I have been married for 5 years and recently had sex with my hubby and one of his friends, a great time was has by all and we fulfilled a fantasy, my question is does having this kind of sex hurt a marriage later in life or help? We are both talking about doing it again and trying other fantasies we both have.
Three some sex.
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freakygirl
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Karen32 said:
I personaly couldn't do that with my current SO. He isn't keen to the idea. My ex lovers.. were very open to it. Hell they introduced me to it.
So.. if you both can handle it. And it doesn't go beyond you two doing it. Then by all means, do it. If you or him are not comfortable with it, don't do it.
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Hi Karen and welcome to the board.
Swinging, in all of it's incarnations, has been discussed here many times, with people from both sides of the camp weighing in with their opinions. Some for, some against, some who don't know.
I think the question really is if it will work for you and your marriage, and that's something only you and your husband can decide.
If you haven't already, you should talk about what happened and everything that come up for each of you emotionally. Really ask yourselves if you enjoyed it, all of it.
If you decide to do it again, come to an agreement beforehand about the ground rules, i.e., always wearing condoms, etc.
It opened up the lines of communication between my husband and I, as well as creating more intimacy, physically and emotionally, between us.
Good luck.
Swinging, in all of it's incarnations, has been discussed here many times, with people from both sides of the camp weighing in with their opinions. Some for, some against, some who don't know.
I think the question really is if it will work for you and your marriage, and that's something only you and your husband can decide.
If you haven't already, you should talk about what happened and everything that come up for each of you emotionally. Really ask yourselves if you enjoyed it, all of it.
If you decide to do it again, come to an agreement beforehand about the ground rules, i.e., always wearing condoms, etc.
It opened up the lines of communication between my husband and I, as well as creating more intimacy, physically and emotionally, between us.
Good luck.
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Rubyfruit said:
Does Ruby's brain turn anyone else on?
She has a way with words, doesn't she? I tried saying this.. it sounds so much better coming from her.
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My xwife and I did the 3some thing hot sex .....cant say it helped the marriage though, but really cant say it hurt either..Seems to me looking back, it was just a diversion for other things going on in the relationship that werent being addressed. But doing it with one of my friends .....WOW no way in hell!......to close to home for that shit
