The realization your all alone in this world

[sufisaint]

Sometimes it just hits me like a brick...and even though I am fiercely independent...there is such an overwhelming sadness to it. Not being able to find one person to let all the way in... Its just one of those rainy Sunday morning blues time here...

 

[Rubyfruit]

I feel your pain, sufisaint, and I hope your day gets better babe.

 

[ksmybuttons]

It hit me hard after I lost both my parents and my surviving grandparents in an 18 month period. I think it was one of things that made me decide to marry.

Nothing is forever. Alone or together. One or the other.

 

[Dietrich K.]

If you're posting here, you're not really that alone. I know it's not much and it's not really as physical as you might need, but MBs have gotten me through many a lonely time.

 

[sufisaint]

In all of heaven and earth..there is no where to hide...

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

There's billions of us all alone in this world. We all live in our own heads. It's the human condition. It's what makes us the fragile creatures that we all are. I find it to be tragically beautiful.

 

[Guest]

 

[weed]

Tomorrow will be another day.

One of my blues chasers is a funny movie. Have you seen "Showtime"?

 

[Guest]

and that's the way it is...

 

[Anais Dahl]

It hit me when I lost both my parents before age 18. It is hitting me again now that my sister is in critical condition. I have very few friends and what friends I do have live in other states so I rarely see them. I have been very lonely lately. My man's family has adopted me as one of their own and for that I am very lucky.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Re: and that's the way it is...

We're all born alone and we all die alone.

It's what we do, and who we do it with, in the bits in between that count.

Feel better

If you are lucky, you are born into the arms of a family that love's you and you die in the arms of a family that loves you.

You may have to do the acts yourself, but those that love you will stay through the process.

 

[Guest]

 

[Anais Dahl]

I said lost. I didn't say die.

 

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

 

[Armenius]

Very well put, silva.


Huggggggs, sufisaint. The only thing that helps me when I get like that is shutting off all the technology, taking a hot shower, and going out the door for a walk or to where people are. Even if it's raining.

Sometimes sitting in front of the monitor, even when there are people you know around you, can be more depressing than anything.

Get up and go go go for a few hours. Go motorcycle shopping, just for the hell of it. Accomplish something that's been nagging at you for weeks so that you can feel satisfied that it's done. It's not a cure, but it does help a little.


Lioness

Wondeful tender thoughts Lioness. Even in the heat of battle the depth of your heart shines through.

lovingly, Armenius

 

[intrigued]

sufi, is it time for the "talk"?

 

[Guest]

Wait, I have a better idea

 

[Trail48]

Sufi,

Too many times I have seen your words of encouragement to others to believe that you are all alone. You are not alone.

The feelings will pass, the reality of the community you have created will remain. Hang in

 

[Guest]

Re: Wait, I have a better idea

 

[sufisaint]

I am going over to see my beautiful little daughter in a couple of minutes...there is nothing that can top that in my mind. I just had a few terrible moments in the last week come together and just realized I had noone to be there...obviously I have my daughter but at her age..I would be absolutely wrong to burden her with any of problems I have...one of my gifts to her is a warm and loving carefree, as much as possible, childhood. The World will catch up to her, as it already is beging too, but she needs the safety of her fathers arms now...not his mistakes..

 

[Guest]

 

[dragonhearted]

Sometimes it just hits me like a brick...and even though I am fiercely independent...there is such an overwhelming sadness to it. Not being able to find one person to let all the way in... Its just one of those rainy Sunday morning blues time here...

*comes into the dark room, puts some logs in the fireplace and starts a fire....goes and heats water for some herb tea...brings some peppermint tea to him, then sits a comfortable distance on the couch from him....just to be there*

I wish I could do more Sufi

 

[nasty1]

I feel your pain, hun. Being alone isn't fun. But, sometimes, being with someone causes a lot of pain, too. But, I'd rather have the pain that comes with being with someone. Being alone does NOTHING for being horny. If you wanna talk, you can PM me. I know A LOT about being alone.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

It hit me hard after I lost both my parents and my surviving grandparents in an 18 month period.

I have been alone, to some degree, for much of my life, but yes, I have thought about it, and for me nothing will make me more lonely than when my parents die. I've had them all my life, and while I still have brothers, aunts/uncles and a child, most people really feel alone when their parents die. There is always that child inside who felt he/she could always turn to your parents for comfort no matter who else let you down or left you - they were always there for you (to one degree or another).