This is what happens when you lead separate lives....

[warrior queen]

My man and I have fairly separate lives - he has his friends, I have my friends, and we share a few in the middle.
He has his nights out with his mates, I do my own thing with my friends, and we have a fair number of people we spend time with jointly.

This morning, I found out that a very good friend of his passed away Christmas morning. Took them a while to get in touch with me, as no-one had my number.

There is no way for me to let him know about this before Monday. Currently, he's 100 nm offshore, and the company office is closed for the weekend.

Looks like I will be going to the funeral Monday (I knew the guy, but not as close as my man), because even if I could get in touch, it takes 3 days travel to get back from the remote region he's working at.

It's a shit of a situation

 

[RoryN]

It's a shit of a situation

Figures. You're a shit of a woman.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I HATE going to funerals.

 

[warrior queen]

I HATE going to funerals.

I hear you
And every year, there's more and more.....

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I hear you
And every year, there's more and more.....

true, the last funeral i went to was 5yrs ago when i lost my grandmother(my mother's mom)

 

[LiveInHD]

 

[warrior queen]

true, the last funeral i went to was 5yrs ago when i lost my grandmother(my mother's mom)

This will be the 16th this year for me.
Granted, I wasn't as close to this guy as my man was..... but he was only 53.
Very sad.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

This will be the 16th this year for me.
Granted, I wasn't as close to this guy as my man was..... but he was only 53.
Very sad.

damn, 16 in one yr... sheeiiiiiit, how can you do it?

 

[warrior queen]

damn, 16 in one yr... sheeiiiiiit, how can you do it?

This is the most so far.
Two babies, 5 in their 30's, and the rest in their 50's and older.
It's not the babies or the older ones that get you...... it's knowing an otherwise perfectly healthy person in their 30's died from a brain aneurism..... their whole life ahead yet, leaving young kids behind....
Those tear out a tiny bit when they happen

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

it's knowing an otherwise perfectly healthy person in their 30's died from a brain aneurism.....

wow.. that's fucked up

 

[Disgustipated]

I've been to 17 funerals this year. Mostly babies I had aborted. I win.

 

[warrior queen]

I've been to 17 funerals this year. Mostly babies I had aborted. I win.

How incredibly stupid is this post?
Funerals are not a fucking contest

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

I've been to 17 funerals this year. Mostly babies I had aborted. I win.

*shakeshead*

 

[RoryN]

How incredibly stupid is this post?
Funerals are not a fucking contest

No, they aren't...


...


...yet.

*RoryN contemplates new 2013 thread*

 

[Disgustipated]

How incredibly stupid is this post?
Funerals are not a fucking contest

Not a fucking contest? Do you know how many grieving mothers and widows I've fucked at funerals? They're better than weddings!

 

[warrior queen]

Just so you know rory, I have you on iggy and I refuse to click the view post button.
No point posting in my threads.

 

[warrior queen]

Not a fucking contest? Do you know how many grieving mothers and widows I've fucked at funerals? They're better than weddings!

And because of this post, I am putting you on iggy as well.
Asshole

 

[RoryN]

Just so you know rory, I have you on iggy and I refuse to click the view post button.
No point posting in my threads.

Now that you've said "no point posting in my threads", I'll post in every one of your threads.

Thanks for the heads-up.

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

How incredibly stupid is this post?
Funerals are not a fucking contest

my words exactly..

 

[bra_man69]

My man and I have fairly separate lives - he has his friends, I have my friends, and we share a few in the middle.
He has his nights out with his mates, I do my own thing with my friends, and we have a fair number of people we spend time with jointly.

This morning, I found out that a very good friend of his passed away Christmas morning. Took them a while to get in touch with me, as no-one had my number.

There is no way for me to let him know about this before Monday. Currently, he's 100 nm offshore, and the company office is closed for the weekend.

Looks like I will be going to the funeral Monday (I knew the guy, but not as close as my man), because even if I could get in touch, it takes 3 days travel to get back from the remote region he's working at.

It's a shit of a situation

attention whore who's going to die next

I'll take brother in law for 500 if I know what the odds are first.

 

[Disgustipated]

Now that you've said "no point posting in my threads", I'll post in every one of your threads.

Thanks for the heads-up.

w3Rd.

 

[Aquagal]

The ship doesn't have a satellite phone?

 

[bra_man69]

The ship doesn't have a satellite phone?

She didn't think that part of the lie out.

 

[Tryharder62]

That is a tough situation. I feel bad for your husband as he probably will wish he could have paid his respect. I'll be thinking of you both.

 

[phrodeau]

My man and I have fairly separate lives - he has his friends, I have my friends, and we share a few in the middle.
He has his nights out with his mates, I do my own thing with my friends, and we have a fair number of people we spend time with jointly.

This morning, I found out that a very good friend of his passed away Christmas morning. Took them a while to get in touch with me, as no-one had my number.

There is no way for me to let him know about this before Monday. Currently, he's 100 nm offshore, and the company office is closed for the weekend.

Looks like I will be going to the funeral Monday (I knew the guy, but not as close as my man), because even if I could get in touch, it takes 3 days travel to get back from the remote region he's working at.

It's a shit of a situation

There's no way to reach him or anybody that he's with? Radio? Cellphone? Semaphore?