Wildcard Ky
Southern culture liason
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This will be kind of long, but I need to vent!!!
I've been dating someone that I really care about for well over a year. One of the things that makes it a good relationship is that we're both kind of pervs. We share the same sexual tastes and some of the same fantasies. We share what are fantasies are, whether we'd actually act on them, etc.
In discussing these fantasies, I decided there was one of hers that I wanted to make happen. I generally talked to her about it and she said that she would like for it to happen but under a very strict set of circumstances.
The basic of the fantasy is same room, no swap. If it could happen that way, she would love to do it, and would want it to be a surprise. She said that she would want about an hours notice so she could get ready.
I decided that I was going to make this happen for her. Yes, I would enjoy it, but it was her fantasy and it was going to be for her.
I spent a lot of time in trying to find the perfect couple to do this with. Lots of talking and "interviewing" to make sure everyone was on the same page about everything.
I finally found the perfect couple for it. They had the exact same fantasy and it was all agreed to and set up. The date was yesterday and I gave her the hours notice she'd wanted. She was very excited.
The couple showed up. We chatted, we had a few drinks to loosen nerves, we played some cards which turned into strip poker. Things were going great.
The other couple suggested we get the massage table out to get things started. While I was doing this, she went to the other room and had a few large drinks very quickly that I didn't know about.
It started with a massage on her and she quickly got into it. Within 10 minutes we were going at it pretty heavy, but no actual sex. She had a few orgasms then wanted to have sex. The other couple had started messing around on their own as well.
She suddenly felt sick and ran to the bathroom. She puked, she laid down on the bed and she was gone. This leaves me and the other couple with an agreement that there was no swapping. I left them to finish their fun, then they went home.
I spent the next 6 hours bored, watching TV and piddling with projects. I wasn't very happy, but sometimes shit happens.
I had already fallen asleep on the couch when she finally woke up. She came in to talk to me and was acting all lovey dovey. She saw that I wasn't real happy and asked what was wrong.
I said "you don't remember how things went?" Her answer was "I don't remember much. We played cards, I DRANK A FEW SHOTS while you were getting the table set up, I got on the table, but don't remember anything else."
That made me mad. She knows what happens when she drinks too much. She saw that I was now mad and wanted to know why. Her first question was why are you mad? and I didn't say say anything. Second question was did I (she) have sex with anyone? I said no. I guess she was worried that she had sex with the other guy and I was mad about it.
She said "why are you mad then?" I said I was mad because I had gone to a lot of time and trouble to make one of her life long fantasies come true in the exact way that she wanted it, including the surprise part. That her act of downing the shots had basically ruined it. She didn't remember any of it. I said so not only was the time and effort a bust, but I'll never be able to surprise you with this again. The opportunity for a first time surprise only happens once and now it's gone.
I guess none of that registered with her, and she informed me she doesn't think I should be mad at her, which has only made me more mad.
Am I in the wrong here?
I've been dating someone that I really care about for well over a year. One of the things that makes it a good relationship is that we're both kind of pervs. We share the same sexual tastes and some of the same fantasies. We share what are fantasies are, whether we'd actually act on them, etc.
In discussing these fantasies, I decided there was one of hers that I wanted to make happen. I generally talked to her about it and she said that she would like for it to happen but under a very strict set of circumstances.
The basic of the fantasy is same room, no swap. If it could happen that way, she would love to do it, and would want it to be a surprise. She said that she would want about an hours notice so she could get ready.
I decided that I was going to make this happen for her. Yes, I would enjoy it, but it was her fantasy and it was going to be for her.
I spent a lot of time in trying to find the perfect couple to do this with. Lots of talking and "interviewing" to make sure everyone was on the same page about everything.
I finally found the perfect couple for it. They had the exact same fantasy and it was all agreed to and set up. The date was yesterday and I gave her the hours notice she'd wanted. She was very excited.
The couple showed up. We chatted, we had a few drinks to loosen nerves, we played some cards which turned into strip poker. Things were going great.
The other couple suggested we get the massage table out to get things started. While I was doing this, she went to the other room and had a few large drinks very quickly that I didn't know about.
It started with a massage on her and she quickly got into it. Within 10 minutes we were going at it pretty heavy, but no actual sex. She had a few orgasms then wanted to have sex. The other couple had started messing around on their own as well.
She suddenly felt sick and ran to the bathroom. She puked, she laid down on the bed and she was gone. This leaves me and the other couple with an agreement that there was no swapping. I left them to finish their fun, then they went home.
I spent the next 6 hours bored, watching TV and piddling with projects. I wasn't very happy, but sometimes shit happens.
I had already fallen asleep on the couch when she finally woke up. She came in to talk to me and was acting all lovey dovey. She saw that I wasn't real happy and asked what was wrong.
I said "you don't remember how things went?" Her answer was "I don't remember much. We played cards, I DRANK A FEW SHOTS while you were getting the table set up, I got on the table, but don't remember anything else."
That made me mad. She knows what happens when she drinks too much. She saw that I was now mad and wanted to know why. Her first question was why are you mad? and I didn't say say anything. Second question was did I (she) have sex with anyone? I said no. I guess she was worried that she had sex with the other guy and I was mad about it.
She said "why are you mad then?" I said I was mad because I had gone to a lot of time and trouble to make one of her life long fantasies come true in the exact way that she wanted it, including the surprise part. That her act of downing the shots had basically ruined it. She didn't remember any of it. I said so not only was the time and effort a bust, but I'll never be able to surprise you with this again. The opportunity for a first time surprise only happens once and now it's gone.
I guess none of that registered with her, and she informed me she doesn't think I should be mad at her, which has only made me more mad.
Am I in the wrong here?
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