The signs beyond the sensual ones

[T.H. Oughts]

What signs does a person show that you know that person is interested in you on a mind level not just something they just want to while away the hours with in sensual mode......

 

[Rhys]

What signs does a person show that you know that person is interested in you on a mind level not just something they just want to while away the hours with in sensual mode......

They talk to you about mundane things...sometimes its what they had for breakfast, sometimes its more personal....they ask for your opinions, and actually try to have an intellectual discourse.

Of course, there are those out there who think "Hey baby, wanna fuck?" is a question worthy of intellectual discourse...and who am I to disuade them from this course of thinking

 

[erosman]

signs

In conversation they will bring up things that you have talked about before, or maybe they will quote you or teasingly turn something that you said around, to kind of give you the message,"Hey, I am listening to every word you say." It is emotionally inviting, to say the least.

 

[MissTaken]

They message you as soon as you or they are on line.

They don't use random endearments, so when they do so with you, you know they are serious.

They send random e cards, ask about your day and press for more response than simply "Fine"

Ummmm there are lots!

 

[AStormyOne]

I agree

with both eros and rhys. I think you know if someone is really interested in you as a person and not just a cyber bud if they not only talk, but listen. Isn't this the key to any relationship... online or off?? If you swap PM's or emails with someone and the conversation never really gets any deeper than the weather, then most likely this person is just wanting to while away the hours with you. But if they want to learn about you, what makes you tick, and you can tell by future conversations they really were listening, then it sounds like they are interested.

Ok... Im done rambling!

Storm

 

[erosman]

signs

They call you or write you and say,"Hey, I saw a white Geo Storm today and I immediately thought about you and smiled. I was hoping that your day was unfolding the way that you hoped it would." I really did today, AStormyOne. Really!

 

[AStormyOne]

Ahhhhhhh! You are so sweet! Know what made me think of you?








Those dang hoop earrings! I wore the big hoops today.

Storm

 

[erosman]

signs

See, she just did what I was talking about. She brought something of a previous conversation back into the present and it further deepened the intellectual dimension of our relationship .







Thanks Storm It's nice to be thought of

 

[InnesLane]

I once took a business trip with a woman colleague. We drove from central Illinois to northern Michigan and though we'd only met briefly before this trip we were talking about anything and everything within twenty miles of leaving home. She's the easiest person I've ever become friends with and we spent the next four days exploring the coastlines of Michigan (while attending a conference between the side trips) and the closest we came to being sensual was standing side by side, completely entranced, watching the waves of Lake Michigan pound the shore on a windy and gorgeous October day.

Actually, that was amazingly sensual, but in a different way than you mean, I think.

She's one of my best friends to this day.

 

[AStormyOne]

Yeah, cuz ya know... talking about hoop earrings= double cock rings really gets into that intellectual zone!

Oh! Did I ever tell you when I was younger, my dream car was a Geo Storm?

Storm

 

[juicylips]

What signs does a person show that you know that person is interested in you on a mind level not just something they just want to while away the hours with in sensual mode......

Besides the fact that they don't bring up sex, look longingly in your eyes and touch you at every opportunity....

They talk..talk..talk...about everything...ask your advice...say pal things..like swell..golly..gee....

Cassidy

 

[erosman]

intellectual signs LOL

They buy you lunch,or a book,or call you just to tell you they saw an advertisement for your favorite kind of jewelry .







Night Storm Give the little ones a hug from me.

 

[AStormyOne]

We still haven't had that lunch yet, eros. Maybe we can discuss the book over lunch. I'll bring the candles and picnic basket. And the jewelry. You bring.... well you is plenty for me! And I thought you said you were going to be an hour ago??

Storm

 

[Summery]

Re: Re: The signs beyond the sensual ones

Besides the fact that they don't bring up sex, look longingly in your eyes and touch you at every opportunity....

They talk..talk..talk...about everything...ask your advice...say pal things..like swell..golly..gee....

Cassidy

I don't use those words with you Cass!

Seriously, when someone shares in the everyday things in your life. No matter how big or small. I think MissTaken said some very good examples.
When someone contacts you just to say hi and how your day is, doesn't feel they need a reason....they do it just because they want to.....no special occasion needed.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

What signs does a person show that you know that person is interested in you on a mind level not just something they just want to while away the hours with in sensual mode......

When they challenge me ... the conversations we have ignite the fire within.