The New Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Curious_in_Cali]

You... you... you Californian, you!

Like, totally guilty, Dude! Or something...

 

[cfuhrer]

I am really not qualified to be doing this.
I'm flattered you have the confidence in my abilities to think I can.
I hope your confidence and my lack of knowledge don't combine to cost me a job that I otherwise quite enjoy.

 

[MeekMe]

Huh, I never read those comments like that.
I usually like when someone tries a recipe of mine and makes modifications and I often keep developing them myself. I guess I consider them open source.

When I cook something completely knew, I usually look through lots of recipes to look for commonalities and differences. Then I weigh them against what I already know about cooking. The endresult is often not exactly like any of the recipes I started with.

If I make a recipe exactly like it was written, it's because I want to get to know how the person who made the recipe thinks it should taste and that is hardly ever the case with things I find on a post your recipy site.

I cook like this as well, often only referencing a recipe or a few for similarities.

The problem I have is people who pretty much change the original recipe and then rate the recipe poorly. Often, there is no mention of having tried the original recipe. Trying the original and rating it is appropriate. Changing several items and then giving it a poor rating seems silly, after all, the recipe they are rating isn't what they made.

Otherwise my cooking is done without recipes and measurements. ^_^ I generally look at recipes for things I've never made before, or sensitive foods that require precision.

 

[MeekMe]

Chef Blackstock had something to say about this practice.

^_^ This was perfect! So funny!

 

[IrisAlthea]

I cook like this as well, often only referencing a recipe or a few for similarities.

The problem I have is people who pretty much change the original recipe and then rate the recipe poorly. Often, there is no mention of having tried the original recipe. Trying the original and rating it is appropriate. Changing several items and then giving it a poor rating seems silly, after all, the recipe they are rating isn't what they made.

Otherwise my cooking is done without recipes and measurements. ^_^ I generally look at recipes for things I've never made before, or sensitive foods that require precision.

Yes, the rating thing seems stupid.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Good: making the right call on a on-the-fly lump removal, decent day at work followed by a proper ENTIRE WEEKEND off, alcohol, SALTED CARAMEL TIMTAMS, weed, alcohol, killing Malthiel (albeit, only on Hard)

Bad: well damn if I'm having a hard time thinking of a "bad" for today!! I guess I had to wake up early to get to work. That's about it!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yesterday was full of good news/bad news from various people who are important to me;

My daughter called to tell me that she'd just gotten a substantial raise!
And then an hour later called saying "talk me down, I just had to call an ambulance, someone had a heart attack in my store."

My sister called, saying; "Hold my hand, I'm waiting for a business call!" and while we were talking, suddenly said-- "there's my call, I have to go."

My mother said; "I feel so much better today!"
And then she told me she doesn't need her oxygen tube as much as she used to.

 

[kiwi_submissive]

What the hell was I thinking when I agreed to be a sadistic rope workshop demo bunny *sigh*

 

[Stella_Omega]

What the hell was I thinking when I agreed to be a sadistic rope workshop demo bunny *sigh*

Your eyes were bigger than your mouth?

Or something like that.

 

[Loverskitten]

That's it, I'm moving!

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

The thing I like about booties is, they don't need explainin'.

 

[cfuhrer]

The thing I like about booties is, they don't need explainin'.

Tell us more about that. Lol

 

[OzoneRed]

What the hell was I thinking when I agreed to be a sadistic rope workshop demo bunny *sigh*

Where? When? Who's selling tickets?

 

[LallyH]

I don't know if this is habit peculiar to UK men, but why do they feel the urge to wind their windows down and shout comments as they drive past women pedestrians? What do they get out of it?

I've no idea whether the remarks are intended as insults or compliments (although one guy today did follow his shout with a universal gesture) as it's difficult to hear precise diction when it flies past you at x miles an hour. Baffling...

 

[Stella_Omega]

I don't know if this is habit peculiar to UK men, but why do they feel the urge to wind their windows down and shout comments as they drive past women pedestrians? What do they get out of it?

I've no idea whether the remarks are intended as insults or compliments (although one guy today did follow his shout with a universal gesture) as it's difficult to hear precise diction when it flies past you at x miles an hour. Baffling...

