The Proper "from behind" Technique?

[an_angels_wings]

Okay ... I checked the Blank Manual to try and find something pertaining to this topic ... the closest I got to it was the shower thread, which is where this all started, but I didn't necessarily find anything that helped me. So, maybe ya'll can!

My boyfriend tried to enter me from behind today ... first we were in the shower, then later in the bedroom when the shower didn't quite work. The thing that sucks (and not in the good way) is that we couldn't seem to get it to work! We're both about the same height, though I may be a half-inch or so taller ... we got it to work for a few seconds (which were freaking amazing), but then he kept falling out. So, my question is ... how the hell do you get this to work? (Comfort is a plus!)

 

[SweetErika]

You're just talking about vaginal rear-entry (though anal's not much different), either standing in the shower or elsewhere, perhaps leaning over the bed or back of the couch, etc., correct?

I bend forward at the waist, from a few degrees to all the way, like I'm touching my toes, depending on where we are. I spread my feet apart until I'm most comfortable, then we position his cock, and he enters me. Like you, I'm a hint taller than him, and it usually takes some knee-bending and tiptoe-standing on both of our parts to get the angle and action just right. Then we get in a groove, and everything just seems to work.

You may find leaning over something that's hip-waist height to be easier, at least until you get the hang of it. And, if you never do because your bodies just aren't made for this position, hopefully you still had a blast trying and plenty of others should work beautifully!

 

[akatrex]

You may find leaning over something that's hip-waist height to be easier, at least until you get the hang of it. And, if you never do because your bodies just aren't made for this position, hopefully you still had a blast trying and plenty of others should work beautifully!

Like SweetErika says leaning over....the bathroom sink area. Lay a doubled towel down for elbow comfort and watch your partner in the mirror.

In the shower I have my woman spread her feet to each side of the shower so she does not slip. Bend over at the waist and lean her head against the wall. A little silicone lube and woopee.

Best of Luck

Rex

 

[an_angels_wings]

Yep, vaginal-rear-entry ... if there is such a technical term. ;D

So then ... do I need to be lower and angled more upward toward him and he needs to be higher? I think that's where we were going wrong ... I'm all for trying over and over again a few times, but I wouldn't mind getting it "right" the next go. =)

Thanks for your help!

 

[SweetErika]

Yep, vaginal-rear-entry ... if there is such a technical term. ;D

So then ... do I need to be lower and angled more upward toward him and he needs to be higher? I think that's where we were going wrong ... I'm all for trying over and over again a few times, but I wouldn't mind getting it "right" the next go. =)

Thanks for your help!

We don't know where you need to be - that'll depend on how your specific bodies fit together.

Next time (or beforehand), just look at it as a learning experience, rather than a hot, frienzied fuck. Go very slow, communicating all the way ("angle up," "raise your ass a bit," "move the tip of your cock down and forward," etc.), and focusing on learning how you two can get it right. It's probably going to be awkward, but that's okay because those situations plus good humor and laughter produces the best sex, IMO.

Once you do that and practice a few times, it should become a lot easier - kinda like riding a bike, including the "you can get rusty, but you'll never really forget how" part.

 

[rthnck]

It's all about fitting together like two erotic puzzle pieces but let's give a little visual help

here's a couple of shower scenes: http://www.youporn.com/watch/86

http://www.youporn.com/watch/4620

And here's a couple after youmove tothe bedroom

http://www.youporn.com/watch/1763
http://www.youporn.com/watch/2228
http://www.youporn.com/watch/8435

 

[jva399]

Ass fuck???

I use a lotta lube and have her get on the bed doggystyle & finger her ass pushing lube into her ass I get it all slicked up & my fingerprobing in her ass gets her all worked up...I can then enter her with very little trouble & once i get the rythm going she goes crazy for it. Our angle is just right and she always has me shoot it all over her ass & asscrack & has me lick her clean

 

[an_angels_wings]

All right, then. Experimentation it is.

Thanks for all your help, everyone.

 

[glynndah]

Do not rely on the faucet or handheld shower for total support. A plumbing emergency will definitely kill the mood.

