then vs. now - bdsm preference

[bunny bondage]

for those of us who have long term experience in the bdsm world, how have your tastes changed? what things to you now like/dislike that you previously felt different about? how have your tastes evolved? are there limits you've moved? or eliminated completly? are there activities that you once felt enthralled by, but are now disenchanted with? what have you learned along the road?

 

[Ebonyfire]

for those of us who have long term experience in the bdsm world, how have your tastes changed? what things to you now like/dislike that you previously felt different about? how have your tastes evolved? are there limits you've moved? or eliminated completly? are there activities that you once felt enthralled by, but are now disenchanted with? what have you learned along the road?

I am more sadistic. Love to smack dat azz!!!

 

[bunny bondage]

Re: Re: then vs. now - bdsm preference

I am more sadistic. Love to smack dat azz!!!

if i wasn't a girl, i'd run and hide my bottom! ^_^

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Re: then vs. now - bdsm preference

if i wasn't a girl, i'd run and hide my bottom! ^_^

Luckily, I have several boy toys who are just plain sluts. So you are safe!

 

[WynEternal]

I'm more open to my dominant side, have tried some things I've never done before.

Along the way, I've learned I need to be more true to myself.

 

[Richard49]

My tastes have not changed but have expanded with experence

 

[Shadowsdream]

I grow more interested in giving pain year after year...and have become more adept at reading between the lines of what is said and what is meant.
The more I know the more I realize how much there is to learn.

 

[calypso_21]

I have truly become awakened to an amazingly sensual side of my personality. I like that I am even more open to experiencing new and different sexual adventures. I'm happier with the knowledge that my desires, cravings, urges etc. can be fulfilled rather than hidden away. My life is so wonderful all around, even more so since I met the one who claims me.

 

[MissTaken]

My tastes have not changed but have expanded with experence

How so?

As someone with only a little bit of experience under her belt, *pun intended*, I am curious to see how tastes and practices have evolved with those who have many years of experience.

Thank you, Richard.



How so? to all of you?

 

[Richard49]

How so?

As someone with only a little bit of experience under her belt, *pun intended*, I am curious to see how tastes and practices have evolved with those who have many years of experience.

Thank you, Richard.



How so? to all of you?

I had my first experence as Dom in a sexual way when I was 15
I did not even kow the term BDSM
I dominate naturally
(what ever the hell that means)

I like to be in control
I like to take my female submissive to sub space

What I can now do to achieve those two things has increased

I am not sure if this is what you are looking for
If not please ask again

 

[gumbie]

i am much calmer now.

my first experience was almost 25 years ago and after that i wasted much too much energy fighting my desires. i felt that being a bi-male subster was "wrong".

Now i am much calmer. i am who i am and i do not go out of my way to hide or deny it. (i don't stand on top of buildings and shout it out either!)

my tastes are about the same, but various Dommes and Doms have shown me new things and taken me to places i hadn't been before in my life.

Life is pretty darn good!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

My first serious lover was a glutton for punishment, and not in a good way. The experience scarred me for years, and it is only a decade later that I am able to allow myself to be dominant again. Slowly, but surely.