The UK Kink Thread

[jockdom]

Sorry doll didn't see that thread! Another sexy tale when you've settled down would be good!

 

[Harmony_1985]

Good to see you're back and settled down Velvet!

Thank god its friday!

 

[ShyVixen]

Afternoon all oh wait, that just made me smile...made me think of evening all...okay forget me. I'm caffeine wired lol

Hope your weekend's are all going well! This time next week I'll almost be having to assume my alter ego for a signing...*gulps*

Velvet, I'm so sorry to hear about the misfortune, but glad the move went well (((hugs))) I say we start a manhunt for the fraudsters and throw them to the bonfire.

 

[jockdom]

Afternoon all oh wait, that just made me smile...made me think of evening all...okay forget me. I'm caffeine wired lol

Hope your weekend's are all going well! This time next week I'll almost be having to assume my alter ego for a signing...*gulps*

Velvet, I'm so sorry to hear about the misfortune, but glad the move went well (((hugs))) I say we start a manhunt for the fraudsters and throw them to the bonfire.

Hi Shy, yeah hope your signing goes ok! Just another step to literay domination!

Evening all hope everybody has a good one. Miserable day at work sweeping up leaves in the pishing rain. Like painting the Forth bridge, soul destroying. Never mind life goes on!

 

[Harmony_1985]

My feet hurt, I've tried new booze, my corset is starting to make me ache, but I've had a good night!

 

[jockdom]

My feet hurt, I've tried new booze, my corset is starting to make me ache, but I've had a good night!

Glad to hear you had a good one doll.

 

[Harmony_1985]

Yah, and I got a few looks from some lads too!

Me thinks I shall be going out in my corset more often lol.

 

[jockdom]

Morning campers, monday morning again. Sure comes round quick can't be arsed I tells you. Hope every body has a good one.

 

[ShyVixen]

Morning everyone. Have to agree with JD, the weekend seems to have gone by in a blur. Oh well, back to work today.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Morning peeps!

Hope ya all have a wonderful day!

Mine started with a wee text from my A. and wee chat with Him on MSN, so hell yeah I am happy!!



Yea life is just nice since I am with my A.

 

[Harmony_1985]

Well Saturday was great but sunday was crap.

I could be single by the end of the day.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

Morning everyone

The weekend was a blur and I need to get up the guff to get on with some left over work today. *yawns* Might need to put some music on.

Harm *hugs* Hope everything works out okay.

 

[Harmony_1985]

It seems he can't cope that well with the side of me thats craving to explore BDSM.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

It seems he can't cope that well with the side of me thats craving to explore BDSM.

Oh dear. I hope you manage to work everything out. If you both have strong feelings for each other, there should be a way to compromise.

HUG x

 

[Harmony_1985]

The problem is that he's really self concious about sex. He has a one track mind that sex is about giving me an orgasm, which he has yet to do.

I got nervous as hell, worded it all wrong and he took it as I want sex with other men, but its not that.

We're trying to talk it through, but he's hurt that it seems like he doesn't satisfy me, that he's not enough for me.

I've told him thats not true, but there's a side of me that I crave to explore, and I can't squash that part of me.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

The problem is that he's really self concious about sex. He has a one track mind that sex is about giving me an orgasm, which he has yet to do.

I got nervous as hell, worded it all wrong and he took it as I want sex with other men, but its not that.

We're trying to talk it through, but he's hurt that it seems like he doesn't satisfy me, that he's not enough for me.

I've told him thats not true, but there's a side of me that I crave to explore, and I can't squash that part of me.

*hugs tight*

 

[Harmony_1985]

He's got it into his head that this is my way of saying I want to dump him because he's not satisfying me and that I've found someone new.

I can't get through to him. He accepts that I have an interest in BDSM but he can't see to accept that I want to explore it, and that I know he doesn't have an interest in it so I'm not going to pressure him into anything he doesn't want.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

He's got it into his head that this is my way of saying I want to dump him because he's not satisfying me and that I've found someone new.

I can't get through to him. He accepts that I have an interest in BDSM but he can't see to accept that I want to explore it, and that I know he doesn't have an interest in it so I'm not going to pressure him into anything he doesn't want.

It takes a special kind of man to be happy with their girl having fun with other people, it's just how they're wired. Now might not be the best time to open up your relationship though. Perhaps you should focus on what he is giving you and reassure him, then broach the subject of finding a D play partner once your guy feels more secure?

 

[Harmony_1985]

I don't think he'll ever feel secure tbh, he's a very insecure person. The long distance thing makes it hard for me to assure him because its not in person, its over the phone or on the internet.

God I love him so much, and he's just text me telling me he's sick of arguing about it, so just do what I want. I told him I didn't want us to finish on a sour note, thinking thats what he meant, and he said we're not ending, he still cares about me.

So I text back saying that I don't want him agreeing to let me do it if he's not happy about it, cos I want us to be happy.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

My biggest suggestion would be to stop texting and call...things can be taken so very differently than intended on a text/pm/im. Sometimes the easiest thing to do is just to talk. Plus when you hear the love in another persons voice it helps calm things down a little.

 

[Harmony_1985]

He's at work so I can't really call. My guess is he's hiding out in the store room to text lol.

He's said no to it, and I respect his wishes. He keeps saying he knows I'm curious about it and he's sorry. I've told him to stop saying sorry because I understand why he's saying no. I told him I still love him and care for him.

And now I'm crying cos I'm just happy we sorted it out.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

He's at work so I can't really call. My guess is he's hiding out in the store room to text lol.

He's said no to it, and I respect his wishes. He keeps saying he knows I'm curious about it and he's sorry. I've told him to stop saying sorry because I understand why he's saying no. I told him I still love him and care for him.

And now I'm crying cos I'm just happy we sorted it out.

~smiles~

Glad its sorted!!!

 

[Harmony_1985]

He's agreed to give it a try!

I told him I didn't want him doing it just to make me happy if he's not comfortable with it, but he's said he'll give it a try for me.

 

[Lady_Midnight]

Glad you got it sorted Harmony

 

[jockdom]

Morning campers! Fuck its Brass Monkey out there, snow in bloody october who would have thunk it! Time for the long johns me thinks.