I used to get them too, just walking in London. I came home in tears once. It wasn't 'hubba hubba baby" it was hateful. My then husband walked behind me once, and he was shaken at the venom.

Once, I said to a guy "You know, I really fancied you, and you had to open your mouth."

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Yeah, ^ stuff is puzzling to me too. I think for me it's more about having no idea what the right response is. I had a guy friend tell me it's maybe crass, but it's a compliment and not be upset by it. Another reminded me to not walk alone streetside when I am looking nice, which is totally practical advice.

It doesn't really feel like a compliment in the moment that that they drive by and I'm truly curious if they must expect me to shout, "THANKYOUDUDE!!" or pound my chest or curtesy or ...?

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Tell us more about that. Lol

I was talking to this woman the other night and she said, "I'm not sure I really fully understand, from an evolutionary perspective, men's obsession with women's butts. I understand that a greater fat reserve is useful for surviving lean times, but is that really enough? The flared hips suggest greater ability in successful childbearing, and breasts key on our desire for our offspring to be nourished to independence, but the ass, I just don't know."

I told her I didn't want to have anal sex with her anymore, anyway.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Yeah, ^ stuff is puzzling to me too. I think for me it's more about having no idea what the right response is. I had a guy friend tell me it's maybe crass, but it's a compliment and not be upset by it. Another reminded me to not walk alone streetside when I am looking nice, which is totally practical advice.

It doesn't really feel like a compliment in the moment that that they drive by and I'm truly curious if they must expect me to shout, "THANKYOUDUDE!!" or curtesy or ...?

I think the venom kind is contempt and not compliment.
Like Stella said, it's not at all the same as the hubba hubba construction site whistling, which can be awkward and annoying but not...ugh.

 

[CutieMouse]

The thing I like about booties is, they don't need explainin'.

I was talking to this woman the other night and she said, "I'm not sure I really fully understand, from an evolutionary perspective, men's obsession with women's butts. I understand that a greater fat reserve is useful for surviving lean times, but is that really enough? The flared hips suggest greater ability in successful childbearing, and breasts key on our desire for our offspring to be nourished to independence, but the ass, I just don't know."

I told her I didn't want to have anal sex with her anymore, anyway.

Wow. And I thought I was sometimes too intellectual/ analytical about things...

*blink*

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

I think the venom kind is contempt and not compliment.
Like Stella said, it's not at all the same as the hubba hubba construction site whistling, which can be awkward and annoying but not...ugh.

I hear ya. He held that any response was a sort of compliment, so long as I was not threatened. I tried asking him where that line was, but we never really came to a satisfying place of agreement. I still have to question the desired response if it is intentionally venomous, though.

An animal calls out for a response typically, so what is the desired response? An acknowledgement? An apology? What?

Or maybe I am actually just curious about why.

 

[LallyH]

An animal calls out for a response typically, so what is the desired response? An acknowledgement? An apology? What?

Or maybe I am actually just curious about why.

That's exactly what I don't understand - if they're driving past even at a leisurely 30 miles an hour, they're never going to hear a response anyway? So what on earth do they get out of it?

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

That's exactly what I don't understand - if they're driving past even at a leisurely 30 miles an hour, they're never going to hear a response anyway? So what on earth do they get out of it?

Some sort of verbal orgasm maybe?

 

[BiBunny]

That's exactly what I don't understand - if they're driving past even at a leisurely 30 miles an hour, they're never going to hear a response anyway? So what on earth do they get out of it?

Knowing they got your attention? The thrill of just being an asshat, maybe? Men are objectively disgusting for the most part.

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

I was talking to this woman the other night and she said, "I'm not sure I really fully understand, from an evolutionary perspective, men's obsession with women's butts. I understand that a greater fat reserve is useful for surviving lean times, but is that really enough? The flared hips suggest greater ability in successful childbearing, and breasts key on our desire for our offspring to be nourished to independence, but the ass, I just don't know."

Totally gratuitass.

 

[seela]

I need another weekend to recover from the weekend. J's parents were visiting.

Who knew there are adults in this country who do not recognize the parliament building when they see it.