Things I wish I'd known when I started having sex

[KokopelliRises]

This list could become very long... I think we all have things we've learned over the years that would have made those years more enjoyable if we'd known the facts in advance. But hey, learning is the fun part.

Some things I wish I'd known when I started having sex:

1. Masturbation. I didn't learn how to masturbate until the latter half of my first sexual relationship. Maybe I wouldn't have put up with inadequacies in the relationship if I'd known there was something else.

2. Oral sex can be fun in the right situation, especially with someone who is good at it, or makes up for a lack of skill with incredible enthusiasm and a willingness to learn.

3. My pussy is pretty. It has taken me a while to figure this out, but right now, I love it.

4. Kissing is underrated. It can be enjoyable in and of itself, especially when practiced with an enthusiastic partner.

5. Not to put up with something that's boring or unoriginal. If something isn't satisfying me in any way it is my prerogative to get out or change that something. I don't have to put up with less than complete satisfaction.

Anybody else have anything they wish they'd known?

 

[glynndah]

Losing one's virginity might have been more enjoyable if at least one of the parties involved had been sober. (But then again, maybe not.)

 

[daylightwarrior]

Communicate more openly. I think this makes all the difference in the world.

 

[christabelll]

oiy...

sex does not mean love
love does not need sex
lust masquerades as love
and passion clouds everything

 

[done_got_old]

........sex was addictive!

 

[M's girl]

That it was the thing men most bragged about while most had no clue whatsoever of what they were doing while interacting with women....

 

[christabelll]

oh gods that reminds me of a man that tried for over a year to get into my pants LOLOL swore and bedamned the he was EXCELLENT at giving head
HA!
it was like a cartoon version of blowing raspberries on the skin and a dog with a rag in its mouth. And unshaven to boot.
egads....... the worst worst worst.....LOL

 

[KokopelliRises]

oh gods that reminds me of a man that tried for over a year to get into my pants LOLOL swore and bedamned the he was EXCELLENT at giving head
HA!
it was like a cartoon version of blowing raspberries on the skin and a dog with a rag in its mouth. And unshaven to boot.
egads....... the worst worst worst.....LOL

I feel so sorry for you. People who think they can give head and can't are annoying at the very least. Unshaven can be rather painful.

 

[Mr.G]

Agreed with all but especially #2 and #4. Other than that I have to mention

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

If I'd known THAT when I was 18 or 20 I would be EMPEROR today!!

 

[center_stage]

I wish that I had known that it wouldn't be what everybody said it would be. I was very disappointed.

 

[christabelll]

luckily hehehe I found one who could and did perform it fabulously well

HEHEHEHEHEHEH

the other thing I wish I had known....
you have to be a yoga master to use most of whats in the KAMA SUTRA positions manual LOLOLOL

 

[KokopelliRises]

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

If I'd known THAT when I was 18 or 20 I would be EMPEROR today!!

I am so glad that my current partner did because I first learned about how great it is in our first "encounter" (I can't really think of how else to describe it). I read that thread for the first time about a month later and I was happy that someone was trying to get the word out about how fantastic it is.

 

[Cathleen]

I wish I had known that there'd never be enough, and not in the good way. ; )

 

[knickerless]

On my first actual sex experience (as opposed to groping etc), I stopped my girl half way through giving me a blow-job so we could get on with the real thing. Years later now I know how much I enjoy a good bj (and get one so infrequently) I think what an asshole!

 

[WriterDom]

Not having anal sex with a few women when I could have.

 

[Zoots_owner]

I didn't get laid nearly often enough in my younger days, nor did I especially appreciate that being able to boink jailbait with impunity was a one-time thing. I also failed to appreciate that there were no STDs around in those days which were considered to be more than an inconvenience. And like most young people then, I'd never even heard of most sorts of kinkiness.

If I had it all to do over again, I'd be the guy that every middle school girl's parents try to keep her away from.

 

[fgarvb1]

That by just asking for what you want most ladies are willing to do or try almost anything if they are relaxed about it and they trust you.

 

[angle1984]

It's ok to actually have sex, having sex does not automatically mean you're going to get pregnant or get a STD

Oh, and its ok to make noises and ask for what you want