Thoughts of another man

[LittleBuzzed]

I find myself being obsessed with the thought of another man. I'm not sure the extent of how far I could go emotionally, but sexually, the thought of another man sexually has haunted my thoughts for years. I have never had an opportunity, nor have I really sought out an opportunity. My wife and I have talked on this subject for years but never more than talk. Is there anyone with experience who can provide insight and/or experiences.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Welcome! And you're clearly not alone... Keep browsing the forum and you'll find no shortage of stories and experiences from guys just like you. My urges were quite "obsessive" as you mentioned about yourself, but I had an opportunity to act early with my like-minded best friend. I still prefer to date women from an emotional standpoint, but my attraction to men is so strong that I've been openly bisexual for nearly 20 years now. It's good you're speaking with your wife about it, so hopefully she will help you when it comes to her boundaries should you consider exploring your feelings.

 

[nostuff]

If you really want a man, then find a man.

I know, it’s easier said than done. But if your wife has already agreed, you have a huge advantage. No need to keep secrets.

Of course, you still have to overcome those years of identifying as straight, and that can be difficult. At least, it was for me. I struggled a long time before I could expose myself to a man, both figuratively and literally. I finally had to just will myself to act, to overcome my fears. Several times that night, I told myself, “Just do it.”

Before I called the Lyft to take me from my hotel, I told myself, Just do it.

When the car arrived at the bathhouse, I told myself, Just do it.

When I walked through the bathhouse door, I told myself, Just do it.

When it was time to strip down, I told myself, Just do it.

When the man sat down beside me, I told myself, Just do it.

At every step, I was full of doubt. Each time, I told myself, Just do it.

And the moment I felt my man’s cock slide into my mouth, I knew the effort was worth it. The feeling, the taste, the joy of my first cock. It’s an experience I’ll never forget, a pleasure I will repeat as many times as possible.

I hope you can do so, too.