 

[rosebud5446]

i don't know if it's mabye you aren't arching your back? that is one key to rear entry. you're probably already doing that, but... just in case.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

There's something really wrong with you if you can't figure out how to get fucked from behind.

It should be an instinctual thing to do, you can't go around ASKING how to do it.

Work it out, work it out together, nobody here can help you because they don't know how your bodies fit together.

The only way it won't happen is if his dick is so tiny it keeps slipping out, or if your ass cheeks are so massive that his cock can't find its way in.

The End.

 

[lettinggo]

We just can't get it to happen in the shower. He's quite a bit taller than me, but regardless (and probably due to my large behind) it just doesn't work. We can use as much lube as we want in the shower, and he slides right into my ass. Fortunately for me, I like that.

We also can't easily get him in if we're lying face down or on our sides unless we use a lot of lube. And we hate lube, so that's rare. If I lie down and he kneels, or if I'm on my knees, he slides right in.

So I guess I'm saying, like everyone else, that you need to experiment. Then continue doing what works and throw out what doesn't.

 

[Not Normal]

You might try lying on your stomach with a pillow under your hips.

 

[lindahotstuff]

Doggie

I love it doggie. As other people have said, it's much easier in bed when you can go on hands and knees and your man can slide in easily from behind. What I love about this is that i can reach between my legs and play with my clit and reach further and play with his balls. Also, I love it when he reaches around and plays with my boobs as he is doing me.
The only satisfactory we do it in th shower is using a plastic stool. My man sits on it and I straddle him with my bum towards him and slide onto him. All the same feelings are possible with the added feature of having the shower going.
Lin

 

[Evil Kirk]

The sex organs should have been placed directly in the palms. It would have made things a lot easier.

 

[daylightwarrior]

I'm very tall, but also fairly strong. I solved this by picking her up and going at it while she hangs onto something. We've been pretty happy with the results.

 

[Mr.G]

Damn

""There's something really wrong with you if you can't figure out how to get fucked from behind.It should be an instinctual thing to do, you can't go around ASKING how to do it.Work it out, work it out together, nobody here can help you because they don't know how your bodies fit together.The only way it won't happen is if his dick is so tiny it keeps slipping out, or if your ass cheeks are so MASSIVE that his cock can't find its way in.""

Brutal.

Completely true and fucking OBVIOUS but .... BRUTAL.

One can only hope somebody like Eating never gets into Politics. How would we all cope with logic and honesty... even if it was BRUTAL ?

 

[helix27]

umm dont know if its already been brought up but... Try getting on you knees, on the floorm in front of your bed. Have him get on his knees ehind you and enter you that way. Thats always worked for me. I had one long time g/f that was a good bit shorter then me. We could not for the life of us have sex in the shower. Just didnt work with our heights. Good luck.

 

[liberatedslave]

Try getting on all fours and spread your legs so that he is kneeling between them. Tilt your ass and arch your back to display everything.

Even if you're leggy and he has to kneel on a pillow to make the height difference this should be straightforward.

If he fails at that buy him a white cane and a silicone pussy. Then leave.

 

[an_angels_wings]

Try getting on all fours and spread your legs so that he is kneeling between them. Tilt your ass and arch your back to display everything.

Even if you're leggy and he has to kneel on a pillow to make the height difference this should be straightforward.

If he fails at that buy him a white cane and a silicone pussy. Then leave.

rofl, interesting.

Thanks again ... instinctual or not, I figured it couldn't hurt to ask for advice from other people who clearly have much more experience than I. The first time we tried it we just kept falling over laughing and then ended up doing something else instead. So, in the meanwhile, before we had the chance to try it again, I assumed it would be nice to see how others have conquered this position.

Oh well, the experimentation is fun.

 

[EveAnna]

Not sure if this one had been mentioned but try the sitting technique. Get him to sit, on the bed maybe, then with your back to him and his legs closed, straddle him. You can do this lying down too - riding but facing the wrong way. You control the movement and the penetration.

Or if all else fails just do doggy on all fours.