The Trifuckta

[rgraham666]

A friend of mine blogged about an interesting concept, The Trifuckta.

It's at the bottom of her post, after the food porn.

Discuss amongst yourselves.

 

[maggot420]

I like it.

And I don't think it's too much to ask for either.

 

[rgraham666]

So do I.

She's a lovely lady. Intelligent, beautiful and strong.

If I sound like I've got it bad it's because I do.

 

[maggot420]

So do I.

She's a lovely lady. Intelligent, beautiful and strong.

If I sound like I've got it bad it's because I do.

your taste sir, is impeccable.

 

[impressive]

Well, I have to quote it -- to enhance discussion -- 'cause I don't think folks will visit the blog & dig for it:

We present:

1. The Mind Fuck - a girl needs a guy who can challenge her intellectually. Who can banter and buzz, who uses words artfully and sexily, who not only pushes the envelope but licks it too...

2. The Body Fuck - Unafraid, unintimidated, unrelenting. Someone who recognizes that skin is the largest sexual organ and can explore and demand in ways that sometimes surprises.

3. The Heart Fuck - someone who burrows under the skin and offers trust, respect and companionship. Who can tolerate a bad day and celebrate the good ones. A guy who will at least pretend he'll always take care of you even if you know you'll never need it. Who'll slip a can of tuna in your purse when your head is turned.

This is the Trifuckta. Does it exist? Have we ever had it? Do we know people who have it today? And then we turn wistful yet hopeful, and order another mai tai, and toast our friendship and acknowledge that sometimes 2 out of 3 ain't bad.

I think we ALL want it. That feeling of "settling" is when we admit to ourselves that there's something lacking in one or more legs of the Trifuckta -- and we decide to stick with it anyway. Hopefully, the potential is there for both to grow into a complete Trifuckta for each other. Otherwise, when a more complete someone comes along, we often trade up -- and that's a scary thought when you've invested a huge chunk of your self in a relationship.

 

[rgraham666]

I think the Trifuckta is always something grown into. You can't, I believe, have all three all at once.

I also think the way she numbered them is the order in which they'll grow, for the most part. The women I've come close to the Trifuckta with it was always their minds that caught me first.

 

[Katyusha]

I think we ALL want it. That feeling of "settling" is when we admit to ourselves that there's something lacking in one or more legs of the Trifuckta -- and we decide to stick with it anyway. Hopefully, the potential is there for both to grow into a complete Trifuckta for each other. Otherwise, when a more complete someone comes along, we often trade up -- and that's a scary thought when you've invested a huge chunk of your self in a relationship.

Well yeah...we all want that perfect mate. But a lot of people don't realize the difference between the perfect mate and the fairy tale; the fairy tale doesn't exist. I believe I'm very lucky because Gizz and I have a complete Trifuckta here. I also believe that two people can grow into a complete Trifuckta but that it takes patience and work and an awful lot of love on both parts. But a complete Trifuckta can also fall apart. It takes work to maintain it, just as it can take work to build it.

 

[rgraham666]

It takes work to maintain it, just as it can take work to build it.

In the words of Han Solo, "That's the tricky part, isn't it?"

 

[impressive]

Well yeah...we all want that perfect mate. But a lot of people don't realize the difference between the perfect mate and the fairy tale; the fairy tale doesn't exist. ... I also believe that two people can grow into a complete Trifuckta but that it takes patience and work and an awful lot of love on both parts. But a complete Trifuckta can also fall apart. It takes work to maintain it, just as it can take work to build it.

Agree.

 

[Katyusha]

In the words of Han Solo, "That's the tricky part, isn't it?"

Yes it is. I once knew someone who thought that once you got married, the relationship shouldn't need any more work. She felt that if you had to work at your relationship, work at your love, etc., etc., etc., that you weren't right for each other no matter how convinced you were that you were. I felt that she couldn't have been more wrong; the people who BEST fit together, IMO, are the people who can both put the same effort into the relationship in order to get the best of themselves and each other out of it.

But that's hard work.

 

[jomar]

Good concept. But...tuna?

 

[rgraham666]

Good concept. But...tuna?

I'll ask her sometime. I was wondering myself.

 

[CeriseNoire]

Yes it is. I once knew someone who thought that once you got married, the relationship shouldn't need any more work. She felt that if you had to work at your relationship, work at your love, etc., etc., etc., that you weren't right for each other no matter how convinced you were that you were. I felt that she couldn't have been more wrong; the people who BEST fit together, IMO, are the people who can both put the same effort into the relationship in order to get the best of themselves and each other out of it.

But that's hard work.

So true. I think that's the biggest lesson I learned this year

 

[rgraham666]

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[Anna_Malia75]

My goal is the daily double - 1 and 3. I can teach him how to fuck me. We'll learn together, in fact. I'm very generous with extra credit.