this is soooo high school...

Katarinna

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i need ideas for a perfect first date. (God, i hope it includes sex and lots of it but we don't want to scare him away right off the bat! men can be so sensitive these days.... ) yes, it's a very bubble gum question, but it's 3:45 on thursday afternoon, what else do you have to do?

thanks. :kiss:

kat
 
Are you asking for ideas in places to go? What to wear? To say?





btw if you really like this guy and you'd like to have more than just a playmate.. might I suggest not giving it up on the first date. :)
 
Katarinna said:
i need ideas for a perfect first date. (God, i hope it includes sex and lots of it but we don't want to scare him away right off the bat!


Who is we...?
 
I'm pretty sure it is the royal we, gunner.

Kat, you're endlessly cute.

Perfect first date... well. we want to keep it low-key but with the possibility to develop into something hot. I'm seeing coffee in a non-Starbucks setting, or something cute, like an activity so you two have something to talk about.

I've had good luck with those painting pottery places. You can accidentally on purpose flirt and touch hands etc...

hm. you know what, I can't think of anything at the moment. When I do, I'll post again.
 
hmm....

kitty, a playmate might not be a bad thing.... :devil: but since the majority of people in the world today are of a civilized culture, a little social interaction before carnal pleasure is probably expected. so, yes, ideas on where to go, etc. are appreciated. y'all have to remember, i'm the one who suddenly found herself single after 23 years of being married to Mr. Wonderful so i feel like a shy 10th grader but with the libido of a 41 year old divorcee. how scary is that? poor guy.

thanks y'all.

kat
 
Re: hmm....

Katarinna said:
kitty, a playmate might not be a bad thing.... :devil: but since the majority of people in the world today are of a civilized culture, a little social interaction before carnal pleasure is probably expected. so, yes, ideas on where to go, etc. are appreciated. y'all have to remember, i'm the one who suddenly found herself single after 23 years of being married to Mr. Wonderful so i feel like a shy 10th grader but with the libido of a 41 year old divorcee. how scary is that? poor guy.

thanks y'all.

kat

41 years old??!! Oh for pete sake!! it doesn't matter where yall go! You just look him in the eye and TELL him he WILL be getting Fucked TONIGHT!!! us older guys would be happy to be told. it takes all the guess work and pressure off us you see?
 
Re: hmm....

Katarinna said:
kitty, a playmate might not be a bad thing.... :devil: but since the majority of people in the world today are of a civilized culture, a little social interaction before carnal pleasure is probably expected. so, yes, ideas on where to go, etc. are appreciated. y'all have to remember, i'm the one who suddenly found herself single after 23 years of being married to Mr. Wonderful so i feel like a shy 10th grader but with the libido of a 41 year old divorcee. how scary is that? poor guy.

thanks y'all.

kat

Believe me babe I understand. ;-)


But there's a bit of a curse on a relationship when you have a go the first night. Besides it can be so much fun to be a bit elusive and unnatainable for a bit.

Movies and dinner are always great choices.
 
Lemme get this straight: you're 41 years old and you're going out with a 10th-grade high school kid?
 
Hamletmaschine said:
Lemme get this straight: you're 41 years old and you're going out with a 10th-grade high school kid?

no, she said she FELT like a 10th grader :) I had to re-read that one too myself :)
 
sigh....

kitty, you're right. (dammit.) okay, i'll be nice and restrain myself. well, not restrain... i won't pull the handcuffs out on the first or maybe even second date.... oh, you know what i mean. :)

huskie, that's nice to know and i'll keep that in mind. now, where do you live? lol. :kiss:

y'all know.... if i had found this board a long time ago and realized i was normal (contrary to what the hub said) i might would have dumped HIS repressed ass a long time ago.

thanks for everyone's indulgence and patience.

kat
 
have a malibu grand prix? or a theme park around? IU always love exciting and thrilling things for a date (not that I have been on that many but still..) Fun and Exciting is the key.
 
hamlet..... while i have seen some tenth graders that i thought had potential i can still spell J-A-I-L B-A-I-T. good lord, that would be too much like those teachers getting it on with those sixth grade boys.... how do they find that teenie weenie? sorry, my dirty mind seems to want to take over the keyboard.

kat
 
Katarinna said:
hamlet..... while i have seen some tenth graders that i thought had potential i can still spell J-A-I-L B-A-I-T. good lord, that would be too much like those teachers getting it on with those sixth grade boys.... how do they find that teenie weenie? sorry, my dirty mind seems to want to take over the keyboard.

kat

Oh bull shit Kat!!! We all know, If you had have half a chance you'd bang one of them poor 15 yr old boys to death and you know it!!!!
 
Yeah, that's a little too young even for me. I don't think I've fucked a 10th grader since I was a 12th grader.
 
Re: sigh....

Katarinna said:

huskie, that's nice to know and i'll keep that in mind. now, where do you live? lol. :kiss:


Hey HEY!! That's MY lover..I'm mean brother you're talking too!!


Just teasing you! Good luck and above all HAVE FUN!!
 
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LadyGuinivere said:
Hey HEY!! That's MY lover..I'm mean brother you're talking too!!


Just teasing you! Good luck and above all HAVE FUN!!

Brother, lover oh hell same thang!!!

Oh I just love sex in the south :D
 
Redneck. (Not that there's anything wrong with that :D :D )

**Hugs** You're a good "allarounder"
 
shhh....

huskie, now, i'm trying to be good..... i'm looking for nice places to go on a first date for crying out loud.... with a grown man i might add. (ok, so he is younger than me, but not that young.) now, say something nice.

to all of you who have responded with great suggestions, thanks. i really do appreciate it. these are tough waters to navigate.

huskie, be nice. :)

kat
 
it's a southern thang.....

you know the hottest debated question in my neck of the woods?

if a man and woman get divorced here, are they still cousins?


i really do live in southern redneck hee haw hell.

sorry, lady guinivere, for trespassing on yer lover/brother. :)



kat
 
Huskie is always nice. I'll give him references ;) ;)

How about a nice dinner or dessert and then go for the sex?
 
Re: it's a southern thang.....

Katarinna said:
you know the hottest debated question in my neck of the woods?

if a man and woman get divorced here, are they still cousins?


i really do live in southern redneck hee haw hell.

sorry, lady guinivere, for trespassing on yer lover/brother. :)



kat

LOL!! It's okay, I'll share him but only once or twice!!


:D
 
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