Things that we are conditioned to think are sexy that really aren’t

[EmilyMiller]

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So top of my list, DPs. Obviously this is a go to scenario for porn vids. I’ve tried and found it awkward and unsatisfying in equal measure for all involved. You’d think it would be amazing, but not in my experience. Maybe we were doing it wrong,

Anyone else have the same (or a contrary) experience with DP, or alternatively some other sexual activity you thought would be really hot, but didn’t turn out to be,

Em

 

[jaF0]

Bodily fluids of any kind.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Bodily fluids of any kind.

I like them (maybe not blood so much). Bodily solids however? Ugh!

Em

 

[Goldenfinger]

Threesomes. I’ve been apart of three. The first one was very exciting too exciting (only a threesome for a couple minutes). The second one wasn’t good cause some one gets left out. The third really never happened cause partner A hit partner B when partner B tried to touch partner ME.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Bodily fluids of any kind.

How does that work. Cum, hers and yours is a bodily fluid. It would not be fun without ‘em.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Threesomes. I’ve been apart of three. The first one was very exciting too exciting. The second one wasn’t good cause some one gets left out. The third really never happened cause partner A hit partner B when partner B tried to touch partner ME.

It very much depends what the different parties want to get out of it and whether or not that is complementary. I’ve never done a threesome with a couple, but would imagine that to be a minefield

Em

 

[jaF0]

As long as they're where they're supposed to be and doing what they're supposed to do.

But some people get carried away.

 

[EmilyMiller]

But some people get carried away.

Cum poisoning is a silent epidemic in our midst.

Em

 

[Bad_daddy66]

DP, anal, swallowing: My first thought to all of these is, "How did men ever convince women to do these often painful and potentially unpleasant things." Hearing a woman say "Spitters are quitters" would be funny if it wasn't so tragic, to misquote Stephen Hawking. Any women who genuinely enjoy doing these things can rest assured I'm not talking about them.

 

[twister947]

I've done threesomes and found them distracting. I'm a one-on-one kind of guy.

 

[twister947]

Oh, and I don't find spraying cum all over a woman sexy in the least.

 

[WerdNerd]

I like them (maybe not blood so much). Bodily solids however? Ugh!

Em

I've never heard them called "bodily solids." That's so fucking hilarious.

 

[RachelWalsh]

That big bloody hunk of meat in our chests ❤ isn't really so attractive tbh. Lol

 

[masterslave00]

69 is overrated. Particularly we, men, are not good at multi-tasking, so 69 is not what it seems... I rather deliver oral or receive oral than having half of both...

 

[haventdonethat]

So top of my list, DPs. Obviously this is a go to scenario for porn vids. I’ve tried and found it awkward and unsatisfying in equal measure for all involved. You’d think it would be amazing, but not in my experience. Maybe we were doing it wrong,

Anyone else have the same (or a contrary) experience with DP, or alternatively some other sexual activity you thought would be really hot, but didn’t turn out to be,

Em

Loved DP, wife loved DP and our friend loved DP. But all the DP's were double vaginal penetration.
Try it, you'll love it!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Threesomes. I’ve been apart of three. The first one was very exciting too exciting (only a threesome for a couple minutes). The second one wasn’t good cause some one gets left out. The third really never happened cause partner A hit partner B when partner B tried to touch partner ME.

I’ve been part of 2 threesomes and both were a lot of fun, but ultimately I really do prefer one on one. The first was a one night stand deal with my then BFF (we are still friends) and a guy we picked up while on vacation. The other was with my then BF and a mutual friend. I’m glad to have been part of both and had the experience, but I also have no plans to ever do this again.

I've done threesomes and found them distracting. I'm a one-on-one kind of guy.

Exactly. It is very distracting!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

DP, anal, swallowing: My first thought to all of these is, "How did men ever convince women to do these often painful and potentially unpleasant things." Hearing a woman say "Spitters are quitters" would be funny if it wasn't so tragic, to misquote Stephen Hawking. Any women who genuinely enjoy doing these things can rest assured I'm not talking about them.

DP is my absolute go to porn, but yeah I don’t know about RL and also sure I’m never going to experience it. But…I’m down for anal (I had the BEST introduction to anal from one of the most amazing Litizens ) and I always swallow every drop.

69 is overrated. Particularly we, men, are not good at multi-tasking, so 69 is not what it seems... I rather deliver oral or receive oral than having half of both...

100% this. I hate 69.

 

[Trubbycat]

69 is overrated. Particularly we, men, are not good at multi-tasking, so 69 is not what it seems... I rather deliver oral or receive oral than having half of both...

I only 69ed once or twice with my wife. The problem was the sensations of her sucking my cock were so powerful I could barely concentrate on eating her. She replied that my eating felt so good she couldn't concentrate on blowing me! So not quite overrated but definitely not what we expected.

 

[twister947]

Porn is entertainment, not to be confused with real life.

 

[Trubbycat]

Porn is entertainment, not to be confused with real life.

True. I enjoy porn but would never ask my wife to recreate something from it.

 

[Differentendeavours]

69 is overrated. Particularly we, men, are not good at multi-tasking, so 69 is not what it seems... I rather deliver oral or receive oral than having half of both...

69 seems great in theory but it is most certainly not.

 

[ericrodman101]

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So top of my list, DPs. Obviously this is a go to scenario for porn vids. I’ve tried and found it awkward and unsatisfying in equal measure for all involved. You’d think it would be amazing, but not in my experience. Maybe we were doing it wrong,

Anyone else have the same (or a contrary) experience with DP, or alternatively some other sexual activity you thought would be really hot, but didn’t turn out to be,

Em

I think you’re probably right. As a gay man, if I’m to enjoy straight porn it’s got to be DP, but even the fabulous Riley Reid looks to be making heavy weather or this. Ditto for gay porn where DP is even more intrusive. Anal is not even my preferred twosome action. I’ve tried DP, giving and receiving, once each and giving I only recall being drunk and our poor victim yelling his head off. Receiving I don’t even remember but I know I was high and the aftermath was not good.

 

[PapaRomantic]

I can think of a few things the porn industry shoves down our throat that I don't want any part of. I don't get the facials scene. I think probably some women might want it, but it doesn't do anything for me personally. And I'd be afraid to have sex with a woman who wore her stiletto heels to the bed. I'd be afraid of getting stabbed.

 

[Trubbycat]

I can think of a few things the porn industry shoves down our throat that I don't want any part of. I don't get the facials scene. I think probably some women might want it, but it doesn't do anything for me personally. And I'd be afraid to have sex with a woman who wore her stiletto heels to the bed. I'd be afraid of getting stabbed.

Love the heels!

 

[policywank]

A dick in every hole and one in each hand. Too many things to focus on.

Some guy taking turns on two chicks, putting his dick in one for a few strokes then the other. If he could please one of those chicks he'd be doing well but pretending that they are loving it then begging him to come back is adolescent delusion.