The Safe Haven

I just want to be loved and wanted. I try to please her and she ignores me. What is a husband to do. I am sorry if I sound like a whiner. You can only do so much. I just want to be accepted and escape in here. I am not a bad man. I love my family, my kids are my life. If you see me you will know I am not unkept, unloving, disrespectful, or mean. I am a man. I am a father. I am a good person. I am sick of feeling guilty for wanting to be respected. I am sick of feeling guilty for wanting to be desired.
ow it feels good to share that with people who dont know me. I really dont know if it makes sense, but it feels good to say it. :cool:

Welcome man. Wish you the best as it resolves itself.
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

I hope to see you back real soon hun. You will certainly be missed around here.

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My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

I'll miss you dreadfully, sweetie. You're one of the few true friends I have on here. I understand your need to get away and clear your head. I've thought the same thing at times. I hope you work it out and eventually come back....I'll be welcoming you with open arms!! :heart: you!
 
I just want to be loved and wanted. I try to please her and she ignores me. What is a husband to do. I am sorry if I sound like a whiner. You can only do so much. I just want to be accepted and escape in here. I am not a bad man. I love my family, my kids are my life. If you see me you will know I am not unkept, unloving, disrespectful, or mean. I am a man. I am a father. I am a good person. I am sick of feeling guilty for wanting to be respected. I am sick of feeling guilty for wanting to be desired.
ow it feels good to share that with people who dont know me. I really dont know if it makes sense, but it feels good to say it. :cool:

Big *hugs* for you sweetie while you travel this path. Pm me if you need to talk. :rose:
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

Hey there Spicy girl. :rose:

Will be thinking of you and sending you love while you are away. Please take care of you. You're pretty special sweetpea and I look forward to your return. :kiss:
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

*hugs hugs* miss you already.
 
Continued love and (((hugs))) will be headed your way wherever you are, Spicy.:heart::rose::heart:
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

BTW.. I'll still be around and looking in regularly on this thread. I'll show any and all support that I can since I'm just that kinda guy ;) I'll be sure to send Spicy the love you fine Litsters have shared. I know she will miss you guys too.
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

You will be missed.
(((SPICY)))
 
My lovely Safe Haven people.
I'm taking a break from lit. Hopefully it will just be a brief one but I really don't know. I am not a victim of Lit drama or anything like that. It is a totally personal decision and, for the moment, completely necessary.

I ask one thing of you. Keep loving each other and supporting each other. I have been so proud to see so many people stepping up to show love and support for those hurting and in need..or even those just needing a safe place. Please keep that going. Please keep loving and caring.

I will be back when I can and hopefully be better than ever. :heart:

I just saw this tonight! Spicy, I hope you will find what you need and that you'll hurry back to us! You've been like a breath of fresh air and warm sunshine around here. We'll miss you, and I wish the best for you. :heart:
 
I just saw this tonight! Spicy, I hope you will find what you need and that you'll hurry back to us! You've been like a breath of fresh air and warm sunshine around here. We'll miss you, and I wish the best for you. :heart:

I'll relay the message.
Very sweet.
 
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