The subject is LOVE.

Blackie Malone

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What would you do for love? Agh, that's so general isn't it? Okay, what I meant was how far would you go for love?
No, not physical love, no sex or lust, I'm talking swooning, palm sweating, heart racing, I can't go on without you, you are my soul, this is the real thing love.

Would you sacrifice for it? Change your life for it? What extremes would you go to or would you go through extremes?
Would you die for it?

Is it really worth it?

Chat amongst yourselves, no really....mull over it, let it simmer a bit and then let's hear what you have to say.

B :rose:
 
I would sacrifice for it, I would change my life for it, I would fight, bleed, die for it.

Love IS life, and without love life is meaningless. Love is in everything I do, well most everything anyway. I'd love it to be the motivator for everything, but I'm human and so selfish needs motivate sometimes too.

I have so much love in my life, so much of it just flowing through me and what I do that I would do anything for love. Real, true deep love that comes from God is worth sacrificing everything for. Love of my husband and daughter will motivate me to do anything, absolutely anything I need too to keep them in love.

My life is love. I can't imagine anything else.
 
*burp*

I would sacrifice nothing... give nothing... do nothing for it.

If it happens... that's nice, sort of like getting that really awesome job except with sex (which a really awesome job by definition, my definition, would include anyway... like maybe beeing J'Lo's nipple tweaker).

If it doesn't happen... so?
 
i'd give my life for love

at the end of the day thats all there is to life.


and those who dont risk will never know
 
I've already sacrificed so much for it (in the form of my child). I don't know how much more I have to give, but anything I have left would be fair game. The beautiful thing about real love is the way it fills you up when you feel empty. But I'm no longer holding my breath...just hoping.
 
i never thought that i would live south of the mason dixon line. yet, here i am, nearly 2000 miles away from everything ive ever known to be with the love of my life.
yes, i would sacrifice for it...go out on a limb for it.
 
Blackie Malone said:
Would you sacrifice for it? Change your life for it? What extremes would you go to or would you go through extremes?
Would you die for it?

Is it really worth it?

Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
Yes.

Yes.

I will not, however, sell my soul for it.

:rose:
 
Okay, what I meant was how far would you go for love?

Would you sacrifice for it?
Yes, I have

Change your life for it?
Yes, I have

What extremes would you go to or would you go through extremes?
Short of betraying my basic nature or denying my most basic desires, I would do anything.

Would you die for it?
I would not die for it but I would die to save the life of the one I love.

Is it really worth it?
Please see my sig...

:rose: Neon
 
life is love and love is life ... i can not imagine a life without love and also i can not imagine a love without life ...

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What I thought was love, wasn't.

Gradually I came to realize that nobody could love me the way I need, because I didn't love myself enough to demand it, and accept nothing less. My partners didn't respect me because I didn't respect myself.

So I tried something. I tried sacrificing everything and changing my life so I could love myself more. If someone else comes along and wants to love me, they're going to have to love all of me, not just the parts they want to see. That's love. :heart:
 
carsonshepherd said:
If someone else comes along and wants to love me, they're going to have to love all of me, not just the parts they want to see. That's love. :heart:

I need to learn how to do this in return ... rather than loving the person I want them to be(come).

:heart:
 
Is it like a Hallmark card, rubber stamped as to what it should be or is it individual and unique like a finger print?
 
Blackie Malone said:
Is it like a Hallmark card, rubber stamped as to what it should be or is it individual and unique like a finger print?
I'm sure it's the latter. What's true love to one person could be a smothering inferno of dispair to another. :cool:
 
Blackie Malone said:
Is it like a Hallmark card, rubber stamped as to what it should be or is it individual and unique like a finger print?

I'm really surprised that this question is even asked.
 
Would I sacrifice for it?

I would give up that " I can't go on without you, you are my soul, this is the real thing love" if that is what that love requires of me. I would fight with my life, my soul, my being, my entire existence, to find and keep that love.

But love is not selfish and life is not a fairytale, and because of that, I know that love requires much more than sacrifices and extremes. I'd let her go, if that is what would make her happy. I won't hold onto her, if she is not able to match my sacrifices and I won't resent her for that.

I will never stop loving her - in essence, this is the" I can't go on without you, you are my soul, this is the real thing love"

What would I sacrifice? What have I not sacrificed?
 
I don't know that I'd give up anything any longer. I thought I had something true, pure and beautiful once, and I fought with everything I had for that.

No, I won't fight anymore. I'll let the tide take me where it does and hope it doesn't hurt half as much as the time before. Does this mean I'll never love again? No, it just means I won't throw caution to the wind again.

Am I a cynical bitch? Probably.

:rose:
 
Trinique_Fire said:
No, I won't fight anymore. I'll let the tide take me where it does and hope it doesn't hurt half as much as the time before. Does this mean I'll never love again? No, it just means I won't throw caution to the wind again.

Am I a cynical bitch? Probably.

:rose:

You and me both. :rose:
 
If I have to jump through hoops to be loved, it's not love.
If I demand the same to love, it's not love.

So what would I do for love? Love. If that's not enough, it's not love.
 
I do think that if you're going to nourish love and give it what it needs to flourish, you need to give your whole heart, your whole life.

I've done this for people who I know wouldn't have done the same for me, but I think it's the only way love has a chance to permeate everything and do the transforming that love does.

Even if someone else doesn't give their all, I give mine. Because it's what I believe, what I think is the right thing, and I have yet to sacrifice a life and not be reborn.
 
Liar said:
If I have to jump through hoops to be loved, it's not love.
If I demand the same to love, it's not love.

So what would I do for love? Love. If that's not enough, it's not love.
Exactly. :heart:
 
My kids are my one true loves...so sacrifice for them would come easy, going to extremes for them NO DOUBT...i would give my life for them without a second thought. They are my heart, my soul...they are who and what i am, i love them with the greatest unconditional love ever!! :heart: :heart:

As for the love of a " :heart: soul mate :heart: "...well on that subject i'll just sit back and hope. If that person fills the depths of my soul that is longing for a "true mate" then yes i would sacrifice and go to extremes, as long as he/she understands that no matter how much i love them my kids ALWAYS and FOREVER come first both in my life and in my heart :heart: .
 
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

1 corinthains 13:4-8a

Love is many things to many different people. Love is essentially the same thing (see above) but it is different from person to person because people are not all the same.
 
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