The power dynamic between being clothed and nude?

[Escierto]

One thing I have noticed in the sexual relations between me and my trans girlfriend is that I am nearly always naked when she fucks me while she is partially clothed.

I have been wondering if there is a power dynamic at work there? Is it more submissive to be nude and more dominant to be clothed?

I don't really know and I am curious to hear what people think.

 

[CherryCupcake]

It's all context derived. There is no one way. if your partner wants you naked then you can gain power by stripping off your clothes and showing your desire for sex. If they do not, it makes you an idiot.Pay attention to your partner. That's what will lead to the best result.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Since I wear panties, most of the guys where I have just planned to sucked them off prefer to see me in my panties. No shirt, shoes or anything, just my sweet pink (or lavender) panties

 

[Escierto]

Since I wear panties, most of the guys where I have just planned to sucked them off prefer to see me in my panties. No shirt, shoes or anything, just my sweet pink (or lavender) panties

Does showing them you in your panties feel submissive? Are they wearing clothes and you only panties?

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Does showing them you in your panties feel submissive? Are they wearing clothes and you only panties?

Yes it does!!! I love to show off my sexy feminine side. Most times they are seated on the couch with their pants and drawers down to their ankles. Occasionally if they are not in such a rush, I get them to get at least bottomless, pants, undies, and shoes.
Again this is not the life I dream of, it's the life that current events seem to afford me lately.

 

[HollyS]

I think one clothed and the other nude definitely creates a power dynamic. On which side the power lies is situational, even with the same two people.

Sometimes, with my husband dressed and me nude, he has the power because I am the subservient one, the one on my knees - the one who is more vulnerable.

At other times, him being clothed and me being nude puts me in the position of power, because I am the goddess, the object of his desire, the one who will allow him to disrobe and touch me if it pleases me. I have what he wants.

Same two people, and in these scenarios, the same one is dressed and nude, but utterly different dynamics.

That's why life is interesting!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I think one clothed and the other nude definitely creates a power dynamic. On which side the power lies is situational, even with the same two people.

Sometimes, with my husband dressed and me nude, he has the power because I am the subservient one, the one on my knees - the one who is more vulnerable.

At other times, him being clothed and me being nude puts me in the position of power, because I am the goddess, the object of his desire, the one who will allow him to disrobe and touch me if it pleases me. I have what he wants.

Same two people, and in these scenarios, the same one is dressed and nude, but utterly different dynamics.

That's why life is interesting!

Well said!!!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I think one clothed and the other nude definitely creates a power dynamic. On which side the power lies is situational, even with the same two people.

Sometimes, with my husband dressed and me nude, he has the power because I am the subservient one, the one on my knees - the one who is more vulnerable.

At other times, him being clothed and me being nude puts me in the position of power, because I am the goddess, the object of his desire, the one who will allow him to disrobe and touch me if it pleases me. I have what he wants.

Same two people, and in these scenarios, the same one is dressed and nude, but utterly different dynamics.

That's why life is interesting!

 

[Escierto]

I think one clothed and the other nude definitely creates a power dynamic. On which side the power lies is situational, even with the same two people.

Sometimes, with my husband dressed and me nude, he has the power because I am the subservient one, the one on my knees - the one who is more vulnerable.

At other times, him being clothed and me being nude puts me in the position of power, because I am the goddess, the object of his desire, the one who will allow him to disrobe and touch me if it pleases me. I have what he wants.

Same two people, and in these scenarios, the same one is dressed and nude, but utterly different dynamics.

That's why life is interesting!

Yes, indeed.

 

[magic_rat]

I have been wondering if there is a power dynamic at work there?

It's your relationship, your dynamic. Maybe you should tell us. All relationships are different.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have always like clothed women — preferably in a skirt or a dress

 

[SPARTAN047]

I don't think it's necessary, really, it's possible for your girlfriend to be naked and you clothed while you have to service her. Suck her cock, lick her arse, lick her bare skin all over her body and please her while you're ignored while dressed at least for a little while. Then she might not let you undress, she rubs your cock through your jeans, trousers or briefs until you cum and only takes it out if you're a good boy, for example.

I suppose the dominant usually sets all or most of those conditions for orgasms and what kind of sex but the submissive decides the limits and if they want to go along with it at all. When I realized that even a dominant can order a submissive to spank them while naked, I knew that most of these power dynamics can go any way.

 

[Escierto]

I don't think it's necessary, really, it's possible for your girlfriend to be naked and you clothed while you have to service her. Suck her cock, lick her arse, lick her bare skin all over her body and please her while you're ignored while dressed at least for a little while. Then she might not let you undress, she rubs your cock through your jeans, trousers or briefs until you cum and only takes it out if you're a good boy, for example.

I suppose the dominant usually sets all or most of those conditions for orgasms and what kind of sex but the submissive decides the limits and if they want to go along with it at all. When I realized that even a dominant can order a submissive to spank them while naked, I knew that most of these power dynamics can go any way.

That's true. The last time we were together I decided that I needed to take some control even in a very indirect way to get what I want instead of just being hurt and mad. Which worked really well and I don't know why it hadn't occurred to me before.

 

[SPARTAN047]

That's true. The last time we were together I decided that I needed to take some control even in a very indirect way to get what I want instead of just being hurt and mad. Which worked really well and I don't know why it hadn't occurred to me before.

Exactly, I realized that I couldn't argue my way into getting some of my needs met so instead of being hurt and mad that my lovers wouldn't please me, I just tried working some ways of taking control or getting pleased indirectly, in a baby girl tone, or perhaps in ways which would please them too anyway.

 

[Escierto]

Exactly right. I wrote about my little maneuver in this thread:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/how-i-learned-from-what-women-have-always-known.1620639/

 

[SPARTAN047]

Exactly right. I wrote about my little maneuver in this thread:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/how-i-learned-from-what-women-have-always-known.1620639/

Read it, well done. I've walked around naked and teased my lovers into bed or fucking me sometimes too, though more often than not anyone I had sex with will get their clothes and mine off even if drunk sometimes. I'm occasionally the one avoiding sex but get fucked anyway.

 

[Escierto]

Read it, well done. I've walked around naked and teased my lovers into bed or fucking me sometimes too, though more often than not anyone I had sex with will get their clothes and mine off even if drunk sometimes. I'm occasionally the one avoiding sex but get fucked anyway.

Later, thinking about it, I wondered why just being naked in front of her had never occurred to me before? What an idiot! She loves looking at my ass and she just can't resist it once she sees it.

So why hadn't I been doing this all along? Somehow I took letting her drive in our sexual relationship go too far to the point where I gave up all control whatsoever. Of course showing her my naked ass is a little manipulative but it's not like she HAS to fuck it once she sees it lol.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Later, thinking about it, I wondered why just being naked in front of her had never occurred to me before? What an idiot! She loves looking at my ass and she just can't resist it once she sees it.

So why hadn't I been doing this all along? Somehow I took letting her drive in our sexual relationship go too far to the point where I gave up all control whatsoever. Of course showing her my naked ass is a little manipulative but it's not like she HAS to fuck it once she sees it lol.

Yes, if you don't take some control in your relationship your partner will.

I suppose it's a little manipulative, but it's like your girlfriend showing you her cock and arse, or even tits.