Threesome - finding the third.

[casper3110]

I am interested in having a threesome with a gentleman friend of mine and another female. What is the best way to go about finding the other female. I don't have any friend that I would invite. There doesn't seem to be anyway to meet that person. What would you suggest I do? I have gotten responses from men who are interested, but my gentleman friend isn't interested in that.

 

[sport]

You may try putting an ad on sexyads.net its free and you can also go in chat and try to find someone. I hope this helped you with your problem.

 

[sabbathstorm]

I don't mean to discourage you in any way, but as a couple, we have had a horrible time finding a woman to be involved in a threesome. I also have no friends who would be interested in being involved in a threesome. Most of them don't even know that I'm bi-curious.

We've tried Adult Friend Finder and have had more responses from men than anything else. We both got really fed up with looking and have almost given up on finding someone. I do hope that your search goes much better than our own!

 

[DartmouthCouple]

We are lucky in that we have some friends who are very open minded and enjoy being involved in threesomes with my husband and myself. We've also met people online through some adult sites and chat channels.

 

[casper3110]

Thanks for the help

I am hoping that one of the ideas work. If it does, look for a thread on one of the other boards. I will be hopefully celebrating since this will be my first experience with a threesome.

I had so many men respond the last time I put an ad up. I hope that one more try will be the winning one.

 

[Subdude]

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It's been a while, but I think I remember a few women here complaining that they want to be involved in the type of situation you're contemplating & couldn't hook up. Maybe you should be more visable in a couple of the boards at Lit, asking for advise as you did here & do a personals ad too. Meanwhile, I just bumped your question by responding now.

 

[SexyChele]

I would recommend Sexyads.net over Adult Friend Finder. Though, AFF does have a fairly active bi-fem chat room you might want to look at. (You do have to be a member, but it's free) Normally, there are women in there all the time looking to hook up.

The only problem is, trying to find a woman who wants to be part of a 3some. I've been approached numerous times by couples looking for a 3rd, and have always turned them down. While I like the idea and am not adverse to it, all the dynamics would have to be in place. Jealousy can rear its ugly head very quickly - especially with women who are emotionally involved with the man and have never experienced a FFM before. If your "gentleman friend" is only a friend, and nothing more, it will be easier for you.

Meanwhile, I would try placing an ad at both sites, then go to the chat room at AFF, but the bi-fem room only. But remember, alot of these gals are lesbians and may not be interested at all.

Good luck, what you are trying to put together is not as easy as it seems!

 

[sport]

ffm

Wife is on sexyads.net and she loves to chat on it. You need to place an ad then get in the chat rm and let people know what you are looking for. I know my wife is thinking about ffm she never thought about it before. Wifes nick is hottotalk, chat with her she knows alot of the regulars on it