspecting that SOMETHING is going on with you that you're not willing to share. When she finds out and she will, she will be angry, but certainly not surprised. You and her BF are so unworthy of her trust and her friendship. You ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

I agree with whoever said that 'men will come and go in your life but good friends are hard to find.'

 

[Teddybear1626]

me and him got involved before i became friends with her. I started becoming her friend to get closer to him but then i actually started to like her and i told him i couldn't do have a fling w/ him anymore and we became really good friends and then this happened. She is really over proctive of her because they have a baby together and doesn't know what she would do if they broke up and she didn't have him around. That is why not becuase he cheated on her, she knows nothing about us and what happened.

 

[Guest]

So, you used a woman to get closer to her man and you wonder why she is insecure since she is the mother of his child?

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

This whole situation just sounds MESSY!

Threesomes bring a lot of issues into a relationship. It takes a very secure couple to welcome a thrid party into the most intimate part of the relationship. Insecurities and jealousy can all shine right through during something like this....From what it sounds like, she just isn't comfortable with the whole threesome idea. The reality is, she may never be.

I am not going to waste my time bringing up any of the other issues floating around this situation...something tells me..it isn't worth it....

 

[ClubIrish]

Get Out

This is just a bad situation waiting to get worse. Respect the fact that there is a child involved and be an adult. Let them be and move on.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

Re: Get Out

This is just a bad situation waiting to get worse. Respect the fact that there is a child involved and be an adult. Let them be and move on.

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Guest]

Its happend to me

My "friend" stated hoking up with me boyfriend when i sent him to her house to cumfit her, cause she just boke up with her boyfriend and I couldnt be there for her cause I had to go to a ball. but strat after I went to her house and found hickys on his neak. I wasnt shure if I gave them to him or not so I let it pass. Later in the night after I had a bit to drink they both came up to me and asked for a 3 sum. I knew my botfriend realy realy realy wanted one and my "friend" was resnably atractive so I said alright evan though I didnt want to. It ended after I couldnt take it with her toching his dick and him saying it was the best bj he ever had (afterwids I made shure it wasnt) and he keeped wanting me to toch her but it just didnt fell comterfull cause she's a friend, you know what i mean?
In the end I stayed with my b/f, my "friend" told every one trying to look like the inacint one, when she came on to him while I was at the ball- but she lost all her friends and has gotten obbest and dosnt leave the house. I tryed talking to her - work things out but she allways cuts me off.