the right way to seduce a 24 yr old man?

[D69]

what is the right way to seduce someone who is uptight about age differance and who is worried about hurting me.

( i do not want to come out looking like a slut so please keep that in mind when replying )

 

[Weird Harold]

( i do not want to come out looking like a slut so please keep that in mind when replying )

Darn, so much for my suggestion. Sorry can't help then.

(Although the old saw about "a duchess in the parlor, A chef in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom" might apply.)

 

[D69]

you can go ahead and tell me your suggestion. i can always adapt from that

 

[Skibum]

You can be straight forward without being slutty. Be approachable. Talk to him. Find out what he likes. Be his friend. If he is interested you will know soon enough.

 

[Weird Harold]

you can go ahead and tell me your suggestion. i can always adapt from that

Well, based on misty memories from half a lifetime ago, the first thought I had on the way to seduce a 24 yo man is to be a slut.;p

(Although the old saw about "a duchess in the parlor, A chef in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom" might apply.)

If you're not familiar with the old saw I quoted above, it's one definition of the perfect wife. Your problem is how to let him know about the "whore in your bedroom" without destroying his image of the "Duchess in the parlor."

It is possible to dress sexy without being slutty. It's also possible to be slutty without looking like it.

Perfumes work on some men, and others (like me) are actually alergic to (most) perfume.

If all else fails, invite him in for a drink and then lock the door on him so he can't escape. (not that he's likely to try very hard.)

 

[D69]

SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP!

ok. here is the story: He is 24 like i said, and i am 19. I like the guy alot. I havn't known him that long. Only about 3 weeks. He is such a teese he touches me i just can't touch him. the last time, he went down on me.... I'm not complaining. I would just like to return the favor. I don't want him to think i'm a slut but, i really like this guy and i don't know if he really likes me or not.

I've had some pretty wild dreams about this guy.... one today while i was dosing in my dorm room. I think about him all the time. The first night i met him i didn't sleep. I just laid in bed tossing and turning all night long wishing i could touch myself....(my room mate was there) He is 6ft tall... 218 lbs and its all muscle. He drives me crazy. All i can think about is how big he is compaired to me and how i would love to have his arms wrapped around me. If anyone can help... god i am so desperate to have him. In every way. I don't just want him sexually, i want him mentally too.

sorry about the spelling.... i am a shitty speller.

D

 

[Jester]

Just be honest with him about your feelings, there's nothing wrong or slutty about being direct. It saves alot of worrying and agonizing sometimes. Tell him that you think about him alot and care about him. If you're up to it, tell him that you think about the two of you physically. You don't have to get specific and it's not being slutty, just honest. Besdies, from what you've said, you already know that you're attracted to one another. If he is worried about hurting you, that's something. You don't think like that unless you care about the person.

As for being uptight about the age difference, I'm not sure how to go about reassuring him on that. It's not a big difference depending on your personalities. I'm 24 and I had a girlfriend that was 19. The age difference never came up other than the fact that I remembered some more cartoons and bands than she did. Just try to assure him that your relationship is something that you want, too. Talk about it and find out exactly what is bothering him. That way, the two of you can work on it together. Remember: honesty & communication are the best way to go. Good Luck!

 

[Skibum]

D69, if he has gone down on you in the past he must be interested. At this point the direct approach is probably the best. Tell him you want more. Show him just what you want. Since he has already started a sexual contact with you, you won't look slutty by coming on to him.

 

[Treat]

D69, I agree with everyone else. If he has gone down on you then he must be interested in you and wants the same things you do.

Thinking to myself though, < the best way to seduce a 24 year old?> Just rape him.LOL.. You will find out that a young man with raging hormones rape easy.. Just teasing you D69...

 

[forgetunome]

I would say if he has gone down on you...you have your answer he's probably wondering why you aren't interested in him and responding. ;-)

 

[Your Olympic Hero]

Are U SERIOUS??!?!?!?

Chick are u Fin serious?!?!?!?!?!

1st. What the hell is wrong with u ur only 19 and he is 24 go get him... no no no dont hesitate GO GET HIM.

2nd. what the hell is wrong with u dude if a 19 year old chick was all up on my snicks id have no problem abliging her every interest-unless of course she was fat or ugly or too skinny for that matter- but unless u fall under any of thos cats u shouldnt be asking these stupid questions.

3rd. There aint nuthin a older guy loves more than a young pie wantin him bad and knowing that she wants u makes it all the better and even harder to resist

4th. If ur worried about bein a slut after letting him go down on u its a little late for that... sorry to be blunt but chick if he went down on u and u have not givin back as good as u got then he prolly thinks ur a prude and wants nuthin to do with u

5th CARPE DIEM!

6th. Bottom line is who cares what anyone thinks if u want that jabronie then go get him and quit ur belly achin...

and that my friends is TRUE!